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    If the majority of women wanted as much sex as the majority of men, terms such as 'slut' wouldnt exist!!

    Common Sense 1 - 0 Society.
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    Guys guys guys, let's stop this war and just get nakey together, everyone's welcome

    Hell, bring your grandmas!
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    (Original post by Bassetts)
    What is so idiotic about my post mate?
    The fact that you're offering a solution that is morally repugnant. Yes, there are more horny men than women. And prostitution is a result of supply and demand.

    Women shouldn't be expected to have sex. But it's worth looking into trying to break down social barriers and eliminate sexism, so that women are free to have sex with whomever they want without the name-calling or the "master key, ****ty lock" speech.
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    (Original post by I am Ace)
    Guys guys guys, let's stop this war and just get nakey together, everyone's welcome

    Hell, bring your grandmas!
    :lolwut:

    I'll pass on that, thanks...
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    This reminds me of what a few people in the past have said but I don't know how true it is. Apparantly young women have it easy but as they get older it becomes harder to get sex since young females are generally considered more attractive than older females. Older men on the other hand are often appealing to women of all ages and so naturally older men will choose younger females which leaves the old women left out. If this is true then can't desperate men just turn to these older women who are feeling rejected? Obviously ignoring marriage and all that lol.

    It might not even be true maybe men struggle getting older women too, just what Ive heard.
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    (Original post by civilstudent)
    This reminds me of what a few people in the past have said but I don't know how true it is. Apparantly young women have it easy but as they get older it becomes harder to get sex since young females are generally considered more attractive than older females. Older men on the other hand are often appealing to women of all ages and so naturally older men will choose younger females which leaves the old women left out. If this is true then can't desperate men just turn to these older women who are feeling rejected? Obviously ignoring marriage and all that lol.

    It might not even be true maybe men struggle getting older women too, just what Ive heard.
    Men are only liked more as they get older because of their money (older men are more likely to be further ahead in their career than younger men). The women don't even like the man himself, only an imaginary unit of currency he provides.
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    (Original post by TheHolubowskyj)
    How can you say this when rape exists? Just because women may have it easier getting sex doesn't mean men are entitled to take it when they want it.
    Rape has little to do with sex, and much more to do with power and hatred towards women.

    If it was purely about sex, rapists would get their 'satisfaction' from sex workers.

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    (Original post by Pariah)
    No, I don't agree. I also think that you are unhinged.
    Yes! Nicely said!

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    On average men want more sex than women.

    Nothing more to this than that.
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    and yet the women that do "put out" more are called sluts and whores. dammed if you do and dammed if you don't.
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    No. Disagree.

    It's like the myth that, because me always 'put out', all gay men are sluts, when actually (according to the Okcupid blog): 'just 2% of gay people have had 23% of the total reported gay sex, which is pretty crazy.'

    I think more men would sleep with a prostitute than women, but I still don't think this means women should be encouraged to 'put out' more.
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    (Original post by civilstudent)
    This reminds me of what a few people in the past have said but I don't know how true it is. Apparantly young women have it easy but as they get older it becomes harder to get sex since young females are generally considered more attractive than older females. Older men on the other hand are often appealing to women of all ages and so naturally older men will choose younger females which leaves the old women left out. If this is true then can't desperate men just turn to these older women who are feeling rejected? Obviously ignoring marriage and all that lol.

    It might not even be true maybe men struggle getting older women too, just what Ive heard.
    You should google ****, loads of older women seek young men because they can get it up easier.

    What I hate is that some women who can get any man they want yet they choose the guy who is the biggest idiot. They exploit their looks to control men, thinking the man will get with her but just using him to get what she wants.

    Like it or not women are more controlling than men without trying to be sexist. Most men couldn't give a **** what I do yet a woman will never let it go, bring up something just to spite you. If a man does it he is considered sexiest.
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    (Original post by gustavus)
    It's flawed argument.

    Just because a bloke wants sex-DOES NOT MEAN it is a woman's duty to provide this!!

    There are many reasons why a given woman may not want to have sex with a given man....

    Many men only want to offer ****-they don't want a woman as an equal partner - they just want a sperm receptacle... These men will always be on the bottom of the list...

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    Totally agree.

    Really, sometimes guys will just expect you to drop you pants after approaching you in the street.

    Now I am not prudish; I have no problem with being sexual, friends with benefits, even multiple partners (polyamory) but all I ask is that a guy try to get to know me, show that he gives a damn and has some respect for me. Then I have absolutely no problem rolling out the red carpet. Sexy costumes, surprise blowjob... The works.

