BTW TSR; I'm anon because certain people on here do this and would know if I posted.
You must be fit.
Quick. Marry a rich man, then divorce him and get half his riches.
Note: You only have until 25 and after 35 you will be invisible to most men
This is due to a creation of an emotional spike. This may have been created due to a number of things. Your personality. Your appearance. The way you acted. Yada yada.
Its human nature to chase what spikes our emotions positively. Think about abusive relationships that go on for ages. Love is followed by abuse, physical or emotional then the cycle repeats. This results in a craving on the victim for the love that is shown.
Ultimately id be looking at myself if it was I in your position.
I'm just giving OP some career advice as clearly she must be an attractive lady to garner this much attention