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    5 months. He was my first "proper" boyfriend so I was still a virgin at the time. He was very good to me and tried to be as patient as possible, though at times I could see he was struggling lol
    Anyway, I think it depends on each person and relationship - it can take more or less time, as long as you both feel properly ready then that's all that matters imo
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    I'd known him about 9 months, by the time we slept together and I lost my virginity to him we'd been back on for a month after a 4-month break. I imagine people don't wait as long in a relationship that's not quite as on/off or if it's not one person's first time - I guess for most people it's within the first few weeks or first couple of dates.

    Both 16 at the time, together not even 2 weeks, both lost virginity to each other, still together now so wasn't just a stupid decision, although it was quite rash hahaha. Funny that it wasn't my (the guys) idea though 😂
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    I'm still a virgin and in this case I'd wait at least 4-5 months as I've never been in a proper relationship (I've never dated the same guy for more than two months) so I don't want to regret it later.

    i don't think I'll care about it after losing my virginity with the one I like, I might do it with someone the first time we go on a date.

    7 months, lost my virginity to him. We are still going strong and will hopefully go on to have little ones of our own^.^

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    Guess it depends what you mean by "dating".. but my ex and I (my first and only boyfriend yet) had sex way before either of us admitted to liking the other, let alone making things official
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