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(Original post by Tyrannosaurus Cal)
That's what I was going for :p: Quite excited that you got it! I was expecting loads of neg rep.
oh good! I was wondering whether it was intentional or not before I quoted you..
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Camaraderie.
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well some guy are sex gods, i know i am just as simple as that :hump:

i take pride in what i do:cool:
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
And, why do they think that watching porn makes them some kind of god in the bedroom? Do guys just watch porn and then imitate what they see?
The thing that annoys me, is that so many guys brag about being so great in bed, but in reality, they aren't all that great. They sleep with a few drunk women, then think they know how to handle a female lol. What is wrong with guys these days? Why brag all the time? Why not walk the walk, instead of talking the talk.
Sounds like you've been having a lot of meaningless sex. No wonder it's crap.
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Op id guess from your comments you are a sack of potatoes that expects the man to do all the work. If so you have to say what you like, any man can be good in bed. I only have one friend who thinks he's a sex god, and apparently he is.
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lol the OP is clearly a ****
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Why do girls blame bad sex on the men. It takes two to tango. And why do girls think they are superior to men when the last several thousand years have proved the opposite, if you were superior you wouldnt feel inferior, duh. Not being sexist, just pointing out the facts of life.

Also, I know for a fact I'm pretty good in bed, I've been 3 different girls 'best' in the past year alone. It doesnt mean everytime I have sex fireworks explode. Sometimes I just cant be arsed to go down on a girl. Sometimes I just wanna nut and run. Sometimes the girl I'm with has no idea what she is doing.

And I havent bragged about sexual prowess or heard any of my friends brag about it since I was 16. Grow up.
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
Why would we take what a guy says with a "pinch of salt" when 99.9% of guys lie to us all the time.
If we told you what we were really thinking you'd go ape**** on us. We have to maintain the delusion that our relationship is perfect in every way because otherwise women are never satisfied.

To take an example from another thread I replied to, if I said to a girl "you **** like a porn star", it's a playful compliment playing on the fact that I'm more than satisfied but I'm saying it like a man. In my mind, the authenticity of the delivery makes it valid. But she wants to hear "you gave me the best sex I've ever had, I love you for being so great at it". To my ears, that sounds false and fairytaley, and anyone could say it. Certainly from my perspective, the first is the truer compliment.

But girls don't want truth, they want a tick-box fairytale.

Sorry for generalisations; cool girls whom this doesn't apply to, you're the gems.
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When i have rep I'm giving you some green, everything is spot on in your post.
HAHA I was just thinking that
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(Original post by CompactDestruction)
Sounds like you've been having a lot of meaningless sex. No wonder it's crap.
Oh feck off, only meaningful sex can be good? Vague notions of affection and sentimentality only go so far- if you don't know how to handle a woman, you just won't cut the grade.

OP, I would be happy to dissuade you of your disappointed opinions. Ever up near Aberdeen?
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The BANTER going on in this thread right now is ridiculous.

Kaitlyn89 I would just take yourself home to look after that kid who's father ran away when you told him you were preggers. I can't think why he did...
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Why do girls think their amazing in bed and only males can be ****?

I've had some absolutely terrible girls in bed. That's why I don't do one night stands anymore, their **** because women rarely make the effort unless their in a relationship, they just expect the man to. And I'm not going to lie, when I want a quickie I'm not going to bother pulling out all the stops just for some **** tbh.

That's in my experience anyway.
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(Original post by Blueflare)
Why do girls think it's their role to judge men for their sexual performances while not considering their own? Why do women think of themselves as godesses who don't have to do anything more than lie back and be pleasured?

Ever noticed how the one common denominator of all of your bad sexual experiences is that you were involved? :holmes:
It takes two to tango.
Well said and I'm glad there's a few females drumming some sense into the OP on this.

One thing I have noticed amongst some women is a tendency to talk like they are the voice of experience on "how men are bad in bed", once one of them says something about it the others will chirp in "oh yes I've had men like that, finish too quickly, can't keep it up, don't know where the G spot is..." What they don't realise is that all they are admitting (if they are telling the truth) is that they are ****s who sleep with loads of very inept men!

I do think as well that sometimes women have double standards about sex, they vociferously defend their right that a woman shouldn't be forced into doing something she doesn't feel comfortable with (which is fair enough) but they are quick to want to be judge and jury of men's sexual prowess and comment negatively on the male gender as a whole as being 'bad in bed'. From a male perspective, there is a big difference in female sexual ability, which largely comes down to confidence and willingness to try different things, but as a man you have to have some patience that some girls won't feel comfortable doing things that others will.

I do appreciate that when you have had great sex with someone, if the next partner is not as good, it does feel disappointing, like a step down, I just think you have to exercise patience. For a while I went out with a girl who was very sexual, very confident in herself sexually, and she loved giving head so she was always giving me deep throating blowjobs and allowing me to be rough with her, it was awesome. Then we split up, and the next girl I was with was a lot more reserved, which fit in with her nature, she would give head but she wasn't as confident and to be honest wasn't very good. I was disappointed at first but I just thought you can't expect everybody to be the same, and gradually at her own pace she got a bit more fiesty with them. But I didn't judge her badly over it, it didn't affect the relationship and I didn't go ****ging her off to my friends. But how often do you see women complaining "oooh most men are RUBBISH at oral, they just DON'T KNOW what they're doing". I wouldn't go whinging about it, if a girl is willing to put my pole in her mouth then I'll respect her efforts and any suggestions for improvement will be done gradually and sensitively...
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If i ever sleep with you in the future OP your getting inseminated like a biatch and im deffo not leaving my number
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
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So, OP, are you going to respond to anybody's points where they are right and you are wrong? What about my point?
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OP claims all men are bad in bed

>>> OP must have slept with -every- man.

>>> OP is a ****? :confused:
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
In all honesty, I would tell a guy if he was "great" in bed, but I haven't experienced a guy who is that great. So I keep my mouth shut and don't say a word, I'm not massaging anyone's ego with lies and BS!
because i am genuinely good! spent yes trying to figure out exactly how girls like it and finding out from girls I'm totally comfortable with i can now confidently say I'm preetty good!

(Original post by No Future)
You said it, girlfriend!

But seriously, not all guys are like this
...girlfriend...really?
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because i am genuinely good! spent yes trying to figure out exactly how girls like it and finding out from girls I'm totally comfortable with i can now confidently say I'm preetty good!


...girlfriend...really?
It was an attempt at a joke
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Confidence becomes arrogance quite easily, yes. But surely it would be better for a man to have confidence than not. Rather than build someone up unnecessarily, why not just encourage them and keep them at it until they are "great"?
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(Original post by Kaitlyn89)
Why would we take what a guy says with a "pinch of salt" when 99.9% of guys lie to us all the time.
Girls fall in love with what they hear and guys fall in love with what they see, thats why girls wear make up and guys lie
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