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    (Original post by sparklenshine)
    Well, there's this guy I know on my course. He has great hair..and I always dream of touching it. I talk to him a bit but I don't think he likes me and I don't really like him but I think he's attractive..I'd love to touch his hair..but the problem is he's never alone but always with his friend who I also know.

    Now, would it be weird if I just randomly asked during a conversation with the two of them that I think he has great hair and can I touch it? Of course I'd say this with a laugh..but I'm wondering what his friend would say about it and whether he'd make it awkward etc..guys, if a girl you didn't really know asked this, what would you do or say? And does she seem weird or just kind of funny? Because I don't want to seem weird. It just looks so soft..
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    Hey aren't you that girl who posted that thread earlier about your confidence with guys?
    Glad you are making progress ...definitely do it ..its cute...

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    (Original post by xoflower)
    lol. Thats what I thought. White people should NEVER touch a black persons afro, it comes across as rude. If you ask and they let you touch it then fair enough.

    I have seen too many white people touch black peoples hair without permission, like we are some kind of zoo attraction (which we were in the past tbh in some European countries).
    PREACH!! I don't even let my black friends touch my hair, let alone my white ones. It's just so unnecessary imo.....OP I think there are better ways to introduce yourself to this guy than by asking to touch his hair
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    What kind of hair does this guy have? If it's curly/in a bun/in a curly bun/long and curly/voluminous and curly then it will be an incredibly normal occurrence for him for people to want to touch it, and he'll oblige, unless he's flirting, due to the tedium of the question, he will not be shocked, surprised and only mildly flattered. His friend might be like WTF!?! But its unlikely because the friend has probably touched it in the past. But ultimately the friend doesn't matter that much.
    I am talking from experience as I have had curly hair for years which I have now grown and put in a man bun sometimes. Pretty much from high school onwards its been a regular occurrence for people to random come up to me and touch my hair, or ask to touch it, oft times people I've never met. So the guy in question is likely to be used to it.
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    Touch his **** instead, he'd probably prefer it.
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    (Original post by realunited)
    Hey aren't you that girl who posted that thread earlier about your confidence with guys?
    Glad you are making progress ...definitely do it ..its cute...

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    Yes I am lol..but I don't really know if I can do this. It's a bit much for me ..and especially if he says no. I don't know how I'll face him again.
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    (Original post by GillSmith)
    I guess you're experienced in touching peoples cocks, keep it up, but nobody needs your brilliant advices here...
    Alright precious, sorry if I offended you
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    (Original post by sparklenshine)
    Yes I am lol..but I don't really know if I can do this. It's a bit much for me ..and especially if he says no. I don't know how I'll face him again.
    Sh** happens to all of us....learn from ur mistakes

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    Actually why don't you introduce yourself to him

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    (Original post by sparklenshine)
    Hahaha, that's great lol. I definitely want to smell his hair too. It looks like it smells great. In fact, he looks like he smells great. I'd like to smell his body too. So, how did you ask him? Just casually, or with a smile, or a laugh etc? Lol I really want to do this haha
    Lol, you sound a little obsessed

    It's was just a guy I'd known for a couple of days. We were on the topic of hair and I commented that he had really good hair. I asked if I could touch it and he happily obliged Then he mentioned some product he'd used on it so I asked if I could smell it. I probably did look an eensy bit odd to anyone watching but he had a sense of humour about it.

    I can't guarantee a positive reaction from everyone, it depends on the person. It might be a little strange if you've never spoken to the guy at all before.

    Oh and I would not ask to smell someones body. That is quite strange.
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    (Original post by sparklenshine)
    Hahaha, that's great lol. I definitely want to smell his hair too. It looks like it smells great. In fact, he looks like he smells great. I'd like to smell his body too. So, how did you ask him? Just casually, or with a smile, or a laugh etc? Lol I really want to do this haha
    You are weird: the hot kind of weird. Carry on.
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    (Original post by Profesh)
    You are weird: the hot kind of weird. Carry on.
    Lol, so I can do this? And what is the not hot kind of weird in this situation? What should I avoid doing/saying? And what if he says no?
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    Lol, you sound a little obsessed

    It's was just a guy I'd known for a couple of days. We were on the topic of hair and I commented that he had really good hair. I asked if I could touch it and he happily obliged Then he mentioned some product he'd used on it so I asked if I could smell it. I probably did look an eensy bit odd to anyone watching but he had a sense of humour about it.

    I can't guarantee a positive reaction from everyone, it depends on the person. It might be a little strange if you've never spoken to the guy at all before.

    Oh and I would not ask to smell someones body. That is quite strange.
    Hahaha that's great. I have spoken to him before but I don't really know him well. I don't think he'd say no..but I really don't know.

    What would you have said if they guy you asked said no and thought it was weird?
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    Just a reminder if there is anymore fighting and insulting posts, then this thread will be locked, thanks.
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    if somebody will do this to me i will take it as a compliment.
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    I would go like oh dude your hair looks so soft it's ridiculous what the hell do you use? And then run my fingers through those sexy locks.
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    Thanks sweet <3
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    (Original post by sparklenshine)
    Well, there's this guy I know on my course. He has great hair..and I always dream of touching it. I talk to him a bit but I don't think he likes me and I don't really like him but I think he's attractive..I'd love to touch his hair..but the problem is he's never alone but always with his friend who
    Now, would it be weird if I just randomly asked during a conversation with the two of them that I think he has great hair and can I touch it? Of course I'd say this with a laugh..but I'm wondering what his friend would say about it and whether he'd make it awkward etc..guys, if a girl you didn't really know asked this, what would you do or say? And does she seem weird or just kind of funny? Because I don't want to seem weird. It just looks so soft..
    Thanks!
    i would take it as a compliment
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    (Original post by sparklenshine)
    Thanks sweet <3
    Just wondering, have you found a love interest yet?
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    (Original post by Rock Fan)
    Just a reminder if there is anymore fighting and insulting posts, then this thread will be locked, thanks.
    OP vents this kind of thread once in a while, and responds to every post. She can't help it if someone insults her
 
 
 
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