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Think I saw/found a porn video with my partner on it...serious thread..advice needed. watch

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Perhaps given the dynamics of your relationship and she did it afterwards, its sorto f one for the '**** bank' so to speak?

    Would you likely feel the same way if it was filming prior to your relationship?

    I may try the name thing...
    Fair summary tbh

    I don't think I'd be arsed about it happening but I doubt I'd want to see it.
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    (Original post by Josb)
    Does the **** on the screen looks like one of her exes' (pay attention to the shape)?
    This is one of the most underrated TSR posts of all time.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I;m agreeing with all that you've said. However, I still have that 'niggle' that it isn't her still? Maybe because I still need definitive proof.
    Find out by all means, but if it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, wears the same t shirts as a duck and has the same bedsheets as the duck...
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    (Original post by SmashConcept)
    This is one of the most underrated TSR posts of all time.
    Thank you for lauding my quality posts.
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    (Original post by i<3milkshake)
    Bull. You don't have to accept this. No potential future mother of my children will be doing the stuff you have described.
    In my own view, feel free to agree or disagree, man up and dump her. Don't be such a doormat and stay with her. She has probably done more videos like this-you are going to feel bad once you see them to. I hope she isn't famous and other people have seen them (friends, family etc).

    If you dump her you move on, find another girl, no problem at all. Staying with her-so much could go wrong. Just my view but you are doing yourself no favours by staying with her.
    Women like sex as much as men. Did you know that?
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    Maybe it's revenge porn? Best to tell your girlfriend.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Thanks for your response, this actually made me feel a hell of a lot better!

    I feel kind of sick and have a deep sense of sadness. As I've said to other posters, seeing that bloke dominate and have his filthy self serving way with her, and her letting him ejaculate inside of her 'willingly' and seemingly care free has changed my view (if indeed it was her).

    I know i'm supposed to be an adult, and part of that is accepting that this happens. But as a man, I can't help but feel inferior of vulnerable because he basically blew his **** in my partner (potentially) and this is only something I felt/feel should/was reserved for me. Or ought to be.

    You understand my reasoning
    Why should it have been "reserved" for you. Maybe at the time she thought that was the guy she was going to stay with. When me and my ex lost our virginity together no condom was used. I don't really see what the big deal is.

    Yes, knowing details about your gfs previous sexual encounters can be hard to get out of your head, and obviously a video will do this, but I don't see why any of the details beyond this makes any difference. God knows what difference being a man makes. I would have thought you should be able to man the **** up and get over it frankly.
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    (Original post by Tom Jickleson)
    Women like sex as much as men. Did you know that?
    The lop is a kind of bunny. While we are talking about utterly irrelevant points to the OP. There is a difference between liking sex and being a porn star.
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    How is this even a question? Confirm whether it's her, and dump her if it is.
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    (Original post by i<3milkshake)
    The lop is a kind of bunny. While we are talking about utterly irrelevant points to the OP. There is a difference between liking sex and being a porn star.
    The Cashmere Lop rabbit is a medium-sized rabbit with long dense fur. a) Who says the girl is a pornstar? Uploader could be a jealous x boyfriend who wanted revenge. b) Fair enough, each to their own. Personally idc if my girlfriend used to be a slut or was in a porno, but the second she cheats that would be the end of it. Men like to go on sex romps while they're single, don't see why it should be different for girls. Again, as long as they don't cheat while in the relationship.
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    (Original post by Tom Jickleson)
    The Cashmere Lop rabbit is a medium-sized rabbit with long dense fur. a) Who says the girl is a pornstar? Uploader could be a jealous x boyfriend who wanted revenge. b) Fair enough, each to their own. Personally idc if my girlfriend used to be a slut or was in a porno, but the second she cheats that would be the end of it. Men like to go on sex romps while they're single, don't see why it should be different for girls. Again, as long as they don't cheat while in the relationship.
    Don't you lecture me about lops or we are going to have a falling out..
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    (Original post by i<3milkshake)
    Don't you lecture me about lops or we are going to have a falling out..
    This bunny comes in many different colors.It weights about 4-5 lbs,and its origin is England.
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    if this is not a complete troll, you're feeling guilty because you were watching porn. you noticed similarities between your girlfriend and the woman, and now you're attempting to justify it.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    The bedsheets are rather unique in their patterning. I think if I saw them again (at hers) I'd recognise straight away. I seem to recall vaguely that I've seen sheets of such sorts before. Whether in her old place (flat) or in the current house she lives. I've certainly seen them before.

    The towel, is pretty recognisable. Its a simple tan brown towel. Very common. I can imagine many people have the same one. But I know for sure she has one anyways.

    T-Shirt, same as towel. It is a plain one colour tee- (a shade of Red), which I have also seen her wear.

    A brown towel and a plain top , thats it?
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    (Original post by Ahmed766)
    1)If you're in a relationship then why were you watching porn?
    2)If you really want to know then invite her over, play the video with her and see her reaction.
    Don't you think this is a little bit naive?
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    The Tumbler pic no show.
    If you want us to help youll have to up pic of her for comparison to video.
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    (Original post by lucy_98)
    if this is not a complete troll, you're feeling guilty because you were watching porn. you noticed similarities between your girlfriend and the woman, and now you're attempting to justify it.
    ?

    That's quite a bizarre explanation. Blokes are not going to feel guilty watching porn if they have a girlfriend, and nor should they.
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    (Original post by Wilfred Little)
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    That's quite a bizarre explanation. Blokes are not going to feel guilty watching porn if they have a girlfriend, and nor should they.
    you're completely right. i'm just saying it seems like a somewhat logical conclusion to me. that he has seen this woman and made a connection to his own girlfriend, and has then attempted to rationalise a bizarre coincidence. what are the chances that his girlfriend is actually this girl from the porn?
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    Did the guy in the video say anything while rattling her? If he did you should say the exact same thing next time you have sex and see what her reaction is like.
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    (Original post by Tootles)
    Don't you think this is a little bit naive?
    yeaaaah man, According to 3 other people porn is the **** and even if you're in a relationship you'd still watch it. My bad for living under a rock :lol:
 
 
 
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