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    Ok now you've posted this, what were you hoping to achieve?

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    LOL
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    What a waste of time. I could deffs have eaten another Magnum in that minute. You cost me a Magnum, OP :eyeball:
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    Lol someone's gonna be alone forever.
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    (Original post by Observatory)
    If I went to a brothel, sure. Why would I ever marry a woman when better-looking hookers are much cheaper ?!
    Now you're talking. If you're the average guy, escorts game is 100% legit.

    BUT it's still not the same as the lust the average woman shows to a 8+ male, you will never get to experience that if you're the average guy.

    (Original post by Another)
    You view a serious, long term relationship as a "backup option"? You have issues.
    LOL at letting women have their fun with the male models and the hunks before they settle for you while you yourself as the average man feed off scraps.

    If the average man was also getting as many women as the average woman is getting men then there'd be nothing wrong, I agree, but it's nothing like that.
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    More evidence that even in speed dating women are 2x picker than men.

    http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-26172314

    Personality is a fraud. Confidence is a fraud. Game is fraud.

    The only legit game is plastic surgery game and roids game.
    Suck *******s
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    (Original post by DeceitfulDove)
    What a waste of time. I could deffs have eaten another Magnum in that minute. You cost me a Magnum, OP :eyeball:
    Legit. This female knows she can get fat and still have male models approaching her.
    (Original post by Eva.Gregoria)
    Ok now you've posted this, what were you hoping to achieve?
    For females on this forum to stop complaining that guys are more shallow and to stop guys from giving out bogus advice about 'confidence' and 'personality' .
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    (Original post by what is this)
    Legit. This female knows she can get fat and still have male models approaching her.
    >female

    It's not the discovery channel

    and if half the population are women, how can women be better off than men in this regard?

    (Original post by what is this)
    For females on this forum to stop complaining that guys are more shallow and to stop guys from giving out bogus advice about 'confidence' and 'personality' .
    Confidence and personality are important though
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    (Original post by what is this)
    Legit. This female knows she can get fat and still have male models approaching her.


    For females on this forum to stop complaining that guys are more shallow and to stop guys from giving out bogus advice about 'confidence' and 'personality' .
    I'll have you know I've never been approached, thank you very much

    And actually, I will not 'get fat'. I train many times a week :unimpressed: I can afford a couple Magnums in the sun :ahee:
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      (Original post by DeceitfulDove)
      I'll have you know I've never been approached, thank you very much
      Oh I'm so sorry, that must be a terrible feeling :console:
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      (Original post by what is this)
      Strong refutation to the studies I posted.

      And most guys don't manage, they just go on ego trips and talk air about all the girls they're getting :lol:.

      The truth is that the average guy is getting very, very little if anything. Most of the sex they get is in a relationship they get into after the girls has had her fun being passed around by the male models.

      LOL at being the backup option for the average girl after she's gone through the male models while you've just had to wait on the sidelines getting nothing.
      as many people have pointed out, those studies relate to one night stands. And if you think the average girl is actually having multiple ONS's with male models, you clearly have no female friends. Or male friends for that matter, if you don't think an average guy can either pull or get in a relationship with a decent looking girl. And also, just lol at you telling a forum full of both guys and girls with more sexual and relationship experience than you how it all works. I will just go and tell my girlfriend that she should be with somebody half a foot taller, because apparently since I am 5ft6 I should be dying alone :rolleyes:

      And I am really wondering what are you trying to get at here, you are not getting ONS's and you are refusing the idea of a relationship because you think you are a backup option. So what are you planning, sticking to your palm for the rest of your life? Have fun with that. Stop moaning and actually do something about it.
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      This thread shall be my main source of entertainment for the day.
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      (Original post by what is this)
      80% of women are only attracted to the top 20% of males:

      http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/yo...online-dating/
      It seems like you're just going to be one of these people who posts the same stuff over and over. We've already been over this, if you read YOUR OWN LINK, you'll see that 80% of women didn't say they were only attracted to 20% of guys, that's an incorrect analysis. Actually, overall (no percentage) women rated 80% of men as below medium attractiveness- that isn't to say they aren't attracted to them, just that they are below average.

      What it actually implies is the opposite of what you're saying- that women don't think looks are that important. They very point you're bringing up is under a graph which shows that most messages women send are also to guys they consider below average. The correct conclustion to draw appears to be that women are harsh judgers of mens looks, but they're still willing to go for guys they deem below average. Whereas, according to that site, about 1% of messages men send are to women they deem "least attractive", about 11% of females messages are for men they deem "least attractive".

      The graph below that also clearly illustrates how looks are less important to men. The most attractive men get 11 times the messages of the least attractive men- clearly looks are important. However, the most attractive women get 26 times the messages of the least attractive women- a clear difference.

      You're so far off the truth. Obviously there needs to be physical attraction, but more important is to show confidence, to make her laugh and to make her feel safe.

      This is without even getting to the basic logic problem that, excluding two timers and polygamists, for every straight with a girlfriend, a straight girl has a boyfriend.
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      (Original post by yo radical one)
      and if half the population are women, how can women be better off than men in this regard?
      Because as has been alluded to in this thread: Woman spend their 20's going through male models trying to desperately get them into LTR's . Once that fails they settle down with someone on their looks level around 30, someone who they never gave a chance before to.

