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    (Original post by EllainKahlo)
    Have you tried not arguing with her or is she just so used to it that she will argue even if you're obviously not in the mood?
    Apart from meaningless small talk, all we do is argue, or ignore each other.
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    (Original post by RainbowKiwi)
    I hate you! :sexface:
    I don't know you so I can't hate you, but if you're just after sex I can pretend I hate you... you horrible cow!!!
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    (Original post by Bbrrian)
    She's not what I would usually consider good looking, but lately I'm rethinking my preferences. I wouldn't says she's girly either.
    Late teens/early 20's.
    Maybe she kinda fancies you too and you recognise this subconciously? Think about it, if she really didn't give a **** would she really bother to go through all this trouble to wind you up, unless she does this with everyone but you said that actually she's quite nice to other people

    What do you want to happen? Do you want to just hook up with her or get to know her or just get her to stop bothering you?
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    (Original post by tootles44)
    Im just curious: when guys say they fancy girls do they mean primarily her looks or does personality come into it like it does for girls? Because as a girl I have never fancied someone cause of their looks, its always been as a result of their personality
    For guys, IME at least:

    Fancying her = she looks hot, I'd like to shag her.
    Liking her= she has a nice personality, attractive, I'd like to take her on a date.
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    (Original post by Bbrrian)
    Whoa, let's not bring love into this. I don't love this girl. I'm just wildly attracted, and a bit infatuated. But NOT in love.
    Oops :mmm: attraction is a form of love, just not centred from the heart if you know what I mean...
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    (Original post by Bbrrian)
    Apart from meaningless small talk, all we do is argue, or ignore each other.
    Have you been working with her a long time? Your relationship with her might change so I'd just wait and see what happens. Do you think you'd want to date her in the future?
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    For guys, IME at least:

    Fancying her = she looks hot, I'd like to shag her.
    Liking her= she has a nice personality, attractive, I'd like to take her on a date.
    You take personality into account, that's nice
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    (Original post by tootles44)
    Maybe she kinda fancies you too and you recognise this subconciously? Think about it, if she really didn't give a **** would she really bother to go through all this trouble to wind you up, unless she does this with everyone but you said that actually she's quite nice to other people

    What do you want to happen? Do you want to just hook up with her or get to know her or just get her to stop bothering you?
    Maybe she does feel the same but I'm not gonna ask because if the feeling is not mutual then I think she's won.
    I think I just want to hook up. I don't want her to go away but I don't want a relationship either because if we ever got together we would drive each other insane.
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    (Original post by iSerendipity)
    Oops :mmm: attraction is a form of love, just not centred from the heart if you know what I mean...
    Lol go away
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I don't know you so I can't hate you, but if you're just after sex I can pretend I hate you... you horrible cow!!!
    Thought you said in another thread you don't hate anyone tho?

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    You're fcking annoying
    omg :mmm:
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    (Original post by EllainKahlo)
    Have you been working with her a long time? Your relationship with her might change so I'd just wait and see what happens. Do you think you'd want to date her in the future?
    Nah, I haven't known her for too long. It's still a bit fresh. No, I don't think I'd want a relationship with her, just attraction.
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    Why this is weird. I had the same exact problem. It could even be the same girl lol.

    We got along for a while and then would argue, then not talk to each other. I ended up hating her because of all the bad things she did. I don't know if she hated me but I would say things to annoy her because of how she treated me before. I couldn't let it go. Eventually we just stopped talking to each other completely, I didn't even look at her, she eventually left and I was sad after a while but now it's like whatever. I still like her a bit.

    My advice would be to apologise and try to get along with her. If it doesn't work out then at least you tried.
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    (Original post by Sicaspeak)
    Wow, this is basically the plot of most poorly written fanfiction!
    This is what I was thinking.
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    (Original post by orka)
    Why this is weird. I had the same exact problem. It could even be the same girl lol.

    We got along for a while and then would argue, then not talk to each other. I ended up hating her because of all the bad things she did. I don't know if she hated me but I would say things to annoy her because of how she treated me before. I couldn't let it go. Eventually we just stopped talking to each other completely, I didn't even look at her, she eventually left and I was sad after a while but now it's like whatever. I still like her a bit.

    My advice would be to apologise and try to get along with her. If it doesn't work out then at least you tried.
    Ah man, it's the same situation over here. Nah, I'm not going to apologise to her because I don't think I've done anything wrong. And I have too much pride to let her win this.
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    (Original post by iSerendipity)
    You take personality into account, that's nice
    Of course, don't wanna spend my days with a miserable, uninteresting biatch :lol:
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    (Original post by RainbowKiwi)
    Thought you said in another thread you don't hate anyone tho?



    omg :mmm:
    Yeah............... but I can pretend to
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    (Original post by Bbrrian)
    Lol go away
    Okay, love :getmecoat:

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    Of course, don't wanna spend my days with a miserable, uninteresting biatch :lol:
    Amen to that :lol:
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    (Original post by Bbrrian)
    Ah man, it's the same situation over here. Nah, I'm not going to apologise to her because I don't think I've done anything wrong. And I have too much pride to let her win this.
    There's been a million moments in my life when I apologised even when I thought I was in the right. Every time I didn't apologise I regretted it.

    You don't have to apologise, just start talking again. I really liked the girl and I wish I could go back to fix things. Now I still think about her a lot.
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    (Original post by orka)
    There's been a million moments in my life when I apologised even when I thought I was in the right. Every time I didn't apologise I regretted it.

    You don't have to apologise, just start talking again. I really liked the girl and I wish I could go back to fix things. Now I still think about her a lot.
    Hmm, I'll probably just try to start some small talk but if she's rude I won't try again. I don't wanna regret anything
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    (Original post by Bbrrian)
    Hmm, I'll probably just try to start some small talk but if she's rude I won't try again. I don't wanna regret anything
    Well you made a thread about it so it obviously bothers you.
 
 
 
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