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    (Original post by Starvation13)
    LOOOL, once I saw one of your visitor messages talking about a uni coursework a while back, I figured u finished uni by now for some reason lol.

    Wtfff my mind is blown lol, i would never have guessed....

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    So what do you think of those random hajabi fetishists that say they like 'unwrapping' hajbis LOL :laugh:
    Lol I don't even remember having that conversation.

    Soo, have you changed your mind on that thread you tagged me on?

    Lol that's so immature.
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Lol I don't even remember having that conversation.
    Well np lol

    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Soo, have you changed your mind on that thread you tagged me on?
    Nope lol, I still respect you the most on here xD But now I respect you even more because I didn't think a woman would be as vocal with Islam on here lol. Cos you get the other Muslim ladies on here just joining in a bit here and there, meanwhile Mary just trolling around lol.

    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Lol that's so immature.
    :rofl:
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    (Original post by Starvation13)
    Well np lol

    Nope lol, I still respect you the most on here xD But now I respect you even more because I didn't think a woman would be as vocal with Islam on here lol. Cos you get the other Muslim ladies on here just joining in a bit here and there, meanwhile Mary just trolling around lol.

    :rofl:
    Aww what a lovely thing to say!
    Yeah people do say that. That's why some non Muslims don't like me
    Loool!
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    (Original post by MJlover)
    your not fulfilling the roles of husband and wife to each other then. Unless its out of necessity, what would be the reasoning for working that long?
    work hours are that long :/ 9am - 2am per day, and work weekends

    just tryna assess if marriage is a feasible option for me
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    (Original post by gr8wizard10)
    work hours are that long :/ 9am - 2am per day, and work weekends

    just tryna assess if marriage is a feasible option for me
    Could u find a similar job with less hours, thats crazy lol
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    (Original post by gr8wizard10)
    work hours are that long :/ 9am - 2am per day, and work weekends

    just tryna assess if marriage is a feasible option for me
    Working that many hours is crazy tbh...she'll be asleep by the time you get home...that leaves you with two hours or so in the morning to see eachother...
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Yes lol that's why I commented on this thread. I know everyone thinks that because they just look at my surname.
    :lol: that moment when people thought you're a guy :mmm:
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    (Original post by MJlover)
    Could u find a similar job with less hours, thats crazy lol
    well i've been working hard to make it into this job, so i doubt that's an option. it's just sometimes i feel it's a bit of a lonely career path, and i know most the guys in the office just go and get hookers, but i guess im trying to maintain some religious integrity.

    but i cant find why a woman would want to share their life with a guy who's just unlikely to be there in the expected capacity.
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    (Original post by Biryani007)
    Working that many hours is crazy tbh...she'll be asleep by the time you get home...that leaves you with two hours or so in the morning to see eachother...
    yeah, haha, didn't even see my family most the time.

    get home at around 2-3am, and leave at 8am
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    (Original post by gr8wizard10)
    yeah, haha, didn't even see my family most the time.

    get home at around 2-3am, and leave at 8am
    Lol realised you'll need sleep and wake up at the latest time possible, leaving you with just enough time to get ready for work...that's no time spent together at all actually haha, I mean not to even talk....it really will be hard making that work or even finding a girl willing to take that on :/
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    (Original post by Biryani007)
    Lol realised you'll need sleep and wake up at the latest time possible, leaving you with just enough time to get ready for work...that's no time spent together at all actually haha, I mean not to even talk....it really will be hard making that work or even finding a girl willing to take that on :/
    yeah, i guess it'll just be for a couple of years. there's just a lot of upside that comes with the work which i'm not willing to give up.

    anyways, idk what i was thinking, it's not at all feasible
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Yes lol that's why I commented on this thread. I know everyone thinks that because they just look at my surname.
    .. Yes of course, it seems to be so.. U live in Saudia arab???
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    (Original post by gr8wizard10)
    yeah, i guess it'll just be for a couple of years. there's just a lot of upside that comes with the work which i'm not willing to give up.

    anyways, idk what i was thinking, it's not at all feasible
    You could always get married afterwards? It'll be a long wait....although having money will help you :lol:
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    (Original post by Biryani007)
    You could always get married afterwards? It'll be a long wait....although having money will help you :lol:
    more of a romantic story, if someones there with you through the struggles, no?
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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    Lol you only just figured.
    You should put that female icon next to your name.
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    (Original post by gr8wizard10)
    more of a romantic story, if someones there with you through the struggles, no?
    Not really with you though...

    Anyway I'm sure you can get married bankers so don't worry
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    (Original post by Biryani007)
    Not really with you though...

    Anyway I'm sure you can get married bankers so don't worry
    having someone there for motivation and what not to share successes with would be nice though

    *sigh*
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    (Original post by gr8wizard10)
    having someone there for motivation and what not to share successes with would be nice though

    *sigh*
    mhmm....finding the time to even sit would be hard for you...hope it all works out for you though, you can do it! :ahee:
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    (Original post by HSafirah)
    :lol: that moment when people thought you're a guy :mmm:
    Lol happens all the time
    (Original post by Muhammad Shehzar)
    .. Yes of course, it seems to be so.. U live in Saudia arab???
    No I just chose that flag because it has the shahada on it.

    (Original post by Ravenous)
    You should put that female icon next to your name.
    Cba lol. Like to keep people guessing


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    (Original post by HAnwar)
    The latter, because I don't agree with shia beliefs.
    All of that is too confusing and sounds dodgy (sorry), so like I said, he has to be from the 4 main madhabs.
    Does not agreeing with shia beliefs lead you to consider them to be non-muslim, or less muslim, and therefore invalidate the islamic legality of marriage to them, or is it just a preference?
 
 
 
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