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Guys be brutally honest-Garbage Sex-How would you handle it? watch

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    (Original post by TSR Mustafa)
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    (Original post by PangXie)
    Genuinely thought garbage sex was a thing and was disappointed by lack of kink in the OP.

    But SophieSmall has nailed it. It depends on whether he's a cuddly guy rather than the quality of the sex.
    I guess I should've mentioned this in my question-I'm more interested in the sexual chemistry. If that's off would you want to still be affectionate?
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    It is quite hard to disappoint a guy during sex unless you have been going out for a long time because most are just happy to be doing it, but yes I would kiss her, cuddle her, kiss her on the temples, etc because that is relaxing
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    (Original post by Holydude)
    It is quite hard to disappoint a guy during sex unless you have been going out for a long time because most are just happy to be doing it, but yes I would kiss her, cuddle her, kiss her on the temples, etc because that is relaxing
    But would you do that if you weren't interested in her or you felt the chemistry was off?
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    (Original post by Aec2016)
    But would you do that if you weren't interested in her or you felt the chemistry was off?
    I love my gf and the sex is great but after sex even we don't normally kiss and cuddle, instead she normally makes me some food and we watch some TV in bed. After a while sex just becomes pleasure and most of the time it's not a show of love.....
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    (Original post by Aec2016)
    But would you do that if you weren't interested in her or you felt the chemistry was off?
    I have never had sex with someone who I wasn't interested in however chemistry comes with time so if I liked them I would 'kiss her, cuddle her, kiss her on the temples, etc'.

    However I have only had sex with one person who is my GF so the emotional side of our relationship has always meant holding one another after sex is more more intimate (and enjoyable) for me then the actual sex.
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    (Original post by Aec2016)
    Okay guys be brutally honest. If you guys slept with a girl and if you thought the sex was bad would you kiss her, cuddle her, kiss her on the temples, etc. afterwards? I'm thinking the guy I slept with this weekend was just trying to be nice but my girlfriends said even if the guy is nice if he thought the sex was bad he still wouldn't do those things. Clearly we disagree.
    If he was into you he would do that even if the sex was crap.

    Realistically sex gets better the more you know about your partner in that respect and if someone just doesn't have a clue what flicks your switch then you can always teach them.




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    And that's what I'm curious about. If you didn't feel that connection with that person would you still want to cuddle, kiss, etc., afterwards/during sex?
    Afterwards, beforehand, on its own, whatever. Obviously, good sex is good, and I am quite a sexual person and have a pretty high drive, but for the sake of someone I really loved I imagine I'd probably be able to just cuddle.
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    (Original post by Aec2016)
    That's true. I just figured if the sex was bad you would avoid stuff like forehead kisses and stuff like that. Thought most guys would just avoid being mushy.
    Not all guys are the same? [revelation]

    Your mates are fools. Perhaps they've given bad sex hence saying that is what it is. If it was crap he'd be out that door ASAP not getting all mushy.
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    Depends on the girl.
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    (Original post by SophieSmall)
    This is more dependant on the guy in question than whether or not the sex was bad. Some guys are cuddlers, others aren't.
    This.
 
 
 
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