      I'd rather die than be that provider to a woman who disregarded me before LOL at anyone pathetic enough to do that.



      Confidence and personality are important though
      ONLY if you meet her minimum looks threshold, and the better looking you are than her the less personality and confidence matter.

      Seriously Brad Pitt could walk up to any of these girls in this thread and say ''Wanna ****?'' and he'd have a 100% success rate. Heck he could curse their parents and they'd see it as confidence. The haloe effect is strong.

      An ugly guy trying to be confidence is just seen as a try hard lol.
      (Original post by DeceitfulDove)
      I'll have you know I've never been approached, thank you very much
      Lies, all lies.
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      (Original post by what is this)
      I'd rather die than be that provider to a woman who disregarded me before LOL at anyone pathetic enough to do that.
      AH, so you are single out of choice. Keep telling yourself that
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      (Original post by what is this)
      For females on this forum to stop complaining that guys are more shallow and to stop guys from giving out bogus advice about 'confidence' and 'personality' .
      I can assure you that this mediocre substandard thread will achieve no such thing. You're hardly an authority on the subject of relationships and it seems that the entirety of your thread is comprised of bitterness and envy of guys who can get girls.

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      LOL at letting women have their fun with the male models and the hunks before they settle for you while you yourself as the average man feed off scraps.

      If the average man was also getting as many women as the average woman is getting men then there'd be nothing wrong, I agree, but it's nothing like that.
      Solution: Find a woman who's a virgin. May have to assimilate into a religious sect for this to work.

      In all seriousness, if you're looking at surveys like these, I think the type of girl who has one night stands reguarly probably isn't the type of girl you're looking for anyway.

      For a girl who's into casual flings and ONS, then yes looks alone will be a massive factor on whether she will sleep with you. Relationships is an entirely different story (And I mean looking for a relationship from the get go, not the people who decide to settle once the amount of attention they recieve stop.)
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      Refuation to scientific study : none

      Probably a good looking guy who gets all the girls due to his ''game'' and ''confidence'' bro :lol:
      Well, I'm not a model nor am I butt ugly. I'm probably a 7 if I had to rate myself.

      We're all humans. Human beings are mammals and mammals are animals at the basic level. So when it comes to "mating" do looks matter? Of course they matter when you want have sex with the other person. I'm attracted to porn stars and Hollywood actresses. So yes the scientific study is right in that respect.

      But do looks matter as much when you want to start a relationship with the other person? No, they do not. Why on earth would a girl want to start a relationship with a guy who is 10/10 in looks but who lacks in other areas, like intelligence and sense of humour?

      Flavio Briatore, a former owner in F1, has dated some models over the years. Is he the best looking guy in the world? Far from it. But how can he date some very attractive women if he isn't good looking?

      You said in your original post the following:

      "I've said it before and I'll say it again, to just get an obese girl in 10 year you'll need to like a male model, be at least 7'0" tall, be 350 lbs at 4% body, have a 12 inch penis and at least own 2 planets [more status if they're in the Milky Way galaxy]."

      :confused:

      This sentence alone proves how silly your thought process is. If you're 7'0" tall with 4% body fat, look like a male model, have a 12 inch penis and own 2 planets then why on earth would you settle for a obese girl? Why wouldn't you go for the 10/10 girl who looks like a supermodel with perfect proportions? What's the difference between you and another guy who is also 7'0" tall with 4% body fat, who looks like a male model, has a 12 inch penis and owns 2 planets? Could the difference be personality, the same thing that you call fraud? :laugh:

      (Original post by tehFrance)
      I'm good looking, have my flaws like others but still

      Looks don't count for everything, personality also helps and considering I'm engaged, have many female friends and have slept with more than my fair share of women, I highly doubt I'm in the friendzone which can be gotten out of (my SO was my friend first) so friendzone = BS.

      Being friends with women helps as you get comfortable around women, you come to understand them and then your friends set you up with their friends, the best way to pull is based on recommendation from another woman
      I agree with this. So called "social circle game" helps. I know of a couple who were friends for a few years and now they're engaged as well, due to marry later this year.
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      Because as has been alluded to in this thread: Woman spend their 20's going through male models trying to desperately get them into LTR's . Once that fails they settle down with someone on their looks level around 30, someone who they never gave a chance before to.

      I'd rather die than be that provider to a woman who disregarded me before LOL at anyone pathetic enough to do that.
      Some Western women are a bit easy sure, but this idea that even most women live their lives this way is a total fantasy.

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      ONLY if you meet her minimum looks threshold, and the better looking you are than her the less personality and confidence matter.

      Seriously Brad Pitt could walk up to any of these girls in this thread and say ''Wanna ****?'' and he'd have a 100% success rate.

      Lies, all lies.
      Less than you would think, lots would feel dirty at being so easy and not making him work. I mean they know they would get no commitment from him.


      If you think women care about looks foremost, you clearly don't talk to them much, I'm not really someone who is delusional either, lots of them love it if their partner is someone who is very important and well respected, but looks seem secondary to this
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      OP, how much spare time do you have? Seriously.
     
     
     
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