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    (Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal)
    When I read this post, I imagined you clicking your fingers whilst bobbing your head from side to side


    Going


    'mmhmmm, mmhmmmm'


    and


    'na-ah gurlfriend'
    That's not funny, more than anything it's a racial stereotype since I'm pretty sure you saw me in the n word thread but you know... you keep doing you I guess...
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    (Original post by sadly)
    That's not funny, more than anything it's a racial stereotype since I'm pretty sure you saw me in the n word thread but you know... you keep doing you I guess...
    oh no you didn't...
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    (Original post by Bupdeeboowah)
    Not wanting to offend you, but the girls I know who always say that they're not being slutty are often the sluttiest of the lot.
    I'm not a "ladylike" girl.. usernames a clue haha!
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    Not all men are the same. Some don't like sluts and others will go out with them.
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    (Original post by keromedic)
    Not all men are the same. Some don't like sluts and others will go out with them.
    true but some are hypocrites (as in op)
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    (Original post by Masih ad-Dajjal)
    When I read this post, I imagined you clicking your fingers whilst bobbing your head from side to side


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    'na-ah gurlfriend'
    Preach it sistah!
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    true but some are hypocrites (as in op)
    Perhaps your definition of what is slutty and theirs is different. Red lipstick or smokey eyes are not inherently slutty characteristics but they might seem to be if there are other features in the woman. It seems to me that you're making different judgments to your friends.
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    (Original post by Bupdeeboowah)
    Preach it sistah!
    boys who can't handle a strong independent woman

    SMH

    (Original post by keromedic)
    Perhaps your definition of what is slutty and theirs is different. Red lipstick or smokey eyes are not inherently slutty characteristics but they might seem to be if there are other features in the woman. It seems to me that you're making different judgments to your friends.
    That's it man

    xD
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    (Original post by keromedic)
    Perhaps your definition of what is slutty and theirs is different. Red lipstick or smokey eyes are not inherently slutty characteristics but they might seem to be if there are other features in the woman. It seems to me that you're making different judgments to your friends.
    Even if you just define slut as someone who sleeps around so many guys are hypocrites lol
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    Even if you just define slut as someone who sleeps around so many guys are hypocrites lol
    So you're saying you have friends who - after previously berating women for being promiscuous by calling them sluts- knowingly go out with said women who've had multiple partners?
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    (Original post by TheReckless)
    from my experience and understanding its not typically guys who slut-shame, but girls


    obviously i'm not saying all guys don't; there are some wastemen who do. but it's mainly girls who judge harshly and brand others 'sluts' and so on.
    i agree with what you said but that has nothing to do with the question
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    Most guys who slut shame don't just shame women who are their wives/gfs. They do it to all girls. Often not even girls they know
    Sure, but that's normal. It's like criticizing someone who plays fast and loose with their money, but then enjoying it when they buy them drinks in the pub. Or like criticizing people who aren't so smart, but enjoying feeling superior to them in the classroom.
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    (Original post by keromedic)
    So you're saying you have friends who - after previously berating women for being promiscuous by calling them sluts- knowingly go out with said women who've had multiple partners?
    You're trying to twist the OP. Not necessarily going out with the same women, more ranting about "sluts/slutty behaviour" in convos and then chasing girls who show those exact same behaviours and or sleep around.
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    Why are we, are at least some of us, still obsessed with calling women enjoy sex with many partners sluts? It's the 21st century, move the **** on and stop trying to police other people's sexual behaviour.
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    (Original post by Quantex)
    Why are we, are at least some of us, still obsessed with calling women enjoy sex with many partners sluts? It's the 21st century, move the **** on and stop trying to police other people's sexual behaviour.
    Did you read the op?
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    I personally don't "slut shame", nor do my friends but of course there are some guys and girls that will. I won't talk about the girls that do it, though there are plenty, since the thread is focused on the guys.

    To be honest, I think some guys do it potentially because they feel intimidated by the looks of the girl but also because, though this is most probably the minority, they genuinely feel that the girl should just cover up and stop trying to attract attention using their body.

    I don't slut shame, but I don't personally like it when girl's are too revealing because it gives me the impression that they just want to act provocative- not to say that they can't seeing as it's their body- but also since I know that others will degrade females as a whole as people who use their body for attention. I then find that these are the same females that complain about being attracted to because of their looks only, when it seems as though they intentionally made themselves look provocative anyway for the intention of being attracted to. How can you blame someone being attracted to a girl who wears a lot make p with the intention of being attracted to in that sense?
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    You're trying to twist the OP. Not necessarily going out with the same women, more ranting about "sluts/slutty behaviour" in convos and then chasing girls who show those exact same behaviours and or sleep around.
    Fair enough. Well we're all somewhat hypocritical.

    I hate hate hate it when people ignore my messages and yet I do it all the time .
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    (Original post by keromedic)
    Fair enough. Well we're all somewhat hypocritical.

    I hate hate hate it when people ignore my messages and yet I do it all the time .
    haha

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ikk-IsE1UiY
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    (Original post by RiotGirll)
    Did you read the op?
    Yes.
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    (Original post by Quantex)
    Yes.
    Then why aren't you mentioning it?

    the whole point is some people label others sluts while being hypocritical
 
 
 
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