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Fahim Awal
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Fall in love with someone who deserves your heart by Allah Laws. Not someone who plays with it by their desires..
Stay strong and pray to Allah (azzawajal) to give you strength,
Just think, what do you care about more?:
Obeying Allah, the creator of you and the universe or..
Disobeying Allah, and following shaytans path into the hellfire by the action and committing a sin.

I know how it's like at sixth form, I see a lot of young boys and girls hiding from older Muslim people because they're ashamed. Don't be like this sister, your a Queen! all sisters in this ummah are queens. Maybe this is a test from Allah (SWT), if you stay strong and stay away from boyfriend/girlfriend things, it can be your chance to go to paradise.
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(Original post by katbob)
Astacfirullah... tauba tauba?

Now you can go snog him?
To be honest, that is a stupid comment to make, because these modern days so many muslim girls and boys are in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships together and they are happy and inlove so you can't make that comment like their going against everything they believe in.(just saying)
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(Original post by porn induced coma)
She never said she was looking for praise from a guy, don't twist her words.

What we do know is that her inherited religion is stifling her ability to live her life in a way that is pleasing to her, and not your made up god.
"but its like every other girl has a boyfriend, and are having the best time of their lives."


The sex before marriage thing is also cultural so...........
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(Original post by Dumachi)
Well thats better but goes to show how backwards "some asian" cultures are.
Also in Islam, you have to agree to the marriage first. Although as usual some pick and choose.
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(Original post by Dumachi)
What? Marriages are based on love and trust.

Most these couples will grow to love and respect each other
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(Original post by ridwan12)
"but its like every other girl has a boyfriend, and are having the best time of their lives."


The sex before marriage thing is also cultural so...........
Tell me how that equates to 'seeking praise from a guy'.

She has expressed clearly that it is 1. because of religion and 2. because of her parents. She has not mentioned any kind of cultural factors, only those two things.

Inherited religion is poison to the mind, people need to think for themselves.
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Yeah i know the sex before marriage thing, but she has to be careful and think how far she is going to go. But i am a muslim and i have a boyfriend and he loves and cares about me and we are very happy together.sooo?
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(Original post by porn induced coma)
Tell me how that equates to 'seeking praise from a guy'.

She has expressed clearly that it is 1. because of religion and 2. because of her parents. She has not mentioned any kind of cultural factors, only those two things.

Inherited religion is poison to the mind, people need to think for themselves.
She said she wanted praise from her parents and said "but its like every other girl has a boyfriend, and are having the best time of their lives.", so I assumed she was expecting praise etc. Ideally it should of said " seeking a good time from a guy".

But you just assumed she hated her religion..........

"Parents" are due to culture........
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(Original post by ridwan12)
Nope you can find a person of you're liking and have dates, but sex etc is haram. Most muslim's don't have arranged marriage it's more of an asian culture.


The culture is influenced by the religion though
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(Original post by ridwan12)
She said she wanted praise from her parents and said "but its like every other girl has a boyfriend, and are having the best time of their lives.", so I assumed she was expecting praise etc. Ideally it should of said " seeking a good time from a guy".

But you just assumed she hated her religion..........

"Parents" are due to culture........
No, i think she is holding back because of her religion and because she does not want to hurt her parents. But what she should do is sit down and talk with her parents and tell them how she feels.
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(Original post by RBalboa)
Yeah i know the sex before marriage thing, but she has to be careful and think how far she is going to go. But i am a muslim and i have a boyfriend and he loves and cares about me and we are very happy together.sooo?
What do mean so? You dont care that you're sinning? :hmmm:

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What do mean so? You dont care that you're sinning? :hmmm:

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No , i understand and do care that i am sinning, but you cant control your heart and the way it feels for other people.Like the guy i am with now, i cant help my feelings for him, i love him so much because he cares and understands me and its vice-versa. It depends on the guy you like.
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There are many Muslim girls who date/are in relationships with guys who they aren't married to. Even in those 'awful, backward, repressive and evil' Muslim countries. Seriously.
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(Original post by miss Peace)
I really want to go out with someone in sixth form but because of my religion and culture -I definitely stand no chance of even talking to him
So you are Islamic and you think that will put him off? Honestly...if he is worth your time it wont matter at all. My girlfriend is muslim and I didn't think twice about it.
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(Original post by Vampire90210)
There are many Muslim girls who date/are in relationships with guys who they aren't married to. Even in those 'awful, backward, repressive and evil' Muslim countries. Seriously.
I am from England and the guy i am with i could marry one day.
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(Original post by ridwan12)

The sex before marriage thing is also cultural so...........

That's very much a matter of religion; the cultures that prohibit it are predominantly Muslim
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(Original post by RBalboa)
No , i understand and do care that i am sinning, but you cant control your heart and the way it feels for other people.Like the guy i am with now, i cant help my feelings for him, i love him so much because he cares and understands me and its vice-versa. It depends on the guy you like.
Ok i see, but you can control your desires tho, cant you? You can have feelings but you didnt have to form a relationship with him

So would you rather please allah or please your desires and your boyfriend? Whats more important to you?

Sorry if im asking too many questions. I am just curious :yes:

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Truth be told, I'd imagine the OP would have a harder time getting the guy to go out with her if he isn't Muslim. What with the hysteria surrounding Islam and Muslim communities in the West. 95 percent chance he hates Islam/Muslims with a passion.
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So you are Islamic and you think that will put him off? Honestly...if he is worth your time it wont matter at all. My girlfriend is muslim and I didn't think twice about it.
Yes!!!i am muslim my boyfriend isnt but he doesnt care
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I am from England and the guy i am with i could marry one day.
I'm sorry? I don't understand why that was directed at me?
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