    I feel like giving when not pressured or demanded into it. I will honestly go out I my way to sexually satisfy a man if he makes a bit of effort first.

    It's like that thread about ****ing over Facebook pictures because the participants couldn't be bothered to even risk approaching any of the girls they wanted to bang so much and talk to them like they're human.

    You dudes aren't the only one who risk humiliating rejection

    For you, sex is no big deal, emotionally. You could go out to a club and just focus on 'pulling' as many women as possible. For us, the social, moral, emotional and physical implications of giving ourselves away are far worse: risk of pregnancy, developing emotional attachments/feeling used afterward, being branded a slut etc...!We do not want to be just another notch on your bedpost knowing we are just another vagina to you. In contrast, the more notches you acquire, the more people like you!

    Really we need to stop seeing eachother as the seekers and with holders of sex and just see whither as people, because in reality there are as many guys who don't want to basing everything that moves as there are women that actually would like to be a bit more sexually free.

    I am far more likely to let a friend get in my pants than some stranger in a bar. A REAl friend... Stop seeing us for just the vagina, *expecting* the vagina and maybe we will offer the vagina.

    It's like when parents feel the need to be hard on a kid who would behave anyway out of the goodness of their heart, not being threatened by punishment, or when someone asks for a bit of food you're eatin when you were thinking about offering them anyway...

    That's not to say don't make a pass at girls. We often do need you to make the first move (fear of being labeled a slut) just don't get pissed off that cloths don't come off the second you make eye contact.

    Ive been verbally abused by strangers who propositioned me in a really rude, arrogant, bullyish and expectant way before when perhaps he would have had a better chance by simply asking me how I am....

    Not asking for money, or fancy restaurants, just asking that you give a ****. Just asking that I won't have to wake up finding you gone and you don't even bother calling. For you guys 'you pay a prostitute to LEAVE after sex' as the saying goes...
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    (Original post by LonelyDemon)
    You should google ****, loads of older women seek young men because they can get it up easier.

    What I hate is that some women who can get any man they want yet they choose the guy who is the biggest idiot. They exploit their looks to control men, thinking the man will get with her but just using him to get what she wants.

    Like it or not women are more controlling than men without trying to be sexist. Most men couldn't give a **** what I do yet a woman will never let it go, bring up something just to spite you. If a man does it he is considered sexiest.
    As a bisexual female who sees other women as relationship partners and has watched the way some girls treat their boyfriends, I agree that a lot of women are naggy and controlling. I try to avoid this with my boyfriend. If it is about his health I may nag, of it is about hygiene I try and out it to him gently if necessary, but for the most part I let him be.

    In fact I will play 'stupid' videogames with him instead of *****ing about it and don't mind if he finds other women attractive. Why make a big deal out of it if it's clear I'm loved?
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    (Original post by Fullofsurprises)
    I think a summary of your argument is that women should be willing to prostitute themselves to men for free, whenever men demand it. Is that about right?
    I think female human/chimps know the transactional value http://news.sciencemag.org/2009/04/c...eat-chance-sex
    I wonder if there is a link between crime & keeping SWMBO happy?
    89% of the women polled said that financial decisions rest with them. (Any Markeeting Dept knows that)
    That free stuff isn't free for guys, is it Fullofsurprises? A price is negotiated & Transactional sex is prostitution.

    (Original post by alexs2602)
    Although poorly phrased generally speaking I think OP is talking about men demanding more sex than women demand. Which I think many of us can agree on, generally. Of course, because it's generally it will depend on the individual. Or at least it appears that way - another generalisation might be that men are more open about their desires than women due to "societal pressures".
    As cited before a market for sex exists because women are genetically made to be less interested in sex, otherwise they'd chase sex rather than take care of offspring; as well as men have to be ready for it even during war/ on a hunt.

    You have clearly missed the point. Porn can be a substitute for a while I guess, but it's no real replacement for the human element that sex provides.
    I believe there is a link between Male suicide & increased online Porn (min 90s), though too much of a good thing is also bad.
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    Women don’t own sex, it’s something people do together. It requires communication. Women don’t like it when men lie to them to get sex and men don’t like it when women lie either. It happens both ways. “Yes, I’ll use a condom” or “Yes, I’m on birth control.” or yes I do own a ferrari & those are real!

