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22 and have never been kissed. Are girls not into black men?I

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We do not get black men in manchester
Original post by Cormac Easton
Now we are talking.

So is it my skin colour then?


What can I do?



I'm going out on friday to a massive party and I have a few ideas on how I can make a move or two on a few girls. This will be my first time actively pursuing a girl, very nerving.


I'm just worried about what signals to look for? How do I know who to approach?


Why am I even asking you? You're a virgin your posts say that much.


Why do you keep parroting the same line? If other black guys get dates then quite obviously colour is not generally a barrier. It probably has more to do with the fact you've never shown an interest in anyone. Being bubbly is not the same as being sexually attractive. Quite obviously you don't give off those vibes.
Original post by Cormac Easton
Ok I am ashamed of myself for how this is going to sound because I read many of these types of threads and I know how they read so I just want to apologise right off the bat.


Basically I'm a guy 22 and I have never had sexual relations with a girl. I'm not ugly (will have to take my word for it) I'm intelligent(go to a russel group and was privately educated) so I am an educated person.


Now I have never sought girls out or tried to ask a girl out for a date/sex because it never used to bother me. And I didn't have time for a girl and I didn't want one. But now seeing most of my friends be in committed long-term relationships with kids and marriage (not in that order hopefully) on the horizon it makes me wonder if I'll ever find a girl.



What's stopping girls from asking me out?


Don't girls fancy me?

I think that you writing this on Forums is part of the reason why. You're thinking about yourself alot and have a strange attitude to relationships.
Besides that Adults don't really ask one another 'out' if they did then it is generally the Man's role to do that. Most people at your age don't really ask one another out on some Kiddy date.
You just make friends with Someone and one thing leads to the next.

Just make friends with people through Work or Education or other Friends and treat them like you would anyone else. It has nothing to do with your skin color but it is to do with your approach to Relationships.
Original post by Cormac Easton
Charming. Seriously any girl who posts like this is not one I'd be interested in pursuing in short hit the backspace beyonce sheeplet.


I agree. She didn't sell herself all that well did she?
Original post by Cormac Easton
Ok I am ashamed of myself for how this is going to sound because I read many of these types of threads and I know how they read so I just want to apologise right off the bat.


Basically I'm a guy 22 and I have never had sexual relations with a girl. I'm not ugly (will have to take my word for it) I'm intelligent(go to a russel group and was privately educated) so I am an educated person.


Now I have never sought girls out or tried to ask a girl out for a date/sex because it never used to bother me. And I didn't have time for a girl and I didn't want one. But now seeing most of my friends be in committed long-term relationships with kids and marriage (not in that order hopefully) on the horizon it makes me wonder if I'll ever find a girl.



What's stopping girls from asking me out?


Don't girls fancy me?


Here comes some truth.

You're black. The few girls who like you will REALLY like you but the majority will not unless you are so good-looking race is no longer an issue. Society elevates white girls meaning even if you scored with a girl you'd probably have to date down physically. They've done studies on this. Basically a black guy would need to date down in order to get a white woman because society over-estimates her value.

My advice. Stay within your race. I'm not a racist, I'm a 23 year-old black realist.
Original post by Cormac Easton
Ok I am ashamed of myself for how this is going to sound because I read many of these types of threads and I know how they read so I just want to apologise right off the bat.


Basically I'm a guy 22 and I have never had sexual relations with a girl. I'm not ugly (will have to take my word for it) I'm intelligent(go to a russel group and was privately educated) so I am an educated person.


Now I have never sought girls out or tried to ask a girl out for a date/sex because it never used to bother me. And I didn't have time for a girl and I didn't want one. But now seeing most of my friends be in committed long-term relationships with kids and marriage (not in that order hopefully) on the horizon it makes me wonder if I'll ever find a girl.



What's stopping girls from asking me out?


Don't girls fancy me?

