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    (Original post by sjgriffiths)
    Nope.

    We're taking things slowly ourselves It's a pretty innocent relationship really in that respect
    Fair enough. I waited once for a girl to turn 16.

    (Original post by karmacrunch)
    You being in Y12 kinda makes me wonder why you're attracted to her because she's still developing... Unless she's a Y9 who looks a lot older than she is? :holmes:


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    Some guys are into that.
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    (Original post by Lewchesh)
    So i am here today to ask.. Is it weird or wrong to date a 14 year old girl in year 9 (uk)
    I am 16 (17 in june). And am currently at college.

    Please give me your opinions and answers!!


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    It depends on the girl. If she wants to then you can, if not then no!
    But i dont really know for sure
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    It's fine. Just don't bang her for a couple years
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    (Original post by edwardvickers)
    It depends on the girl. If she wants to then you can, if not then no!
    But i dont really know for sure
    Surely that goes for any girl, regardless of age... XD
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    (Original post by ThatPerson)
    Your logic still doesn't work. ie 10 & 16.

    A 2 year age gap at OP's age is too much.
    yeah it does
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    (Original post by theTeddyBearx)
    yeah it does
    Can't you do actual damage having sex with a girl who is under 16 when the man is older? Sounds risky
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    (Original post by Borgia)
    Can't you do actual damage having sex with a girl who is under 16 when the man is older? Sounds risky
    Do you mean legal damage or physiological damage? Because it's not like girls suddenly develop enough to withstand D. when they hit 16.
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    (Original post by Borgia)
    Can't you do actual damage having sex with a girl who is under 16 when the man is older? Sounds risky

    my principle applies to people over 18. i was talking about, say, a 19 year old girl and 28 year old boy kinda thinggggggggg
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    (Original post by sjgriffiths)
    Do you mean legal damage or physiological damage? Because it's not like girls suddenly develop enough to withstand D. when they hit 16.
    Physical. Yes but between 14 and 16 they are still growing. I don't know Ive never had sex with anyone less than 16
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    (Original post by Borgia)
    Physical. Yes but between 14 and 16 they are still growing. I don't know Ive never had sex with anyone less than 16
    People start growing long before that and finish long after. For girls, puberty is generally quoted as starting at 10/11 and ending at 15/17, so it's absolutely a case-by-case basis. It's actually the guys who develop later than girls, on average.

    The youngest mother on record was 5 years old. Obviously I'm not suggesting that's a safe time to do anything of the sort, but it's an interesting example of how it simply differs from person to person.
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    (Original post by sjgriffiths)
    People start growing long before that and finish long after. For girls, puberty is generally quoted as starting at 10/11 and ending at 15/17, so it's absolutely a case-by-case basis. It's actually the guys who develop later than girls, on average.

    The youngest mother on record was 5 years old. Obviously I'm not suggesting that's a safe time to do anything of the sort, but it's an interesting example of how it simply differs from person to person.
    Still wouldn't go below 16.
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    When I was 14 I was with a 16 year old, but it didn't matter because I was probably more mature than him :rolleyes:. Obviously it wouldn't be a good idea to do anything risky with her, you know, because it's illegal. But apart from that I say go for it!
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    Not weird necessarily but potentially, and perhaps a little complicated/liable to lead to questions of legality* :dontknow:
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    Not judging her or anything since I don't know how she is like. when I saw your title I immediately thought of false rape accusations. While some girls are mature at 14 some are not. If you have a fight, at what length will she go to get back at you?
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    (Original post by Lewchesh)
    So i am here today to ask.. Is it weird or wrong to date a 14 year old girl in year 9 (uk)
    I am 16 (17 in june). And am currently at college.

    Please give me your opinions and answers!!


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    Yes its weird and illegal
 
 
 
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