Why do feminists say 'teach men not to rape'?

Because most feminists believe every male has an instinctive desire to rape.
Funny how in most female rape cases the sentence is not nearly as long.

Believe it or not, most rapists aren't evil psychopaths that everyone paints them to be purely because it's an easier concept to deal with. It's not that black and white. Most of them are just normal people who did a horrible thing, many feel remorse and guilt.

Somewhere is their lives they went the wrong way, their morals became skewed ect. There are many factors that can lead someone to rape.

It's important for us as a society to not only understand how this happens, but also to help prevent this.

Edit: for the easily emotionally charged and those who overreact. No, I'm not saying that rapists aren't accountable for their own actions. Stop jumping to conclusions.

Once again feminists showing their anti male mentality.

Why are referring to feminists as one mass being? All sharing the same opinion??

pretty sexist to me

so if I jam my fist in there instead it isn't rape?

Because this is from mainstream feminism, it's not a fringe.

1 out of 181 rape accusations are false. 20% of all women will be raped in their lifetime. Stop derailing the discussion about rape to things that are completely irrelevant.

Is it?

So if you sent a survey out, (bearing in mind the amount of individuals on TSR who identify as feminists) asking people

A. Do they identify as a feminist

B. Do they agree that all men should be taught not rape

That everyone who answered yes to A., would also answer yes to B?

What you're doing, is what weak minded individuals do about other social groups in our world, such as Muslims. Using extreme statements made by more radical members of a group, to justify the hatred of every member of the group, or the group as a whole.

You can lie to yourself all you want but the truth is, if we teach boys from a young age to respect girls properly ect. then they'll grow up knowing right from wrong and it would reduce the amount of rapes as they get older.
Teaching women not to dress slutty etc. is ridiculous because then you're implying it's their fault and they're "asking for it"!? Women shouldn't have to avoid it to that extent when nothing is being done to prevent it from happening in the first place. (They probably shouldn't walk alone at night though)

I don't think you understood what I wrote.
The majority of rapists do not have mental illnesses, but that does not make them normal people. People do not wake up one day and commit sexual assault. In most cases, rape is the result of early childhood environment (such as being raped or assaulted themselves). Research indicates that a lot of rapists are angry at women and feel the need to dominate and control them. None of this, and I repeat none of this makes them normal people who simply make a few mistakes. When you say that, you are at the very least trivializing rapists which does not solve or help the issue, because they're not "normal people". They are people with mental health issues.

Many rapes happen because people don't understand what isn't consent. There's a lack of understand that saying 'yes' due to coercion or pressure isn't consent. People don't seem to understand that a lack of a 'no' doesn't mean a 'yes'. People think that having had sex with someone before means that you have consent to have sex with them again. People believe that if they pay for someone's dinner they 'deserve sex'. That sex is something they've 'earned' after a certain length of relationship. That is the person they're in a relationship with doesn't want sex for whatever reason that that person is 'withholding' or 'denying them' sex.

I think when they say teach men not to rape they don't mean tell them forced sex is wrong. Men know that.

What needs teaching is lessons on consent and how it can vary, and be given and taken away, and how if a person is so drunk they can barely stand up then they are not capable of consenting to sex.

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It's not even that complicated, but TSR gonna TSR.

Well done for turning it into an emotionally charged argument instead of a logical debate. I'm in no way saying they are not responsible for their own actions. Because they clearly are. But it's silly to put your fingers in your ears and yell blah blah blah i'm not listening just because you don't want to know how and why they end up as rapists. It's attitudes like that which prevent progress, which in turn does not help prevent rape.

Well you carry on trying to convince people that this is just by a minority of radical feminists. This is just the tip of the iceberg, there is so much other things that can be pointed out with regard to their views, narratives and accusations.