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    (Original post by shawtyb)
    is there an emoji for weird raised eyebrows and a 'wtf' look on its face? if not then someone needs to make one
    :curious: :lolwut:
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    You do? :lolwut:
    Yes it's funny :mmm:
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    (Original post by IFoundWonderland)
    Yes it's funny :mmm:
    Wouldn't it be more like embarrassing if it happened to you?
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    (Original post by cosmic angel)
    Maybe he'd been attracted to her for a very long time but had been holding back?

    I'd be wary of this person for another reason - he seems insecure. Why would he say that he'd tried to prevent himself from loving the op? Is he so afraid of being hurt that he's unable to go after what he wants? Seems cowardly to me. It's just not a nice thing to say (in my humble opinion). Too much fear, not enough romance.
    Yep I think you've hit the nail on the head. He told me his guard is always up whenever he's around girls but somehow I've found my way to his heart and he swore I meant so much to him. It took guts for him to open up to me. I do sense that he is scared of getting hurt, that's why I feel like there is another side to him. He has these moments when he overthinks and becomes overwhelmed that he wants to give up, so easily. He is also quite skeptical about everything as he wants the relationship to be perfect since he's the youngest and his entire family have had problem in their relationships. Despite all this, he is very passionate and loving and isn't fearful to show me he wants me.
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Wouldn't it be more like embarrassing if it happened to you?
    But it didn't happen to me
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    (Original post by IFoundWonderland)
    But it didn't happen to me
    Humph. Fair enough. :3
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    (Original post by yoda123)
    I love ****, I train for big arms to compensate for my micro penis

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    ok dude, kinda weird tho...
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    (Original post by DanteTheDoorKnob)
    Are u sure that's a man
    Omg hahahahah
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    That's really ****ing weird.
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    If you don't mind, may I know how long have you been with each other?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Yep I think you've hit the nail on the head. He told me his guard is always up whenever he's around girls but somehow I've found my way to his heart and he swore I meant so much to him. It took guts for him to open up to me. I do sense that he is scared of getting hurt, that's why I feel like there is another side to him. He has these moments when he overthinks and becomes overwhelmed that he wants to give up, so easily. He is also quite skeptical about everything as he wants the relationship to be perfect since he's the youngest and his entire family have had problem in their relationships. Despite all this, he is very passionate and loving and isn't fearful to show me he wants me.
    That's good, you seem to be pretty aware of what's going on. And there you go, you've said that he isn't afraid to show you that he wants you and I'd have assumed someone like that wouldn't be able to do this well. I'm sure there are reasons why he acts the way he does, and you've got two choices: either to try to understand, or to walk away. Again, I'd just find it too much of a turn off if a guy said he had tried not love me and suchlike, but that's just me.
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    I was like awwwwwww cute man...

    Then came the grabbing of face and the "you're my wife" thing :lolwut:
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    (Original post by cosmic angel)
    That's good, you seem to be pretty aware of what's going on. And there you go, you've said that he isn't afraid to show you that he wants you and I'd have assumed someone like that wouldn't be able to do this well. I'm sure there are reasons why he acts the way he does, and you've got two choices: either to try to understand, or to walk away. Again, I'd just find it too much of a turn off if a guy said he had tried not love me and suchlike, but that's just me.
    I found it a turn off too. He was in bits, given the circumstances he confessed when he was in a really emotional state. Probably beating himself up about how I make him go weak. It makes guys feel vulnerable but in my opinion that's nothing to be ashamed of. Guys are a lot more attractive when the are expressive all the time, rather than act desensitised.
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    which cheeks did he grab?
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    :curious: :lolwut:
    haha thanks!
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    df.
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    erm.

    maybe he was just nervous and slip of the tongue occurred? :confused:
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    (Original post by thefatone)
    which cheeks did he grab?
    Both, as if he was about to snatch them off 😭
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Both, as if he was about to snatch them off 😭
    I'm sure that's usually what a grandma / aunt does when they see you.
 
 
 
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