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If a guy wants you to change.. should you? watch
- 22-02-2016 01:19
- 22-02-2016 01:28
- Thread Starter
- 28-02-2016 16:46
Thank you everyone who responded. We broke up..
- 28-02-2016 16:50
If there were your bad traits (like if you did bad things) then i guess.
Otherwise I'll tell him to do1
- 28-02-2016 16:57
What I'm about to say applies to both and all genders, but it can be incorporated into this topic.
If someone you truly care about and someone who truly cares about you asks you to change, consider what they're asking you to change. If they're suggesting you change something actively negative, harmful or hurtful - do so. This would include anything from smoking and drinking to negative personal traits, such as racism and homophobia. If the change makes you a better, healthier person, strongly consider it.
However, if someone suggests that you change minor things about yourself that are in no way hurtful or negative, be quite wary of it. Don't change your essence, who you are and what you are simply because someone doesn't like it. Be yourself, within kind, reasonable limits, but yourself nonetheless. People have quirks. There's a difference between someone trying to help you by asking you to change something and wanting to change you from the ground up.
- 28-02-2016 19:52
- PS Reviewer
- 28-02-2016 19:53
Absolutely not. Change for yourself or not at all.