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Have you ever had your bum grabbed/grabbed someone's bum watch

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    It's certainly not an acceptable thing to do to a stranger. In terms of reaction though I'd probably just move away from the person unless I felt threatened or they tried to interact with me more.

    A friend once did it to me when really drunk. It wasn't a good thing to do but I let him off since I know he's a nice person in general, just a bit of an idiot about that when (very) drunk, and I know his intent wasn't anything nasty.

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    (Original post by maskofsanity)
    Why?

    I knew the girl enjoyed sleeping around and I knew she wanted to sleep with me. That's the more PC translation if it makes you feel any better.

    As for a random girl liking it - when a girl is dancing in a very suggestive manner with you and/or has her tongue down your throat, then grabbing their bum is a mutually beneficial move.
    Well yeah that's obvious, the scope of this thread is clearly unsolicited groping, she would welcome and expect bum-grabbing in the above context. I think that was beyond doubt and the OP is on about something else.
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    twice! Scarred for life!

    First time a ugly girl in my high school pinched my butt. I think she wanted me to ask her out or something but I didn't. :/ Still haunted by it!

    2nd time a gay guy in oxford pinched my bum when drunk :/ I try forget it happened and put it down to his drunkedness!

    Why doesn't a fit girl ever pinch my bum? Anyone!?!?
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    hmm i never had something that bad happen to me and i would never touch a girl in such a way but ..


    i hate it when groups of girls hug you even when you tell them not to do so .
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    (Original post by scrotgrot)
    Well yeah that's obvious, the scope of this thread is clearly unsolicited groping, she would welcome and expect bum-grabbing in the above context. I think that was beyond doubt and the OP is on about something else.
    I think you've misunderstood the point of that post - it was merely a digression from the original post, in which I used that example for comparison, i.e. to highlight what is acceptable (just as you did in your previous post) compared to what I would not do; that is, grab a random, uninterested girl's bum.
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    i think I have my bum grabbed every time i go to a nightclub, once i was dancing someone repeatedly slapped my butt and I really wish I could have seen who kept doing it! Was ready to tell them to **** off but I didn't see who did it
    I've never grabbed someone else's butt, I don't like it so I wouldn't do it to anyone else. I'm only ok if it's a friend that does it
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    Seeing it happen randomly is ****ing wierd.

    But i find it perfectly acceptable as soon as i kiss a girl my hands are heading straight there.

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    The first time someone grabbed my bum, my natural instincts kicked in and I whipped around, narrowed my eyes at the 'lil stock fish and kicked him in the nuts lol. Sorry not sorry?
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    (Original post by Rob da Mop)
    I once drunkenly grabbed a marine's bum on a ski trip night out. I was quite drunk and they had a rocky horror theme night.

    In general weird and pervy and don't do it.
    LOL I think I laughed too hard at this, he better have been Frankenfurter! :^_^:

    To answer the question yeah I've been pinched/slapped/groped and it's always pervy. I generally don't react much past a glare or telling them to eff off if it is being a bit persistent as the person doing it is hammered anyway.
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    It's happened once or twice, the most awkward one was when I was just on the way to a lecture, wouldn't have minded so much but the girls that did it were a 10/10 at best, combined...there were 3 of them.
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    It happened to me quite a few times when I used to go clubbing and when I worked in a pub, I found it pretty annoying. I've never done it to anyone myself.
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    (Original post by Anonymousey93)
    Just curious about people's thoughts on this.

    Some of my mates will happily squeeze a random girls bum on a night out. I've always found it totally weird and pervy and have told them.

    Just wanted to hear some people's stories:

    Guys/girls have you ever grabbed someone's bum and why and what happened after?

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    Guys/girls have you ever had your bum grabbed and how did it make you feel and what happened?

    If you have grabbed someone or been grabbed by someone where you both know the other person would not care e.g. a partner, then that doesn't count.

    I've been arse-grabbed by a girl in a club before and to be honest all I thought was, "I'm in here", and I was. I'm not sure how many guys would care, although I'm sure there are those who do, and it wouldn't make it acceptable anyway.
    I've had mine grabbed a couple of times by strangers, and sometimes female friends. How did it make me feel? Not much - I was drunk, lol. I guess sort of annoyed that I wouldn't be able to return the favour, unless I fancied spending a few nights in a cell :P
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    Had my arse grabbed by some random twit of a guy once, have never grabbed anyone else's though (except friends as a joke). Felt much more violated when someone grabbed/ran their fingers through my hair recently, though.
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    When people squeeze my bum, I squeeze one out right into their hand.

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    I was walking by Charring Cross at maybe 2/3am and a drunk guy literally pinched my bum, I turned around and asked him what the **** he was doing and as he slurred back 'because I want to' he reached out and touched my boob. I am so non violent but I've never been closer to punching someone.

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    I remember when I was 14 just hanging out with my mates in town. A few girls walked past us and one of them ran up behind me, gave my ass a good squeeze and then turned back to wink at me and said "See ya later, sexy" as they walked off. Must be honest, I had to go sit down as I got a massive stalk-on :lol:
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    I do it all the time. Its actually a good way to find out if she wants the 'D'
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I remember when I was 14 just hanging out with my mates in town. A few girls walked past us and one of them ran up behind me, gave my ass a good squeeze and then turned back to wink at me and said "See ya later, sexy" as they walked off. Must be honest, I had to go sit down as I got a massive stalk-on :lol:
    Did you squeeze one out?

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    I don't think I've been on a night out where it hasn't happened at least once -.-
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    i was in a club and i saw a couple hugging and kissing passionately, i wanted to get him slapped so i squeezed her bum from behind which she couldn't see me.

    but he didnt get slapped at all and she seemed okay with it. wtf
 
 
 
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