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    (Original post by Ziggy2252)
    What about university girls?
    Where can I find them in London?

    What do you think everyone else did when they wanted to get laid? we all go to a certain club and make a certain signal if we want sex??! its just something that happens.
    So... you can't elaborate more on that?
    Aren't there certain factors that actually make it happen?
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    (Original post by Elsagatehouse)
    I can tell by the way your post is written that you come from some Arab/Asian country probably a so called devout Moslem here's just an example of your utter hypocracy which we hear on these forums all the time
    you all come across as belligerent, you think your better than us morally
    calling western women common and cheap but here you are trying to disguise yourself and look for casual sex from these women whilst you take a short break from your " holy morality" pathetic I wouldn't mind if you were a man about it and questioned his beliefs and opinions about other cultures but no you just want to exploit freedom of choice and then go to your mosque and deny it all and deny it for others.
    WTF :biggrin:
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    Lmao gatehouse that was priceless!
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Sadly... I am out of an almost 5-year-long relationship, with the only girlfriend I ever had, and which profoundly defined every aspect of my life throughout my late teens, university and first career experiences.

    I had many changed during the past months and came to the conclusion that I really want to try this thing I have never tried before: casual sex.

    I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex. And I want to do it just for a limited time period - and then return to my usual life ambitions.

    I have been to various nightclubs before, also here in London, with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet. Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other women who are looking for the same thing?

    Do you have any recommendations of clubs?

    I also don't want to waste too much time on this. I want to stay true to myself, not engage in hours of flirting techniques, but just find other women who are naturally willing to do it.

    For this reason, I told myself that if I won't find a woman within 1-2 weeks, I might try asking an escort agency or travel to Amsterdam.

    This is an important and not so easy decision considering my personal history and values, but I just want to try it, and then never ever do it again.
    The only way your going to get this girl out of your system is if you, get yourself a nice escort/pornstar...... acemassage , adultwork these are all websites.......

    Alternative London is full of club, a lot decent talent around guaranteed lays if you go to Pascha in Victoria.....full of easy europeans on a friday/saturday.... or if your Mayfair kinda guy FunkyBuddha, others decent around central, Chinawhites, Embassy, Roof Gardens, depends what kinda atmosphere and vibe you want.

    Amsterdam is overrated, try Germany/Austria/Switzerland, a Laufhaus, you can get 20mins at 30 euros..... just check on a Eroscenter, sex is so liberal in europe its ridiculous.....

    With a mentality like that, I can see you turning into a sex tourist,lol.
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    (Original post by SloaneRanger)
    Alternative London is full of club, a lot decent talent around guaranteed lays if you go to Pascha in Victoria.....full of easy europeans on a friday/saturday.... or if your Mayfair kinda guy FunkyBuddha, others decent around central, Chinawhites, Embassy, Roof Gardens, depends what kinda atmosphere and vibe you want.
    Thanks, this is what I was looking for.
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Thanks, this is what I was looking for.
    Last month Pascha did a Hungarian thing, full of eastern europe girls, dolled up incredibly hot....lets just say my magmar....or any hungarian/romanian is 0...if you can't generate a lead in that environment stick to AW

    https://www.facebook.com/events/547924971886658/
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Where can I find them in London?


    So... you can't elaborate more on that?
    Aren't there certain factors that actually make it happen?
    anywhere you find anyone else ? just because a girls at uni does not make her prone to one night stands. No there are no factors if a girl likes you and you like her it might happen theres nothing you can do. How old are you?
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    Doing it that way, your just going to get the boy a kick in..... bit of advice london is notorious for gangs staging set ups get on the punterlink forums. At least with AW, there now doing a more staged verification process to members.
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    (Original post by Ziggy2252)
    just because a girls at uni does not make her prone to one night stands.
    Although I haven't personally experienced it, everyone says that that's actually what happens and my friends have experienced it as well.

    My assumption would be that girls that age are more curious, drink more and generally tend to be more "loose"?
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    I mean, I am pretty confident I can attract women in general. That's why brothels/escorts are a last resort. However, I just don't know where the women are most open/loose, so my assumption is that the younger, the higher the chances...
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Sadly... I am out of an almost 5-year-long relationship, with the only girlfriend I ever had, and which profoundly defined every aspect of my life throughout my late teens, university and first career experiences.

