19, not good looking, never had a girlfriend...

Surgery if you're american..

I'm 19 (boy) and have never had a girlfriend. I think I'm not really that good looking and for that reason don't even try getting one. In terms of girlfriends I have absolute 0 confidence.

I mean I can't imagine anyone really wanting to be with me because of my looks. My personality is rather positive, but not my look.

What can I do about that?

Switch to the other hand to mix things up. Change hands each month as a treat. Maybe even try doing it standing up? In the garden? On your own face?

Reply 42

Catch 22

Original post by air-ninety-one

well i had no idea women ever had a problem with mens heights. this is new to me. i havent myself ever had the problem so i thought maybe it wouldnt (and really shouldnt) exist. its not thiier fault if there short. and + arent women way shorter than men in general?

What are you on about? Women are well short if you're 6'4" like me.

go out with me.
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Original post by air-ninety-one

well i had no idea women ever had a problem with mens heights. this is new to me. i havent myself ever had the problem so i thought maybe it wouldnt (and really shouldnt) exist. its not thiier fault if there short. and + arent women way shorter than men in general?

Then you obviously haven't talked to many women.

Reply 45

Climbontoyourseahorse

9

Have you come to the conclusion that you are (supposedly) unattractive because you have never had a girlfriend? If so, you're wrong. There are plenty of people who are really very attractive but have either never been in a relationship or have been in very few. The number of relationships a person has been in does not indicate their level of attractiveness.

You've already highlighted the reason you haven't had a girlfriend - and it is not to do with your appearance. It's about your confidence, or your lack of it. If you act like you are worth something, other people will start to think the same about you. This applies to everything in general and not just your love life.

Reply 46

sophisticated

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Original post by m.i.e

Then you obviously haven't talked to many women.

How would you know? Just because you've "seen some surveys" on the internet or "read some magazines" which tell you that women have a problem with height? That seems to be your common reasoning for making foolish generalised statements.

Puh-lease.

Reply 47

m.i.e

Original post by sophisticated

How would you know? Just because you've "seen some surveys" on the internet or "read some magazines" which tell you that women have a problem with height? That seems to be your common reasoning for making foolish generalised statements.

Puh-lease.

Yes, I base my views solely on those things you mention.

:facepalm:

Reply 48

sophisticated

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Original post by m.i.e

Yes, I base my views solely on those things you mention.

:facepalm:

Well, judging from your previous posts that does indeed seem to be the case, and if you're anything like that hxx troll we had a few months ago who spouted pretty much the same rubbish as you're spouting now, then I definitely wouldn't be surprised.

What do you base your views on then, pray tell? I hope its something that gives a good representation of the entire female species without question.

Stop whining

Original post by sophisticated

Well, judging from your previous posts that does indeed seem to be the case, and if you're anything like that hxx troll we had a few months ago who spouted pretty much the same rubbish as you're spouting now, then I definitely wouldn't be surprised.

What do you base your views on then, pray tell? I hope its something that gives a good representation of the entire female species without question.

Funny how you call it rubbish when it's so glaringly obvious that I'm speaking the truth. I guess you're one of the people who can confirm that ignorance really is bliss.

A few examples for you:

http://vimeo.com/6780321

http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/standard/article-23786572-joes-won-the-x-factor-but-still-comes-up-short.do

http://www.shortsupport.org/News/0219.html

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8085496

http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg16522216.900

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2190461.stm

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=123853&page=2

And there is a lot more evidence to back me up.

Reply 51

mattyb17

1

Same here, but I'm 18 and not too bothered about it

:ahee:

Reply 52

sophisticated

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Original post by m.i.e

Funny how you call it rubbish when it's so glaringly obvious that I'm speaking the truth. I guess you're one of the people who can confirm that ignorance really is bliss.

A few examples for you:

http://vimeo.com/6780321

http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/standard/article-23786572-joes-won-the-x-factor-but-still-comes-up-short.do

http://www.shortsupport.org/News/0219.html

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/8085496

http://www.newscientist.com/article/mg16522216.900

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/2190461.stm

http://abcnews.go.com/2020/story?id=123853&page=2

And there is a lot more evidence to back me up.

