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(Original post by 4 sizzle nizzle)
I don't understand, surely finding a normal 9-5 would be more appropriate and save you the worry of having your sugar walls being smashed by some random dude?:lolwut:


But hey who am I to judge, right.:wink2:

I have a 9-5 and work another job weekends and also freelance. I'm still crippling with debt and bills.
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As per my OP (maybe you should read) I already work a full time job and also have a part time job and freelance on evenings.

I work 7 days a week and an average of 80 hours a week at this moment.

Please read before saying untruths.
Oh why do you have to go into prostitution as a last resort if you already work so much? Isnt there anything else you could do? Or do you want to do it anyway?
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I have a 9-5 and work another job weekends and also freelance. I'm still crippling with debt and bills.
Where do you live? You could maybe get help with debt and bills. I know that in the UK people struggling to pay debt can get help.
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Where do you live? You could maybe get help with debt and bills. I know that in the UK people struggling to pay debt can get help.
London.

I went to stepchange already but I don't want to go on DMP it'll wreck my credit for years so i've been paying it.
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London.

I went to stepchange already but I don't want to go on DMP it'll wreck my credit for years so i've been paying it.
have you looked on this site? It gives advice about lots of things, maybe it can help I dont know. http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/loans/debt-help-plan
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So much slut-shaming.

Just because you disagree with a behaviour, doesn't mean it's bad, and it doesn't mean someone who does it don't respect themselves.

Just because I won't personally accept an offer from Brookes to study anything, doesn't mean people who do don't respect themselves.

Going for money is not not respecting yourself either. Everyone works for money, please. Also, if anything, it's self-respect to recognise that you can actually charge for something you do/are rather than doing it for free.
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lol you girls dontknow the meaning of respect. Letting guys pay for your body is filthy and not self respect.
Girls sleeping with lots of guys for free is slightly better than being an escort.
If you could make a lot of money out of sleeping with lots of women, would you do it?
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OP although this was not your question, I'm not qualified to answer any psychological problems which other people have brought up, so I heavily advise you do some research first.

(Original post by Anonymous)
If you have self-respect in the first place surely u would not have resorted to selling your body to get out of debt. Period.
This is to others who have similar views as well.

It is a method. If it was an option to get out of debt I don't think I would get out of otherwise, I would weigh up the options. Having sex with a few people (if played safely of course & preventing any psychological problems associated with it the most possible) is certainly a better than being in a perpetuating debt (it does depend on the situation of course.)
Fool.

(Original post by Novascope)
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From your posts I have read so far, I wish I can up vote your posts more than once, and up vote more than one post.

(Original post by Anonymous)
hi are u an expert in chemotherapy as well because i am finding a nice hospital where i can do it after this convo
I can't believe someone up voted this post.

(Original post by phunky_fresh)
I'm not sure about anyone else, but I can't pretend I can get my head around this. I just feel there are other ways around it and I asked OP if she has another other skills to offer. I also highlighted the fact she should be worried about losing her self-respect, I mean why hasn't this crossed her mind? She made a post about being worried about getting attached, really? I didn't say she had no self-respect I'm just saying she should throughly think about what she could potentially be losing here. You say there are documentaries about women that do this or whatever, I'm sure some women will claim to have their happy ending but this isn't the same for everybody. So why even consider going down this road when you can save yourself so much trouble? OP can do what she wants, I agree her life, her fanny!
Good post. Yeah, I don't know her situation, but the problem would then lie if OP had other options. If there was a situation in which OP had little/no choice, it's not something OP should definitely not consider.



To everyone, the standards of self-respect can only really be defined by oneself; it's what it says on the tin.
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(Original post by Anonymous)
As per my OP (maybe you should read) I already work a full time job and also have a part time job and freelance on evenings.

I work 7 days a week and an average of 80 hours a week at this moment.

Please read before saying untruths.
I was talking about people finding jobs in general. I wasn't actually referring to you up until the last line when I mentioned OP wanting quick money, which is basically what you are essentially seeking, right?

I read your post and I replied several times. One of my responses said I would rather do XYZ on the side which was referring to you wanting to be a prositute alongside your other jobs. So I did read your post already!
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But I didn't reply to you first did I? Haha, I was talking about the other two guys that I was having the discussion with, you just came in now. I didn't mean that you were saying she had no self-respect. I totally agree with your last bit, there are other ways people can earn money to save themselves out of debt or whatever, but they still have the choice of what way to go about it
Lol I know. That's true and people will always have their own opinions. Honestly if someone feels so strongly about something they will do it regardless, so she needn't worry about anything anyone here has to say.
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If you could make a lot of money out of sleeping with lots of women, would you do it?
I know exactly what you're trying to do and the answer is no. Especially because I don't decide who I ****.

Would you?
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Don't do it.
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(Original post by bittr n swt)
I know exactly what you're trying to do and the answer is no. Especially because I don't decide who I ****.

Would you?
You don't decide who you sleep with? Erm...yes you do.
I wouldn't at this moment in time as I don't need to. I don't have a major moral issue with it though.
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if you cant seperate real feelings from casual sex you shouldnt be having casual sex


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there's too much love
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My only worry is for the OP's safety.
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My only worry is for the OP's safety.
please elaborate
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You don't decide who you sleep with? Erm...yes you do.
I wouldn't at this moment in time as I don't need to. I don't have a major moral issue with it though.
If you want the money you'll sleep with anyone. I have self respect for myself unlike some people on here.

The fact that you'll consider it disgusts me.
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Ugh why would you want to sell yourself to these men? Surely you have a skill or two you can run with that doesn't involve your genitalia?

To each their own.
you're just jelly you don't have a money making vag.

I sure am.
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If you want the money you'll sleep with anyone. I have self respect for myself unlike some people on here.

The fact that you'll consider it disgusts me.
Your reaction just made me laugh. I fully expected that. Good for you.
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please elaborate
What will you do in a situation where you say no, or that he has to wear a condom, and he doesn't listen.

Or someone who refuses to pay.

How will you manage to make sure no-one forces you to do things you're not comfortable with?
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