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    (Original post by sherlockfan)
    I try to keep in touch with people, but often I get no response. I'm tired of chasing after people.
    I'm going to bed. any further questions will be answered tomorrow.
    I wonder why there are people like us.
    I
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    Sherlock fan here, so let's be friends, yeah?
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    Friends are overrated. It's alright.
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    I have a lot of friends and a lot of social responsibilities but I hate, hate, hate, hate small talk. I hate when people don't know what to say so try and force crappy conversation about stuff I don't care about. Even in a room full of my friends, USUALLY I'd rather just sit and listen to them talk. Sometimes I want to be the centre of attention and will be a big mouth but not very often. Not socially anxious or retarded, just an introvert I guess.

    This is also the key reason behind the fact my longest ever relationship was 3 months in school and it sucked. At uni I'd go out and get laid a fair bit (not to blow my own trumpet...excuse the euphamism) but relationships and dates, having to hold a long conversation with a girl on a date has only ever been a miserable, boring experience for me yano.

    Oh well, introverts, power to 'em.
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    ^^^dude. Not your thread.

    Anyway, OP: what do you do on your alone time seeing as you're...always alone :indiff:
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    (Original post by LostGear)
    Sherlock fan here, so let's be friends, yeah?
    okay
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    (Original post by ApeMob)
    ^^^dude. Not your thread.

    Anyway, OP: what do you do on your alone time seeing as you're...always alone :indiff:
    I get the feeling that sometimes, you simply do not understand people at all.
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    (Original post by LostGear)
    Sherlock fan here, so let's be friends, yeah?
    Completely ignore the stinkum clown
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    (Original post by Stinkum)
    okay
    Well, we are friends already

    (Original post by ApeMob)
    Completely ignore the stinkum clown
    Nah can't ignore, he is a good friend

    I think you may have misunderstood him
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    (Original post by LostGear)
    Well, we are friends already



    Nah can't ignore, he is a good friend

    I think you may have misunderstood him
    *kicks you* He made a racist thread -,-
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    (Original post by LostGear)
    Well, we are friends already



    Nah can't ignore, he is a good friend

    I think you may have misunderstood him
    awww thnx

    (no homo as always)
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    (Original post by ApeMob)
    *kicks you* He made a racist thread -,-
    Ouch lol

    What racist threads? ......
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    (Original post by Stinkum)
    awww thnx

    (no homo as always)
    lol

    We're grown up and educated, there is no need to say 'no homo'
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    (Original post by LostGear)
    Ouch lol

    What racist threads? ......
    Something about slandering a girl because she is 19 divorced and with a man who is a bit older and not her color -,- He got really clowned for it
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    OP - do you feel like there is a reason why no one wants to talk to you or keep in touch?
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    Neither, it sucks doesn't it. At least we can talk to people online.
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    (Original post by yellowcopter)
    Of course it is, the more you talk to people the more you get to know them - leading to making friends. If you don't talk to them, nothing will happen. You can't wait for people to talk to you, sometimes you need to take the initiative.

    How do you know it'll be like you never met them once you leave. If you keep predicting the worst, you're just making a wall for yourself. But that will be the case if you don't make friends in the first place.

    If you don't give making friends a chance, you won't be able to make friends with anyone during your volunteering. So technically you just don't want friends. Which is fine - but I assume isn't what you want.
    Ive had too many experiences where I make friends with someone and then when there is no longer a reason that brings us in the same environment, uni or school or whatever, they cant bring themselves even to Facebook me once in a while to ask how I am.
    Im not complaining. I can talk to people and socialise to some extent, but as far as friends are concerned, im done. Its best not to depend on someone too much and then your not disappointed.
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    (Original post by stargirl63)
    OP - do you feel like there is a reason why no one wants to talk to you or keep in touch?
    Perhaps. I try to be nice to people but maybe theres something about me. I feel as though if someone knew everything about me, they wouldn't want to be in my presence.
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    (Original post by Xenax123)
    I wonder why there are people like us.
    I
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    (Original post by sherlockfan)
    Perhaps. I try to be nice to people but maybe theres something about me. I feel as though if someone knew everything about me, they wouldn't want to be in my presence.
    aww op! :console:

    Have you read any self help books on how to get yourself out there?
 
 
 
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