would you rather your child be bullied or be a bully

It's kinda shocking and saddening how many people would rather their child be the bully

That's the question, what do you think?

The vulnerable victim is one typology associated with victimised individuals, but there is a growing body of evidence which suggests that victims share the same personality traits as perpetrators, leading to suggestions that perpetrators and victims can hold both roles.

Really? It shocks you that people don't want their child to feel sad, isolated, alone, possibly affected by it for years?

Really? It shocks you that people don't want their child to feel sad, isolated, alone, possibly affected by it for years?

bully.

you must be superior to be the bully.

The bully without a doubt.

One thing I always tell my kids, if someone calls them a name they don't like give that person a slap on the face, if that person doesn't stop slap the other side and break his or her nose. Also told the elder 2 daughters if ever some does any type of unwanted contact use that martial arts I had long trained them in and kick or knee those boys in the groin.

If that got them in trouble I will go to their school and solve it and if it requires some money then some money shall be paid.

The last 2 fights ended with 1 boy being hospitalized at the urology unit and the other crying like a baby after finding out he wasn't so tough after all.

Bullied.

If I found out my kid was a bully I would smash all their personal possessions with a sledgehammer right in front of them.

Be tbe bully. Assuming all other characteristics (ie intelligence etc) were the same in both scenarios. I've seen many intelligent high school bullies become the most successful of them all, because they're smart and they've got the 'alpha'/dominant character, once they grow out of all the bullying etc ofc.
I have been bullied and I feel like an absolute idiot for not standing up for myself more. And it was just generally awful. Why would I want my child to go through that?

I was bullied so much I can't even bear the thought of fathering a child who will either go through what I went through or will inflict the kind of pain that I endured

I'd say bullied, then again I'm planning to have the eventual kids I'll have to learn martial arts and how to just ignore verbal abuse

I was bullied, I learned to defend myself for the few physical things (karateeeee), and then the verbal stuff was hard but in the end I think it made me stronger, and made me appreciate more the friends I actually have and also makes me sooooo glad that I wasn't like those people

Because bullying is wrong... its unnatural... and it's a person's way of showing his 'supposed' superiority...at the expense of others... why would you want your child to be that person

Last year at my college there was an incident where one guy gave another guy a 'dirty look' and he ended up getting stabbed for it. I wouldn't be surprised if your kids ended up like this.
You should teach them to stand up for themselves without violence or else someone could get seriously hurt. Your children might not always win the fight.


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Besides violence how do you expect someone being bullied to stop the bully doing so?