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    (Original post by varunjog)
    I texted this girl I like 'I'm bored'.
    She replies 'Find something fun to do!'
    I said 'Are you fun?'
    And now she hasn't replied for the past 15 minutes. We're good friends so it's not like I hardly know her. I thought this would probably be a fun way of telling her how I feel about her.
    Hahaha. I'd laugh & find it funny.

    If I was into you I'd play along.
    If I wasn't, I'd still reply, but divert your attention.
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    I'd probably smile and just not reply because I wouldn't really know what to say.
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    your problem lies here.

    you asked 'are you fun?'
    you should already know if she's fun if you're 'good' friends.
    its insulting to ask anyone if their fun, even when you do know them.
    not only this but if you like her, you're really going the wrong way about it

    be more... romantic i guess?
    no wonder chivalry is dead if you are straight off implying you want to do her?

    be like, you're a really great person, texting you makes me smile, im not bored when i text you.
    & you might get a reply.

    apologise for your bad manners, and get in what you feel about her subutley
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    First of all, if you want to tell a person you like them, you doing it completely wrong. If I personally received that text from a close friend, I would automatically assume they were joking. If you wanted a reply in return, you should have asked her how she is, or what she's up to etc.

    Secondly, 15 minutes is nothing. Sometimes, I don't text back after hours and it's never been an issue.

    If you're so keen on her, tell her directly and not by text.
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    (Original post by JazzyBär)
    Why though? If you know someone pretty well you'd take it as a joke and forget about it. if you take everything to heart these days, your doomed.
    And if this lads fairly dumb and jokey anyway, it wont make a difference.

    Only if its out of the ordinary. Everyone who is posting is acting like he said it to you... think of his situation.
    If you know someone well you'd expect them not to say stuff like this. It's not just rude, but also creepy... 'are you fun(I'd like to do you)?' would normally not impress even a skank. Guys would find it hilarious, but this guy's not gay, is he?

    ONLY if this guy was really charming and if I liked him, would I find it remotely funny. Since I don't know OP personally, I can't vouch for him. I know guys like this, though. And they're all single and creepy. No offence, OP.

    Besides, he asked how a girl would react. He knew the risks.
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    (Original post by edd360)
    Well I don't know what's going on here, coz I could text about 10 different girls saying "I'm bored" and within seconds I'd have replies saying like "be there in 10" etc. That's actually how I cunningly arranged my first foursome.
    I hope you're joking, otherwise you're a total douchelord.
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    I texted this girl I like 'I'm bored'.
    She replies 'Find something fun to do!'
    I said 'Are you fun?'
    And now she hasn't replied for the past 15 minutes. We're good friends so it's not like I hardly know her. I thought this would probably be a fun way of telling her how I feel about her.
    I'd think that was really sweet

    Just a bit difficult to reply to, whether she likes you or not. If I did like you, I'd probably ignore that message though I'd be smiling to myself over it.

    If you socialise with her and like her, she already knows it. Very hard to find those things. So all you've done is put it out there in the open, and the next move is hers.
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    i think it'd depend on what kind of things she laughs at..
    does she usually find things like that funny?
    if not then she may of found it a little rude - or a bit forward.

    My advice is; just text her again and apologise, say you were only messing.

    imo, there are a lot better ways of telling her that you like her. you should just say it straight out, or tell her she's beautiful or something similar.
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    I want to start a topic, 'why is varunjog so pathetic'?

    At least that will be less pointless then his threads.
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    That's funny! lol x I expect she's trying to work out what it means lol x
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    I texted this girl I like 'I'm bored'.
    She replies 'Find something fun to do!'
    I said 'Are you fun?'
    And now she hasn't replied for the past 15 minutes. We're good friends so it's not like I hardly know her. I thought this would probably be a fun way of telling her how I feel about her.
    15 minutes? Sometimes I take hours to reply. Give her some space, she's not hounding her phone 24/7 waiting for that text from you.
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    hahaha. genius
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    Would have gave me a laugh :rofl:
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    (Original post by varunjog)
    What's wrong with texting 'I'm bored'?
    Women like interesting guys that do things. If you can't amuse yourself how would you amuse her ?

    Also what the hell is she supposed to say ? There is not real reply to that. You've started and ended the conversation on your own.

    Also I don't know about everybody else but it annoys me when people text things I can't text back to. You aren't really giving her anything to work with so even if she wants to text back she can't really.
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    Next time, try and get her attention by texting something random, like buzz lightyear has a goat. I don't know if that would work but I wanna know if it does!
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    Who said every text you send a girl has to be super interesting? Double standard, IMO. Next time you see her punch her in the face.
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    Lool, i would find it quite funny and brush it off .. her vagina's probably bleeding if she gets emotional bout it lol.

    - but i dont think thats the right way of tellin her you like her tho ...
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    Tbf I'd find that pretty funny and probably play along.. but I know many who wouldn't!
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    (Original post by charlieebabehhx)
    you asked 'are you fun?'
    you should already know if she's fun if you're 'good' friends.
    its insulting to ask anyone if their fun, even when you do know them.
    not only this but if you like her, you're really going the wrong way about it
    i think you've sort of missed the joke.

    to the TS well obviously the problem is you didn't use a winky face, *****es love the winky face

    but seriously if she can't take it as a bit of fun then i wouldn't even bother with her.
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    Did she text you back yet? :cool:
 
 
 
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