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    Virgin or non-virgin isn't the big matter for me. But all in all i need a good man for whole life.
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    (Original post by samina_ay)
    Past is the past
    True and also ... "snitches get stitches" :rofl:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    But wouldn't the spouse find out or get suspicious when getting down there?
    How? :hmmmm:
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    Yes, female. I've had sex with loads of guys myself, pre-marital sex isn't bad at all.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yes, female. I've had sex with loads of guys myself, pre-marital sex isn't bad at all.
    I'm a guy who has had sex with loads of women. Pre-marital sex is not bad, I agree...however, I wouldn't want to marry a woman who has had a promiscuous past.
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    Yes, but it depends what she's like as a person, and if she has an STD or not. But generally, I would not mind.

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    virginity or both guys and girls are being equally discussed here have you even read the thread, in fact most of the answers are from females.

    LOL as if virgins getting married = divorce and unhappy children. In fact, virgins will probably have stronger sexual attachment to each other than more promiscuous people who have been with many other would have so your argument is invalid.

    No one said non virgins don't have the right to be loved - what kind of stupid idea is that? Where did you fathom that from?
    it was a late night mate and the topic was interesting to reply to, so yeah, i did not read the thread xD
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a guy who has had sex with loads of women. Pre-marital sex is not bad, I agree...however, I wouldn't want to marry a woman who has had a promiscuous past.
    What's a disgraceful hypocrite you are then. If you've had a promiscuous past then you can't demand that your wife be a virgin, simplez.
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    No, their argument isn't "invalid", since there is no basis for what you're saying either. It's been shown time and time again that lack of sexual chemistry can weaken the feelings people have for each other.
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    You cant be serious? They wouldnt know. A female hymen can be broken due to many things! Riding a bike, falling down a step, its very easy! Penetration usually isnt the cause of a hymen breaking, most people it happens to years before there first time, so there wouldnt be any bleeding or pain during sex for the male to know. If youre talking what you can see , nó, a vagina doesn't change appearance or "tightness" after sex, they will not know end of.
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    (Original post by Ads9)
    I cannot even put into words how sickening some of the responses this question has received. In all seriousness, you actually wonder why people are racist?!?! This is supposed to be a developed country with ethical morals, yet you preach morals from the dark ages. I'm a white 21 year old male, and the amount of sexual partners a girl has had is not even an issue to me. For heavens sake, pornstars have husbands and wives and can have a happy family life behind closed doors. Islam is one backward religion. Shame on anyone who puts down a women for not being a virgin. (it's all a bit peodoy in all honesty).
    I'm white and wouldn't marry a non-virgin. uMadBro?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    What's a disgraceful hypocrite you are then. If you've had a promiscuous past then you can't demand that your wife be a virgin, simplez.
    Even if I had a promiscuous past, then I'm still allowed to prefer a wife who is a virgin. I know it's hypocritical. As for disgraceful - that's your opinion.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Wondering. I'm a Muslim myself, but not a virgin, unfortunately. Long story I don't want to get into. Well, would you have a problem? Please state your gender too. I'm a female.
    I'm female and i don't see as being a virgin or not is a problem? I would marry someone who is not a virgin like in my opinion it's not that deep lol.
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    I am a female, a virgin, and I would because past is past.
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    it's really not that deep, i'm female and a muslim and i think that it doesn't matter if you are a virgin or not. It doesn't affect the person you're going to marry, you're the one who made that decision, it's your body so why would someone who is a virgin not marry someone who isn't a virgin? I mean thats just my opinion i guess, i think it's really not that deep. Like what Samina_ay said, 'past is the past'
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Even if I had a promiscuous past, then I'm still allowed to prefer a wife who is a virgin. I know it's hypocritical. As for disgraceful - that's your opinion.
    And she can also prefer you to be a virgin too. Allah hates the hypocrites, fix up brother.
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    Female and no I wouldn't mind if he was a non virgin. As long as he wasn't a massive slut before and hasn't ****ed over 15 girls
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a guy who has had sex with loads of women. Pre-marital sex is not bad, I agree...however, I wouldn't want to marry a woman who has had a promiscuous past.
    What if she lies and says she hasn't had a promiscuous past when she really did. u wouldn't even know. ' Good women are for good men'. You're not getting no virgin wifey
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    Yeah I wouldn't really care because it's love!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm a guy who has had sex with loads of women. Pre-marital sex is not bad, I agree...however, I wouldn't want to marry a woman who has had a promiscuous past.
    are you muslim?
    also HYPROCRITE ALERT. I hope you get a hoe af wife.

    (Original post by Demonproblems)
    You cant be serious? They wouldnt know. A female hymen can be broken due to many things! Riding a bike, falling down a step, its very easy! Penetration usually isnt the cause of a hymen breaking, most people it happens to years before there first time, so there wouldnt be any bleeding or pain during sex for the male to know. If youre talking what you can see , nó, a vagina doesn't change appearance or "tightness" after sex, they will not know end of.
    we are not saying "would you marry a womens who hymen is broke" the question mean "would you marry a fellow you has HAD SEX"

    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Even if I had a promiscuous past, then I'm still allowed to prefer a wife who is a virgin. I know it's hypocritical. As for disgraceful - that's your opinion.
    you are allowed to "prefer" what you want, you don't deserve it though.
 
 
 
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