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all my life I have been told I chat *******s, how do I stop this? watch

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    (Original post by samba)
    True, you'd make a good couple.
    Naff off.
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Naff off.
    Everybody needs some love.
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    (Original post by Odd socks)
    I'll be honest, you use a lot of jargon and stuff and it can be difficult to read.

    but I feel like you don't give everyone enough credit, you assume we're all slaves to our hormones and have no thought processes at all. like your point about 'hypergamy'. you act like women have to follow your rules on how your pseudo science says they should act and it's actually rather insulting that you imply we're all callous *****es who will instantly drop a man as soon as someone you consider 'better' comes along. like God forbid we're actually capable of liking someone for something other then the number of mammoths they could kill


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    That's OK, I did my best to explain the jargon I used

    I understand it's insulting, but these definitions weren't created by me, but a separate philosophy I very reluctantly delved into and came to detest but accept as plausible all the same. In practice it is rather context-sensitive, and more nuanced than the generalisations made here, however I have seen a lot of evidence for the basic principles of TRP as a general, rather than absolute rule

    I should explain that the implications are that men are quite callous too (cf. polygamy), all in all rather ****ty for humanity, it's somewhat anti-anthropocentrist!
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Just stop talking.

    I have a similar problem, every time I open my mouth I piss people off. :sad:
    that's not true, for me at least, you make the odd self-deprecating remark but it's nowhere near on the scale that I share my obsession
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    (Original post by samba)
    Everybody needs some love.
    But I don't want just anybody to love me. Go away.
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    But I don't want just anybody to love me. Go away.
    Perhaps you're not worth the love of the people you want. You'll have to compromise.

    After all, you need somebody significantly impaired so you can beat them at scrabble and stuff and feel some self worth :moon:
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    That's OK, I did my best to explain the jargon I used

    I understand it's insulting, but these definitions weren't created by me, but a separate philosophy I very reluctantly delved into and came to detest but accept as plausible all the same. In practice it is rather context-sensitive, and more nuanced than the generalisations made here, however I have seen a lot of evidence for the basic principles of TRP as a general, rather than absolute rule

    I should explain that the implications are that men are quite callous too (cf. polygamy), all in all rather ****ty for humanity, it's somewhat anti-anthropocentrist!
    I really don't think there's any way for someone on tsr to help you, you're so convinced by this redpill bull****


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    (Original post by samba)
    Perhaps you're not worth the love of the people you want. You'll have to compromise.

    After all, you need somebody significantly impaired so you can beat them at scrabble and stuff and feel some self worth :moon:
    I know I'm not worth it. No one would miss me if I were dead.
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    But I don't want just anybody to love me. Go away.
    Maz this is not me hitting on you, but please tell me you're not the female version of the Nice Guy who only accepts dating Scarlett Johansson and Candice Swanipoel i can't spell her name
    ?

    edit: next comment ^^^ not true at all
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    Maz this is not me hitting on you, but please tell me you're not the female version of the Nice Guy who only accepts dating Scarlett Johansson and Candice Swanipoel i can't spell her name
    ?
    Wut?
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    I know I'm not worth it. No one would miss me if I were dead.
    Let's be fair, your parents probably would. And perhaps a bunch of TSR guys lurking the forest.
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    (Original post by Odd socks)
    I really don't think there's any way for someone on tsr to help you, you're so convinced by this redpill bull****


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    yeah I'm not 100% certain myself I think if I put in their basic self-improvement measures it might take off some of the anxiety so I don't focus on the crummy bits? Also going to see Relate although I have been told by Ronove that they may not be able to help me.
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    Wut?
    you say no-one will date you yet you have like 150 followers and probably several guys hitting on you IRL, however what typically happens when this is a guy, is that he wants this hot girl he knows but she doesn't like him back, several other girls are infatuated with him but he's not interested-then he complains he gets no female attention.
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    (Original post by samba)
    Let's be fair, your parents probably would. And perhaps a bunch of TSR guys lurking the forest.
    No they wouldn't. They're probably ashamed they had such a disgusting daughter.
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    yeah I'm not 100% certain myself I think if I put in their basic self-improvement measures it might take off some of the anxiety so I don't focus on the crummy bits? Also going to see Relate although I have been told by Ronove that they may not be able to help me.
    ive never heard of relate (maybe an English thing?) but I think you'd be better off seeing a proper therapist


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    (Original post by Odd socks)
    ive never heard of relate (maybe an English thing?) but I think you'd be better off seeing a proper therapist


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    it is apparently couples counselling yeah English. Still on a waiting list for NHS Step 4, I don't think they'll help me with this theory itself tbh, just my reactions to it
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    (Original post by Maid Marian)
    No they wouldn't. They're probably ashamed they had such a disgusting daughter.
    Nah, parents truly do love their kids regardless :moon:

    And look on the bright side, you're not the OP.
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    (Original post by Smash Bandicoot)
    it is apparently couples counselling yeah English. Still on a waiting list for NHS Step 4, I don't think they'll help me with this theory itself tbh, just my reactions to it
    hmm doesn't seem particularly suitable since you're not a couple :confused:

    I had a nhs therapist when I was younger and they really helped me. my obsessive thoughts and anxieties were different to yours but impacted my life fairly severely and the lady really helped reduce and rationalise these thoughts. hopefully the same will happen for you.




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    (Original post by samba)
    Perhaps you're not worth the love of the people you want. You'll have to compromise.

    After all, you need somebody significantly impaired so you can beat them at scrabble and stuff and feel some self worth :moon:
    I've never seen you so vicious and evil before :lol:
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    (Original post by Another)
    I've never seen you so vicious and evil before :lol:
    he's positively callous to me these days
 
 
 
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