I never seem to get called good looking or intelligent, this makes me feel sad :(

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Lots of people are like this. Like myself. It doesn't matter really.

Does it not bother you that you are mediocre and your life is relatively insignificant? Does it not distress you to think one day you may be forgotten and yet others who are great are remembered by millions?

Reply 41

ParadiseFound

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

Bitchy as hell, my point precisely

She's right though.

A couple years back I was a skinny dweeb with terrible skin, a haircut that aged me horridly. I was the kind of guy the girls would treat as an invisible entity.

I sorted all that **** out.

Fast forward 2 years and now girls can barely keep their hands off me (no joke). When I go out I get girls saying the most obscure **** ('im so happy I met you'), taking me by the hand and leading me to the dancefloor, initiating make outs etc

Most people have it in them to look attractive but do little about it.

Reply 42

Plastic Face

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

Why does it bother you?

Reply 43

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by Plastic Face

Why does it bother you?

Reread Paradise Found. Whatever counsellors convince me to think of myself, if I do not achieve results in the form of great success, I am lying to myself, I am lesser tha them.

Reply 44

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by ParadiseFound

Great, prove to OP why you're better tha him. Tell him what happens to begas-te him about the divorce, the cheating, the depression. Tell him no ine cares, least of all the gks. Just give him the ****ing truth. I alread have the truth, I have a split lip and scars of my arm to prove it

Reply 45

ParadiseFound

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

TSR community Riku needs help srs, someone call the popo

Reply 46

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by ParadiseFound

TSR community Riku needs help srs, someone call the popo

You mean e erx word you said and I have scars to prove I understand its weight. What is wrong with that?

Reply 47

username944192

Maybe youre not good looking or intelligent?

Reply 48

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by infairverona

Maybe youre not good looking or intelligent?

Haha give it to him give truth make it hurt until he changes

Reply 49

Zenarthra

Original post by Multitalented me

The main compliments I seem to receive from the few people that I know is that I'm nice/lovely/sweet/friendly/funny but yeah seemingly never the aforementioned two qualities, it would just make me feel kinda good if people could say that I'm handsome or intelligent as well :daydreaming:

(& preferably not family or older people to be totally honest). Anyway I dunno why I made this thread really :erm:

Anyone else who can empathise perhaps?...

Show us a picture of yourself?

Reply 50

username944192

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

Haha give it to him give truth make it hurt until he changes

Well I can't say either way can I? I don't know him. But there are far worse things to be anywa

Reply 51

ParadiseFound

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

You mean e erx word you said and I have scars to prove I understand its weight. What is wrong with that?

Your babble is incomprehensible brah

Reply 52

ParadiseFound

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

Haha give it to him give truth make it hurt until he changes

Is filling his head with lies going to be any less harmful in the long term ?

Reply 53

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by ParadiseFound

Is filling his head with lies going to be any less harmful in the long term ?

Jesus christ this better be Nate

Reply 54

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by infairverona

Well I can't say either way can I? I don't know him. But there are far worse things to be anywa

There are few worse things than to be both undesirable and useless.

Reply 55

scrawlx101

be grateful some people dont get anything at all...

Reply 56

ParadiseFound

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

Jesus christ this better be Nate

I'm not Nate and if you think im some arrogant narcissist trying to undermine his confidence your wrong.

I was once in a similar position to his and at times I had thoughts as dark as yours. My confidence was incredibly small. But I improved myself.

Sometimes as hurtful as the truth might be its a wholly necessary boot ine right ddirection.

Reply 57

slg60

Ahahaha you are moaning about not getting complimented enough, yet you got the best compliment you can get, you're funny! :biggrin:

Reply 58

Smash Bandicoot

Original post by ParadiseFound

There is no reason to know that OP is not already objectively quite any X positive trait. The nature of perfectionism is go never be happy withojt anything less than perfection so I will always be a little self loatjing with my current mindset.

Reply 59

username1602603

Original post by Smash Bandicoot

Bitchy as hell, my point precisely

Nice spot of sexism there. Guys like you complain when you get sympathy compliments - "omg its so patronising when girls tell me I'm sweet" - yet when someone is actually honest and most importantly constructive, you don't want to hear it.

Your bitterness aside, what I said is true. It's all about basic branding - what separates you from every other person out there? You can't put a can of blank white label beans on the shelf and expect it to sell. In other words it's rare for people who make no effort to get compliments.