    (Original post by civilstudent)
    This reminds me of what a few people in the past have said but I don't know how true it is. Apparantly young women have it easy but as they get older it becomes harder to get sex since young females are generally considered more attractive than older females. Older men on the other hand are often appealing to women of all ages and so naturally older men will choose younger females which leaves the old women left out. If this is true then can't desperate men just turn to these older women who are feeling rejected? Obviously ignoring marriage and all that lol.

    It might not even be true maybe men struggle getting older women too, just what Ive heard.
    I have been saying this for a while, its around the 40s when chasing reverses. That's why there is Girl Game & a growing number of Cougars.
    My friend in mid 40s says there are lots of opportunities, because the often-divorced/single mother is just looking 'to be serviced'.
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    Men cheat for a few reasons www.experienceproject.com/stories/Understand-Why-This-Happens/2065769

    The area that Bassett indirectly picked up on is the reasons why married men go & see prostituites; where the girlfriend experience comes from. Don't have link, but prostituites said it was more to do with chatting, than actual sex & the wish to be desired, for their masculinity (rather than the continuous supply of free stuff).

    (Original post by sherlockfan)
    and yet the women that do "put out" more are called sluts and whores. dammed if you do and dammed if you don't.
    Who is calling them that men or women & what's the motive?
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    Hmmm.... I think the only way to make women 'put out' more is to make all us men rich and powerful, lean, fit and handsome.

    Therefor the government should buy every man a suit, give them all an OBE and buy them a puppy to look after also ban alcohol and fast food and make them all honorary fire men.


    That should solve the problem.
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    (Original post by Bassetts)
    The market for sex (prostitution, escorts etc.) is huge in this country and across the world. There are huge numbers of men who have sex with women for money on a daily basis. The demand is high and these women charge high prices.

    Yet the demand from women to have sex with men is almost non-existent. The demand male prostitutes and escorts get from women is essentially from old fat women or rich businesswomen who don't have any time to find a relationship. In short, the market is extremely one-sided in favour of women and against men.

    Now why is this? It's simple: everyday women don't 'put out' enough. That is to say they don't give enough sex to men. The average man is starved of sex. Where is he going to get it? Where is he going to satisfy his sexual needs? It is clear that everyday women are not going to give it to him. Paying for it becomes his only option. Thus a market exists because regular women don't give the average man enough sex.

    In stark contrast everyday women can get sex whenever they please at no cost whatsoever. They are in huge demand by men. They have all these options available to them that they will never ever need to pay for it. Thus the market for women seeking sex from men is practically non-existent and only confined to occasional fat old woman or rich businesswoman.

    Do you agree with this?
    I do not agree with your post; but there is an instinctive and biological reason as to why men "require more sex than women".

    Biologically, men are programmed to "sow their seed" and produce as many viable offspring as possible. Therefore their sex drive is higher. Females on the other hand, usually, are biologically programmed to produce offspring at a rate that encourages full development and safety of the offspring. Men also do not have to carry the child and therefore do not have to worry about conserving resources for pregnancy and child birth as women do. Nature doesn't take note of the fact there are contraceptives.

    It is NOT true that the "average woman does not satisfy a man's needs". I know many girls, including myself, who have had dry spells which were of their fella's doing!

    Also women should not feel as though they should HAVE to keep up with a high sex drive. At the end of the day sex isn't everything; it's part of a loving relationship. If she can't keep doing it everyday then get a grip and deal with it! It's not necessary!
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    I think women need to understand how skewed relationships tend to be towards their favor. . The primary reason most men approach a girl, compliment her, court her and enter into relationships is to get sex/physical affection in return. Our primary love language is physical affection, it's how we express it and how we give it. Girls are not the same, and we have to adapt to make them priority almost always. We put up with with all your emotional "issues", constantly reassure your insecurities, constantly make you feel special blah blah blah. Hence men don't actually get as much as they give in relationships. I've honestly got no problem with that, but that's how it is

    Word to the wise, never get involved with a girl that has asexual tendencies, or just generally prudish in nature. Just imagine how she'll be once the kids gets come along or menopause starts to hit.

    Luckily there are plenty of girls out there who know how to treat their man right.
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    (Original post by gustavus)
    Rape has little to do with sex, and much more to do with power and hatred towards women.

    If it was purely about sex, rapists would get their 'satisfaction' from sex workers.

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    That's true, but the power/hatred complex rapists have certainly aren't ameliorated by Bassetts' idea that women should be expected to give sex simply because men demand it. That just places women in a position of submission to begin with.
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    You slept with a prostitute didnt you OP..
 
 
 
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