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    Nearly...Well...alright I'm about 7 years away from that, but it seems like nearly.
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    i god damn hope not....
    if this is the case, i'd recommend they visit one of these:

    Fun time! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red-light_district
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    (Original post by Neil_K)
    This is that the problem a lot of women who are 'too picky' in their younger years have....as soon as they get into their late 20s/early 30s and beyond, their appeal to men rapidly diminishes. They then start getting desperate because men stop paying them as much attention.

    Women have a much smaller time-frame in order to attract a man. And all the games women play in their late teens and early 20s don't work when they get into their 30s. 40s etc.

    It's admirable that you have stuck to your own beliefs/morals regarding sex, but reality is, what has it gotten you? No men. No sex. And now you're at an age where you're starting to get desperate for male attention and sex, and in reality it's going to be harder to find a guy once you get over 30.

    If you don't start having sex soon, your opportunities are going to diminish rapidly as you get into your 30s and beyond; you will no longer be the 'chooser', you will no longer have the choice you had in your early 20s.

    Once a woman's looks start to fade, her opportunities for male attention will dry up.

    That's why I cringe when women in their late teens to mid 20s are 'picky with men'...they think they will always have men chasing them, but really once they get past their prime, male attention will calm down and these women will be lonely and desperate middle aged women who will take any man who shows them attention. I've seen it all before...these younger women who are 'strong and independent' and 'don't need a man'....then they get a bit older and realise that they can no longer attract men as easily, and they get really desperate for male attention.

    Men, on the other hand, get better and more attractive to women with age and therefore we don't have this problem.
    I completely disagree with that. I'm sure you've heard the term '****' my friend.

    Furthermore, as for the bolded part I think you're getting confused. By that logic, women would find sixty and seventy year old men attractive. However they don't. The reason why women often go for old men is to put it bluntly, money not the man himself. A poor middle aged man has no chance with a young woman over his younger counterpart, mark my words m8. :rolleyes:
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    BRITAIN'S oldest virgin who celebrates her 105th birthday this weekend says no sex is the secret to her long life.
    And the secret to the end of the human species too!
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    (Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom)
    I stopped attracting guys when I was 16 :emo:
    Now that's not true.
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    (Original post by mau5)
    Shouldn't really be on this forum at any age really.
    Never have truer words been spoken my TSR fwend. :daydreaming:
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    (Original post by lovely_me)
    I completely disagree with that. I'm sure you've heard the term '****' my friend.

    Furthermore, as for the bolded part I think you're getting confused. By that logic, women would find sixty and seventy year old men attractive. However they don't. The reason why women often go for old men is to put it bluntly, money not the man himself. A poor middle aged man has no chance with a young woman over his younger counterpart, mark my words m8. :rolleyes:
    my ex was a broke street busker age 40 when i was 21 and i loved him and wanted to marry him. in fact, i still do
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    (Original post by shinytoy)
    naw dude thats fine. i know some hot :eek: muscly dudes at my gym who are 22-24 and virgins. they are all muslim though.

    im catholic and gonna be in my late twenties next year, dont believe in sex before marriage but at the same time have never had a bf who respected my beliefs long eough to have a proepr relationship. most dudes just wanna sleep about and dont value God or marriage. but now im nearly late twenties, looks like i might never meet anyone better start f*king
    Am I mistaken, or were you considering an escort?

    To be fair, I don't know any Catholics who are saving themselves...
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    I'm not 30 yet, but predict I'll still be a virgin <--- I can predict the future
    Personal choice.
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    (Original post by imsobored.)
    Am I mistaken, or were you considering an escort?

    To be fair, I don't know any Catholics who are saving themselves...

    dude if im still a virgin at 30, and my biological clock is ticking like a time bomb and my hormones have built up so bad that i cant sleep and have carpet burns on my legs from humping my bed everynight then yeah i will need it bad with a professional hottie.

    i dont know any catholics full stop. christianity in the UK is a dead cause.
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    (Original post by Psyk)
    Now that's not true.
    Oh yeah, I didn't count the ones from the internet :p:
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    (Original post by CherryCherryBoomBoom)
    Oh yeah, I didn't count the ones from the internet :p:
    If I didn't count people from the Internet, I'd still be a virgin.
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    (Original post by shinytoy)
    following on from another thread about virgins over 20, is anyone over 30 on tsr and still one?

    if so, why?

    do you have any regrets and what would you have done differently.

    any advice for younger folks?

    no trolls, nasty people or kids under 18 please.
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    I was 31 when I lost my virginity. I just didn't want to do it with anyone, I wanted to wait until I met someone special- she is now my wife.
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    (Original post by shinytoy)
    dude if im still a virgin at 30, and my biological clock is ticking like a time bomb and my hormones have built up so bad that i cant sleep and have carpet burns on my legs from humping my bed everynight then yeah i will need it bad with a professional hottie.

    i dont know any catholics full stop. christianity in the UK is a dead cause.
    I don't know I was 'meant' to be a Catholic, but here I am in atheist glory. Gotta say though, not being up my own rear or anything, but I think aside from not believing in God I've got the rest nailed. I'm the best Catholic in Yorkshire. The ones that call themselves Catholic, that I know, are whores
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    (Original post by rylit91)
    I'm a guy....
    :eek:Nooooooooooo!!!!!!!!:eek::blah::coffee::devil::eek3::eek2::eek::eek4::gunfire:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    same man..i'm 17 and havent even hugged anyone of the opposite sex..
    i dont have a da..no brother family or guys friends so i have NEVER huggend a guy..
    i'm actually considering askin someone.it's not like i'm asking for a kiss on the lips or sez..just HUG..
    really!? Awww I'd give a nice cuddle. If you asked for a hug you'd probably get one, for those who deny them...are monsters!:eek:
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    (Original post by OceanInTheSky)
    Nearly...Well...alright I'm about 7 years away from that, but it seems like nearly.
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    (Original post by joey11223)
    really!? Awww I'd give a nice cuddle. If you asked for a hug you'd probably get one, for those who deny them...are monsters!:eek:
    That's a lie, you'd just get laughed at. Lets be real, teenagers aren't nice, even the TSR introverts are cruel :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by Psyk)
    If I didn't count people from the Internet, I'd still be a virgin.
    Aww, you're so sweet :cute:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
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    I was 31 when I lost my virginity. I just didn't want to do it with anyone, I wanted to wait until I met someone special- she is now my wife.
    wow that is awesome!!!!!!
    i knew there would be one at least, and a guy!!!
    that is truly inspirational. people like this give hope to people like me.

    you know, i have been dumped, cheated on and lied to so many times by guys who dont respect my beliefrs about no sex before marriage. as a result of my beliefs i have never had a proper bf and mostly never get past second date since im not putting anything out. they will prefer a girl that does stuff faster.

    as a result, i have started wondering if there is something wrong with me, like aspergers or SAD why i dont just randomly shag a dude to get a bf, since most guys will date a girl who is offering it regular as opposed to one with tha belief.

    did you ever worry what if you didnt get married? like when you were my age (25) did you start thinking you might not meet anyone? dod any of your friends know your beliefs? im a girl and my feinsds would laugh at me. all they know is im always single and think im probabyl gay. were you ever tempted to get an escort at age 28 or so like i was gonna? are you indian or muslim or religious? since those guys are more likely to wait.did you know any other guys over 25 that waited? do you have any regrets?

    thats so awesome and really incredible. i thought i was the only one out there. pm me if you dont want to post on the thread. im so happy to hear from someoen else!!
 
 
 
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