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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I see. How often? Just out of interest Not in a pervy way. For a change.
    We've only been engaged since march so its at least every day

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    (Original post by Cherie Amour)
    What if you are cybering with the webcam star?





    XD No man unless he's Mormon (and even still probably not...maybe then Amish) in the 21st century doesn't watch porn.
    Because you've met all men? I'm 100% sure he doesn't. He's a feminist and thinks it's degrading.

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    (Original post by holson)
    We've only been engaged since march so its at least every day

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    Fair enough, that'd be enough for me. Just.
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    (Original post by holson)
    Because you've met all men? I'm 100% sure he doesn't. He's a feminist and thinks it's degrading.

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    So he is of the thinking that women should not have the right to choose what profession they want to be in?
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    (Original post by DiddyDec)
    So he is of the thinking that women should not have the right to choose what profession they want to be in?
    Lol no, he's fine with these women choosing the profession but he thinks most porn treats the women in a way he wouldn't treat women, so he doesn't like watching it. He just thinks real sex between us is a lot better than watching fake orgasms OTT blowjobs...

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    (Original post by holson)
    Because you've met all men? I'm 100% sure he doesn't. He's a feminist and thinks it's degrading.

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    maybe he watches feminist porn?
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Then I'd say it counts as phone sex, which could potentially be cheating. But to say just watching people have sex amounts to cheating is a bit far, I think.
    Webcamming is phone sex?

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    Because you've met all men? I'm 100% sure he doesn't. He's a feminist and thinks it's degrading.

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    I have met all men, thank you very much.
    Oh a feminist. Is he a vegan?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    maybe he watches feminist porn?
    Shivers at the thought of femdom/female dominant.
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    (Original post by holson)
    It's not cheating but can still hurt feelings so it would need to be 'okayed' in a serious relationship I think.

    I'm lucky that my fiancé hates porn. So I never have to worry about it
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    Why though? It's really not a big deal.
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    (Original post by Cherie Amour)
    What if you are cybering with the webcam star?





    XD No man unless he's Mormon (and even still probably not...maybe then Amish) in the 21st century doesn't watch porn.
    Different rules for different couples but I can guess most people wouldn't be happy with that unless they've spoken about it previously or are in an open relationship, nor would I. If I were in a relationship right now, I'd let my partner know these things in advance so that they know the deal and can either agree or bounce.
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    (Original post by Cherie Amour)
    Webcamming is phone sex?
    Hmm. Poor choice of words on my part. It's webcam sex.

    Phone sex was the nearest established form of sex I could think of.
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    (Original post by EllainKahlo)
    Different rules for different couples but I can guess most people wouldn't be happy with that unless they've spoken about it previously or are in an open relationship, nor would I. If I were in a relationship right now, I'd let my partner know these things in advance so that they know the deal and can either agree or bounce.
    I agree but I really don't think watching porn is a big deal. But what I meant by asking about camming with the porn star (people do this, like live requests to the cammie during an internet show or privately if subbed to the website-don't ask me how I know). If you're camming with the porn star, it's like interactive porn but still porn. But as you're interacting, then it could be cheating...lol it's all very tricky.

    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Hmm. Poor choice of words on my part. It's webcam sex.

    Phone sex was the nearest established form of sex I could think of.
    It's cybering which is cam sex or using sexting or text roleplaying during IM :teehee:
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    Of course it isn't cheating and I don't need permission from my partner to masturbate or watch porn. How absurd.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    maybe he watches feminist porn?
    Lmao. I wonder what that would entail.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    maybe he watches feminist porn?
    Maybe he ain't watching women at all....
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    (Original post by Cherie Amour)
    I agree but I really don't think watching porn is a big deal. But what I meant by asking about camming with the porn star (people do this, like live requests to the cammie during an internet show or privately if subbed to the website-don't ask me how I know). If you're camming with the porn star, it's like interactive porn but still porn. But as you're interacting, then it could be cheating...lol it's all very tricky.



    It's cybering which is cam sex or using sexting or text roleplaying during IM :teehee:
    It is very tricky indeed and I never thought about that. I'm not keen on the idea but I'd still allow it as long as my partner wasn't spending all of their free time dedicated to cam shows or was paying for their tips etc. Then I'd have an issue with it and I'd either tell them or leave them.
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    (Original post by EllainKahlo)
    Because you're not engaged in a relationship with the pornstar(s) you're watching, you're just watching them have sex or masturbate. With internet dating etc. you are.
    What about phone in sex lines?
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    (Original post by EllainKahlo)
    It is very tricky indeed and I never thought about that. I'm not keen on the idea but I'd still allow it as long as my partner wasn't spending all of their free time dedicated to cam shows or was paying for their tips etc. Then I'd have an issue with it and I'd either tell them or leave them.
    If he went so far as to watch interactive porn, yea, I'd have an issue but it's basically like going to a strip club So would you take issue with strip clubs? I still haven't thought about this. I feel like men will be men but if I ask for respect then grant it to me. That being said I wouldn't ban him from strip clubs or porn, I might engage in it with him but if he's all addicted or lying like saying he was at the office but really at the champagne room with Porscha there will be hell to pay.
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    (Original post by Dazzzzzla)
    What about phone in sex lines?
    Lol people still do that? Men are so weird with how they get off. I saw this clip where a man called into a dispatch operator just for impromptu phone sex.
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    (Original post by Dazzzzzla)
    What about phone in sex lines?
    Everyone is different but I personally wouldn't be okay with that.
 
 
 
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