    I had many changed during the past months and came to the conclusion that I really want to try this thing I have never tried before: casual sex.

    I am suddenly curious about going into a nightclub and meeting someone just for sex. And I want to do it just for a limited time period - and then return to my usual life ambitions.

    I have been to various nightclubs before, also here in London, with friends and colleagues, but I have never seen/noticed that strangers randomly meet. Are there specific clubs I need to go to, where there are other women who are looking for the same thing?

    Do you have any recommendations of clubs?

    I also don't want to waste too much time on this. I want to stay true to myself, not engage in hours of flirting techniques, but just find other women who are naturally willing to do it.

    For this reason, I told myself that if I won't find a woman within 1-2 weeks, I might try asking an escort agency or travel to Amsterdam.

    This is an important and not so easy decision considering my personal history and values, but I just want to try it, and then never ever do it again.
    Who talks like this? casual sex is for the emotionally strong and secure both of which you do not sound like
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    (Original post by Ziggy2252)
    Okay if i get warning points for apparent trolling when noone accused me of it in said thread, what is this??? explain admins im confused? this is surely trolling.
    Not sure I understood what you're talking about :confused:
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    (Original post by holmes221)
    Who talks like this? casual sex is for the emotionally strong and secure both of which you do not sound like
    I am very emotionally strong and secure.

    Or else, I would not want to experience something new.

    Makes sense?
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I mean, I am pretty confident I can attract women in general. That's why brothels/escorts are a last resort. However, I just don't know where the women are most open/loose, so my assumption is that the younger, the higher the chances...
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I am very emotionally strong and secure.

    Or else, I would not want to experience something new.

    Makes sense?
    Yeh but you said you hope to achieve this in 1-2 weeks which isnt realistic. You wont have the ability to do it that fast
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    (Original post by holmes221)
    Yeh but you said you hope to achieve this in 1-2 weeks which isnt realistic. You wont have the ability to do it that fast
    Well, wow... now you are the one saying it isn't realistic - who's emotionally strong and secure again?
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    Well, wow... now you are the one saying it isn't realistic - who's emotionally strong and secure again?
    Ok prove me wrong. But you sound like you think you're going to go into a club in the next week, dip yourself into a vagina but not 'waste too much time ... stay true to myself, and not engage in hours of flirting techniques' and then be done?

    Looks like the escort option is more realistic for you then buddy
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    (Original post by holmes221)
    Ok prove me wrong. But you sound like you think you're going to go into a club in the next week, dip yourself into a vagina but not 'waste too much time ... stay true to myself, and not engage in hours of flirting techniques' and then be done?
    I don't know - but why should I give up without even having tried?

    BTW are you saying that most people who engage in casual sex have undergone a long induction process and experience throughout their lifetime (or through some sex guru advice), in order to know how to get it?

    ...

    I am not sure, but I just want to try. I want to get to the place with the horniest, most available and loose women of the town and try my luck there!
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    (Original post by Polygoof)
    I don't know - but why should I give up without even having tried?

    BTW are you saying that most people who engage in casual sex have undergone a long induction process and experience throughout their lifetime (or through some sex guru advice), in order to know how to get it?

    ...

    I am not sure, but I just want to try. I want to get to the place with the horniest, most available and loose women of the town and try my luck there!
    Someone who has had ONS before would be able to but youre saying you were ina 5 year relationship, which I assume your fidelity was intact. And flirtation is the most integral part of casual sex, even with loose women.
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    (Original post by holmes221)
    Someone who has had ONS before would be able to but youre saying you were ina 5 year relationship, which I assume your fidelity was intact. And flirtation is the most integral part of casual sex, even with loose women.
    Indeed, I had no real reason to flirt with anyone.

    Also, I shall admit that I actually have feelings of disgust towards the act of flirting, flirtacious behavior etc because it feels extremely fake to me. I like to be direct, straightforward, no roundabouts.

    I kinda imagine myself in a club, talking to some woman, being quite direct, asking a few basic questions and then going somewhere with her to do something. No fake smiles, no fake laughs.

    Yes, that's why I even take into consideration the escort option.

    But still... I want to try. I really do. Which brings us back to the original question on which specific venues and/or events are best to find such women...
 
 
 
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