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    (Original post by Darien91)
    How is that ironic?
    How isn't it ironic?
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    But I don't understand why it's unattractive? It not like it affects your sex like in anyway, infact it probably makes it better, no?
    I agree!
    If you are virgin you are "boring" and "timid" but if you have a lot of sexual partners you are "unattractive" and a "hoe" lol.

    Women can't win
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    (Original post by HotHipster)
    Misogyny?
    Obviously not.
    Men do not respect a women who cannot respect herself.
    We do not value someone who does not value themselves, its not possible.
    If we know you sleep around, thats all we will see you as.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    How isn't it ironic?
    Because it didn't make sense? you didn't relate it to anything you just said

    not 3, but 30/40 partners is ironic
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    (Original post by Underscore__)
    I think that's true if it's just to have sex but I think it's different when it comes to looking for a relationship.

    I think the way most guys look at it has been said really. If you want another way to look at it: if a key opens multiple locks it's a master key, if a lock is opened by lots of keys it's a crappy lock.


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    This is stupid?
    Vaginas' and penis' are not bloody locks or keys.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    I agree!
    If you are virgin you are "boring" and "timid" but if you have a lot of sexual partners you are "unattractive" and a "hoe" lol.

    Women can't win
    Lol that is spot on!
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    (Original post by Mayhem™)
    To me, it shows that the girl is easily satisfied (lack of challenge is bad) and she isn't likely to be committed.
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    Mayhem...

    I am currently listening to mayhem.

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    I was listening to this Mayhem yesterday
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    4 is nothing? lol
    Perhaps not for you, but then again you don't get to decide what I do and don't find attractive.
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    Unless you mean 4+ partners at once is nothing. Then I certainly have news for you...
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    But I don't understand why it's unattractive? It not like it affects your sex like in anyway, infact it probably makes it better, no?
    Why is it unattractive?

    Simple. Most lads want a classy girl. So if she has been with a lot of lads that wont help that image. Getting a girl that everyone can have is hardly a great thing. Its associated with a certain stereotype. If shes doesnt boast about it, its less of a problem.

    For me the same goes for lads. No one likes the guy who boasts about how much sex hes getting. And if hes with everyone hardly makes him very desirable. It works both ways. Women just seem to care less.



    (Original post by Novascope)
    Realistically though how many average women have that many sexual partners? Unless they are an escort or a nympho?

    Why is it different for men though? People need to just calm down with this double standards ****. As long as nobody is carrying around STD's, ruining marriages/relationships or doing anything illegal who cares if a man or woman has had 2, 20 or 200 sexual partners? If that turns you off, or you don't find people like that "relationship/marriage material" then who cares? Because not everyone on this planet wants a serious relationship or even marriage. So it really shouldn't bother you how many people a woman has slept with.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    Um a lot of guys would be insecure if the women they are with had slept with more people than them.
    You obviously don't know how the mind of men works.
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    (Original post by Underscore__)
    In my experience it's quite accurate that the girls who are less attractive sleep around more. Based on my own opinions the less attractive girls I know have slept with a lot more people than the hottest girls I know.

    I think the person meant sleeping around is an unattractive part of someone rather than meaning if she sleeps around she's probably munted


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    I'm above average and slept around
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    Doesn't it depend where they're from though?

    I mean a Northern lass who hasn't slept with 30 men by the time she's 18 probably has 'issues'.
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    (Original post by Darien91)
    Because it didn't make sense? you didn't relate it to anything you just said

    not 3, but 30/40 partners is ironic
    No flower :nah: I was referring to what you're saying, and then the number of people your have apparently slept with.
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    (Original post by Fenugreek)
    You obviously don't know how the mind of men works.
    Yeah I do. Most are insecure and sexist
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    (Original post by trustmeimlying1)
    Why is it unattractive?

    Simple. Most lads want a classy girl. So if she has been with a lot of lads that wont help that image. Getting a girl that everyone can have is hardly a great thing. Its associated with a certain stereotype. If shes doesnt boast about it, its less of a problem.

    For me the same goes for lads. No one likes the guy who boasts about how much sex hes getting. And if hes with everyone hardly makes him very desirable. It works both ways. Women just seem to care less.
    Or maybe it's a form of empowerment and it's not about "everyone having her" it's more of HER being able to have whoever SHE wants, and I don't see what's wrong about that at all.

    If she doesn't boast about it, and simply shares it upon answering a question it shouldn't be a problem AT ALL.
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    Because she does not respect herself. Period.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Lol that is spot on!
    Bullcrap. yeh could theres similar pressures for men.

    (Original post by loveleest)
    And how do you know if the hottest girls aren't lying about the amount of people they slept with?
    If she keeps it on the low and gets to have fun, great for her.

    Just like if a lad had loads of sex and kept it quiet he wouldnt put off gals.

    There are plenty of gals who are put off by players. To a lesser degree maybe, but thats as much an issue with your taste than ours.
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    I agree!
    If you are virgin you are "boring" and "timid" but if you have a lot of sexual partners you are "unattractive" and a "hoe" lol.

    Women can't win
    I've never actually encountered anyone calling virgin women boring or timid.
    Do you actually have any proof of this claim?

    And even if what you were saying was true, surely women could "win" by not going to either extreme?
    There is a middle ground between 0 and a lot.
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    I personally like my milk fresh, its like multiple ppl have drank it and regurgitated it back in the bottle for the other expecting lad to have a drink.

    In that context
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    (Original post by loveleest)
    Yeah I do. Most are insecure and sexist
    insecure hahahahah.
    Women are the most insecure, hating their bodies, won't let their partners see their face without makeup until 1 year into relationship, sleeping with a lot of men to put to ease her insecurities.
 
 
 
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