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    Oooh those smooth lines 'you a virgin? How far you gone with a boy?' However do you resist jumping straight into bed with them?
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    Where are you meeting these boys first?

    Facebook, twitter etc I bet.
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    (Original post by MetropolisBoy)
    A very good answer Natural selection
    I don't mean to be overly pedantic, but that's sexual, not natural, selection
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Their minds have been corrupted by watching too much porn.

    They all need to become like me - an evangelical Christian who doesn't masturbate and does not watch porn.
    Also, someone who needs to hide behind anon?
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    (Original post by posthumus)
    I was just waiting for a response like this

    Well summed up !

    ...only on TSR
    Only on tsr can this conversation sound like an attenborough documentary.
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    (Original post by eliza.anne)
    Oooh those smooth lines 'you a virgin? How far you gone with a boy?' However do you resist jumping straight into bed with them?
    Well... Gravity

    (Original post by Muckoz)
    Where are you meeting these boys first?

    Facebook, twitter etc I bet.
    Omegle of course.

    (Original post by PythianLegume)
    I don't mean to be overly pedantic, but that's sexual, not natural, selection
    Same thing, on a primal level, sex is success, so you have to be the best to have it. Bit different (small amount) now-a-days though.
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    Muslim males are not obsessed with sex, but are discouraged by God to steer away from such thoughts and enterprises.
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    (Original post by CodeJack)
    Well... Gravity



    Omegle of course.



    Same thing, on a primal level, sex is success, so you have to be the best to have it. Bit different (small amount) now-a-days though.

    :lol:
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    You have just encountered the wrong guys
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    Tbf a few guys have asked me those exact questions, but not all men are like that. I think the ones that do ask those questions do it as a way to get out of the 'friend zone'. Can't say I've had a complete stranger ask me those questions though. That's what it's always seemed like to me anyways, either that or they are just a bit nosy :P
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    Not all guys. Trust me.
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    Nah, I don't have a problem with it. Not always, anyway.
    I know a few male "sex addicts", but I don't mingle with them a lot. Same goes with the female "sex addicts" in my circle of acquaintances.
    However, people do tease me for being a "virgin at this age". Its ridiculous
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    (Original post by uberteknik)
    Because reproduction is fundamental to survival of the species and therefore drives pretty much all of the instincts and motives for both sexes.


    Boys think about sex because they are programmed through evolution to do so. Producing many offspring is a good survival strategy.
    Finding the person most likely to produce many children is the key driver, which is why boy's discuss sex in whatever form - it enables them to select the 'fitest' person for that task as defined by the majority.

    Girls think about finding the perfect partner to raise their offspring with, because that is also a good survival strategy.
    Whch is why girls discuss the attributes of boys so much. They are searching for the male that offers her the best probability of her children surviving.

    Humans are highly evolved and can communicate. All those questions about 'why boys do something' and observations of the answers, simply means the selection process is more subtle and complicated than for any other animal.

    Carry on with your selection!
    Love your post.
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    Really? I'm almost 19 and apart from maybe one or two creepy guys i've met in clubs, that sort of thing doesn't tend to come up straight away, if at all really. I think you're probably just meeting them in the wrong places, because there are a lot of guys, who yeah maybe think of it, but don't come out and question you straight away.
    For the record though, i think guys and girls tend to think about it equally as much. I've just broken up with my boyfriend and now all i think is 'i need sex' so you probably only come across the sex deprived guys
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    Yep, we're all sex crazed madmen!

    Sigh...
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    whats wrong with it?
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    Why are all girls so sex obsessed? See, I can ask stupid questions which are generalisations aswell. :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by kayleigh.fennell)
    (Hiya btw, i'm new to the site!:wavey:)

    Right, gals and guys,

    Everyone boy i meet/speak to for the first time, the conversation always goes from 'how are you?' to 'how far have you got with a guy?' or 'are you a virgin?' and its reeeeally annoying and sort of intimidating?!! It's like they automatically think about sex. Not that i have got a problem with it, it's just coming across that boys always have sex on there minds.:confused:

    Does anyone else have this problem or?:boring:
    Tell me more please.
 
 
 
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