Despite all these links, which only use the words "more likely" anyway (hardly concrete evidence), I still have to disagree and call claptrap on you, as I know of plenty of guys who are shorter than average and have still been highly successful with many women, including with me! Some things are more important than height, like personality (before you attempt to bring in penis size there, I've seen your other posts).

Furthermore, the same kind of scientific theories also state that men are "more likely" to be attracted to women with large hips and curves as they demonstrate a child-bearing motherly figure...yet you still see plenty of skinny girls with boyfriends don't you? Yes, would be your answer. So these kind of theories aren't gospel.

I am pretty convinced, after all this, that you are infact hxx in another form, as I've seen multiple usernames come back after he was banned for pedalling the same rubbish around this forum and you're sounding very much like him. You're a relatively new user, same as all the others were who all got banned for bullying women with generalised statements, so I really wouldn't be surprised.

Reply 53

HumanNature1992

13

It's a numbers game, the more women you meet the higher the chances you have of getting a GF.

SO, get a nice haircut, some nice clothes, put a nice smile on your face and go outside and meet women!

If this all fails hire MTV MADE, the loser guys always end up getting the girls! :cool:

Reply 54

air-ninety-one

Original post by m.i.e

Then you obviously haven't talked to many women.

your a disappointing human being

Reply 55

Catch 22

Original post by sophisticated

Well, judging from your previous posts that does indeed seem to be the case, and if you're anything like that hxx troll we had a few months ago who spouted pretty much the same rubbish as you're spouting now, then I definitely wouldn't be surprised.

What do you base your views on then, pray tell? I hope its something that gives a good representation of the entire female species without question.

Chill out.

Reply 56

m.i.i

Original post by sophisticated

Despite all these links, which only use the words "more likely" anyway (hardly concrete evidence), I still have to disagree and call claptrap on you, as I know of plenty of guys who are shorter than average and have still been highly successful with many women, including with me! Some things are more important than height, like personality (before you attempt to bring in penis size there, I've seen your other posts).

Right, so just because you know some short guys who are successful with women, it means that all short men can be just as successful? Are you really so freaking naïve and ignorant that you don't believe that short men are considered unattractive by the vast majority of women.
If yes, then there's no point in continuing this discussion and you can keep on living in your little fantasy world.

Reply 57

sophisticated

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Original post by m.i.i

Right, so just because you know some short guys who are successful with women, it means that all short men can be just as successful? Are you really so freaking naïve and ignorant that you don't believe that short men are considered unattractive by the vast majority of women.
If yes, then there's no point in continuing this discussion and you can keep on living in your little fantasy world.

Pipe down hxx. I'm not the one who lives in a fantasy world. You really are an idiot, I have no idea why I bother responding to you but here goes;

How can you talk about the "majority of women"??? You have NO IDEA what the majority of women think about height when it comes to guys. Every situation is different. A girl might be attracted to one short guy but not another. That will probably have nothing to do with their height. Appearances aren't everything!!!(how many times I've had to repeat this, I've lost count.) Sometimes, its more about personality. Although, maybe you've never been with a girl who likes you just for your personality, because your personality appears to be non-existent as you're so immersed in your own insecurities about your lacking attributes, as it were.

Reply 58

MR.PINK

11

still son, u dont look like the real life mclovin
cuz trust i know a kid who does!!
i got a link if anyone is interested :ninja:

Reply 59

m.i.i

Original post by sophisticated

Pipe down hxx. I'm not the one who lives in a fantasy world. You really are an idiot, I have no idea why I bother responding to you but here goes;

How can you talk about the "majority of women"??? You have NO IDEA what the majority of women think about height when it comes to guys. Every situation is different. A girl might be attracted to one short guy but not another. That will probably have nothing to do with their height. Appearances aren't everything!!!(how many times I've had to repeat this, I've lost count.) Sometimes, its more about personality. Although, maybe you've never been with a girl who likes you just for your personality, because your personality appears to be non-existent as you're so immersed in your own insecurities about your lacking attributes, as it were.

Meh. And I don't know why I even bother replying to such a ignorant, deluded, pathetic and imbecilic c*nt like you. It's obvious that you live in a fantasy world and you refuse to believe my correct description of women, even though it's so glaringly obvious that I'm right.

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