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    (Original post by Stefano93)
    Cute = Beta
    Hot = Alpha
    So what you're saying is that being called cute shatters the fragile masculinity you have?

    Cute & Hot are not mutually exclusive. Cute can lead to cuddling, have you ever cuddled with someone? That's up close and intimate, throw in some hormones and some heat and you've got something intense going on.

    Don't be so afraid of wanting to be cuddled, you'll still get to keep your 'manliness'.
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    for me when I say cute I generally mean he's hot too.
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    (Original post by zedeneye1)
    but you would miss out on the oppotrunity to be with that 0.1% of "hot" men who are like that (bold part) using your strategy.
    Oh nooo what a losss, it's almost as if looking like a supermodel isn't the most important thing for heeer and that having someone who looks pretty good and treats her well is good enoughhhhh. How could she miss out on an opportunity to find a guy who looks marginally better even though he probably wouldn't provide anything more than maybe a few more seconds of something to stare attt.
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    (Original post by Ruthless Dutchman)
    Oh nooo what a losss, it's almost as if looking like a supermodel isn't the most important thing for heeer and that having someone who looks pretty good and treats her well is good enoughhhhh. How could she miss out on an opportunity to find a guy who looks marginally better even though he probably wouldn't provide anything more than maybe a few more seconds of something to stare attt.
    that's for her to decide, what's better for her.

    you are obviously the marginally worse looking guy.
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    (Original post by Rxamphetamine)
    I hear girls describing guys as hot or cute.

    What are the difference between these?

    How much does each sexually arouse you?

    Which of these would you rather date?
    Babies are cute.
    If I call a man cute, it's...not a good sign.
    Be an adult and say "handsome and sexy" like a normal person, if you are genuinely complimenting a man you want to disrobe you. :cool:

    Cute. I beg not.
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    (Original post by zedeneye1)
    that's for her to decide, what's better for her.

    you are obviously the marginally worse looking guy.
    Well, that's subjective
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    (Original post by The_Blade)
    I see it as

    Hot = body focused
    Cute = face focused

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    No someone can have a hot face as well.

    To the OP if I'm gonna be honest, my preference for guys is hot facially but acts cute and sweet . But everyone's different and have different preferences.
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    (Original post by Smileyface97)
    Guys, please don't take cute as an insult. Guys can be hot and cute at the same time.
    We're not "cute", we're manly as hell dammit!
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    Hot = Snog :flutter:
    Cute = Marry :daydreaming:
    Troll = Avoid :lolwut:
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    I don't like being called cute,it's something you would call a little girl.
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    (Original post by Cassiejstephens)
    Cute over hot anyday!
    i think calling someone hot is you know all well and good and based souly on their looks, but like i dont see why guys get offended when you call them 'cute'? i dont know for any other girl, but calling a guy cute is a good thing, the girl is probably more likely to like you, when your just hot its a bit like eh generic your hot, but if your cute your remembered.
    but thats just my opinion!
    I completely agree!! Cute is not an insult
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    Hot -> generally older
    Cute -> generally younger
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    Cute: good looking and unthreatening/ vulnerable
    Hot: good looking and threatening/ strong
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    (Original post by InternetGangster)
    Cute: good looking and unthreatening/ vulnerable
    Hot: good looking and threatening/ strong
    What about good looking, unthreatening and strong?
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    (Original post by Rxamphetamine)
    I hear girls describing guys as hot or cute.

    What are the difference between these?

    How much does each sexually arouse you?

    Which of these would you rather date?
    Guys who are hot are the ones you sleep with. Cute ones are probs the ones who get dumped. The hot ones don't even make it to the point to get dumped.

    I would date both, though not at the same time.

    I think, to be fair, I have seen that this happens: girls often imitate other girls who are more successful and prettier than them. So they tend to go for the cute ones because they like to copy their mannerisms in everything out of jealousy, and then spread nonsensical "intelligence" on the opposite sex. I bet the cute ones the most sexually arousing to them, for that - that and anyone who can make them laugh. :rofl:
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    (Original post by Rxamphetamine)
    I hear girls describing guys as hot or cute.

    What are the difference between these?

    How much does each sexually arouse you?

    Which of these would you rather date?
    Guys who are hot are the ones you sleep with. Cute ones are probs the ones who get dumped. The hot ones don't even make it to that point to get dumped.

    I would date both, though not at the same time.

    I think, to be fair, I have seen that this happens: girls often imitate other girls who are more successful and prettier than them. So they, these uh sort-of localites versed in "Chanel", tend to go for the cute ones because they like to copy their mannerisms, these girls, in everything out of jealousy, and then spread nonsensical "intelligence" on the opposite sex. I bet the cute ones are the most sexually arousing to them, for that - that and anyone who can make them laugh - hey! someone else needs to keep their puddings company for a change! :rofl:
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    (Original post by SiminaM)
    Hot is intimidating and maybe less trustworthy Cute is what actually sticks to my mind... Intelligent while normal(as in not very ugly) and funny is the real winner
    (Original post by Precious Illusions)
    Guys can be hot and cute. IMO cute is more of a personality trait than it is a certain look, like you can act cute etc. If I'm attracted to someone I'm attracted to them, I don't really think about it in terms of 'hot' and 'cute' etc if that makes sense.
    (Original post by Smileyface97)
    1. I'd say cute guys can be hot too... :cute:
    2. Both turn me on just as much :sexface:
    3. Both

    Guys, please don't take cute as an insult. Guys can be hot and cute at the same time.
    Agreed with all these points.

    But if a girl says you are cute or too cute or how are you so cute lines in a text, what does it mean?

    Out of politeness I wouldn't text a girl she is hot for fear of being forward/brash even though I think it.

    Is it the girl's way of saying she likes you or not? Is it just a friendly term sigh..
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    CUTE people tend to be seen as nicer then 'hot' people..
    but that dosen't mean it's true, but I do agree with the person who said that cute can be about the personality aswell.. cos cute can be more of a looks and personality where hot is just their looks.
    cos you can have a a cute personality but you dont tend to hear people say 'you have a hot personality'
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    Hot= definitely would, I think it's purely sexual

    Cute= either 1) He's actually hot, but I don't want to admit this to my friend for example so disguise it as 'cute'

    or 2) I genuinely mean cute i.e. a sweet/nice/effeminate guy who I've completely ruled out as a potential date/partner...
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    (Original post by Anonymous Coward)
    AS a male, cute is the LAST THING you wanna be called. Unless it's after you've been given one or more of the better complements.

    Cute has connotations of being childlike in some aspect. Either having a childlike face or childlike mannerisms. You're inoffensive. Not bad to look at. You wont be called ugly, because you aren't. your face is well ut together, but you have a safe and inoffensive face. Cute is only a complement from the type of girl who males would also describe as cute.

    Gorgeous, hot, sexy are clearly better.
    Beautiful seems iffy, but if a girl calls you beautiful, you've won.

    Cute means they appreciate the niceness about you. Whereas hot, sexy, beautiful means thy want to jump your bones and lay it on you. Given the chance they would ride your penis raw.
    Which is the preference?

    If cute is the first and only thing that comes to her mind, you've lost (unless she's a Taylor Swift type 'innocent, I'm still about 15 in my head' girl)
    if she's already said you're hot ten times, then the cute can be taken as a bonus.

    You're welcome.
    I disagree with you , this is just your opinion which ofc u are entitled to but idont think you should say it as every other girl is going to say the same - if icall a guy cute i will be just as attracted to him as someone i call hot doesnt make a difference in the slightest
 
 
 
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