I guess it is not all about being educated and going to a RG uni. Different factors come into play aswell.
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
very mature :rolleyes:Her PP looks like (probably is) Beyonce, if she looks like that she's oc attractive, other than that I know nothing of her besides she uses TSR, so not really, although I found her careers talk empowering.

Now there is a great book on this topic-'Invisible Man' by Ralph Ellison :smile:


I love you <3

Are you coming to LSE too ?
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Original post by Cormac Easton
Ok I am ashamed of myself for how this is going to sound because I read many of these types of threads and I know how they read so I just want to apologise right off the bat.


Basically I'm a guy 22 and I have never had sexual relations with a girl. I'm not ugly (will have to take my word for it) I'm intelligent(go to a russel group and was privately educated) so I am an educated person.


Now I have never sought girls out or tried to ask a girl out for a date/sex because it never used to bother me. And I didn't have time for a girl and I didn't want one. But now seeing most of my friends be in committed long-term relationships with kids and marriage (not in that order hopefully) on the horizon it makes me wonder if I'll ever find a girl.



What's stopping girls from asking me out?


Don't girls fancy me?


Hey well my boyfriend was 23 and I think he kissed a girl (on night out so not girlfriend) before me but thats about it. But he is a great guy and I had my eye on him since we met but it took months until we got together as despite my quite obvious attempts he didnt really react to me in other than friendly way. Later on he said he didnt want to presume or be rude to me and that he didnt realize that I liked him in that way and thought I am just very friendly person (and trust me I was quite clear on it as everybody around him realized except him :biggrin: ). So maybe just keep your eyes opened. Sometimes nice guys are just too nice for their own good :cute:
Original post by PrincessAlexis
Nope.

My criteria for men is

Dark
Big Dick
Tall

If you have the above and can't get a girl it's a personality thing.


do you mean dark hair and eyes or dark skin
Original post by KenGosgrove
I agree. She didn't sell herself all that well did she?


I was trying to help the guy and give some comic relief. :unsure:
are you big or small (no homo)
Lol I always thought that's what English girls were into? At my Uni in Ireland I've never seen one with a white girl. On other forums about travelling Europe I've seen continental Europeans say they've never seen so many white girls with black guys in their life than in London.
Original post by Smash Bandicoot
You've obviously not been watching the porn I have my friend.


Why ? what is in porn ?
Original post by gatsbythegreat
Nothing but a silly Myth. Black people are just like all other people. Some have small genitalia and some have large. Please don't stereotype people based on their skin color.

Here is a censored example.


What the hell is your definition of "censored"?! My eyes....

And OP, everybody loves black men. If you're not getting attention, you're probably ugly/chavy/socially inept.
wow!! you're telling me your smart but you cant even spell russell group correctly... IRONY
Original post by Maid Marian
I've never found a black man attractive in all honesty, but plenty of people do so that's probably not where your problems lie.


Well then race obviously does come into it then. If he were white life would be easier

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Original post by Emil Cioran
Lol I always thought that's what English girls were into? At my Uni in Ireland I've never seen one with a white girl. On other forums about travelling Europe I've seen continental Europeans say they've never seen so many white girls with black guys in their life than in London.


Where is this? I live in London and see it now and then but not often. On the continent it's more common, particularly France

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Original post by PrincessAlexis
I love you <3

Are you coming to LSE too ?


haha I've graduated!

You haven't answered my question :tongue: tbh I am probably doing that 'taking what people say literally' thing I'm notorious for...
Original post by 96jaimin96
Why ? what is in porn ?


0_0 idea if serious

there is a stereotype in Literotica and visual porn of horny young bimbos hooking up with, or attractive wives leaving their wishy-washy pudgy 'beta male' hubbies for, strapping Moorish gods of young black men with chiseled bodies and of course an enormous roger. The divorce/cheating stories are ****ed up but then so am I.

You've never heard the slightly racist but flattering joke 'once you go black, you never go back?'
I hate when people try and use their skin colour as an excuse. It's one of two options pretty much, you've either got **** game or your just a pussy. I'm black and I get with so many white girls


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