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    (Original post by RachaelBee)
    1. What are we classing as "loads"?
    2. How do you know they're telling the truth? I'm friends with a guy who claims to have slept with over 80 women, and claims to have lost his virginity at the same age as I did ("How old were you? Yeah, same!", but I found his blog where he talks about how he lost his virginity and the exact age he was. Funnily enough in the blog version he's 3 years older.
    10 girls, I've seen messages and pictures of some...he goes clubbing a lot as well, apparently that's good for meeting girls but I am not old enough
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    I've tried for over a year now, to get a gf, I'm 18 in 2 months. My friend said it's because I can't talk to them(I can talk to them in person) but I can't over text and I can't flirt and am probably quite awkward doing that. Maybe it's because I'm ugly or fat I dunno. I'm 5ft 9 and weigh 10 stone 8, have a bit of muscle. Maybe it's because I am too nice to girls I like, or perhaps my body shape or looks. If you want I'll pm you what I look like(girls).

    I think I dress nice,tbh I don't have any female friends, I lost the two I had when I told one I thought she was beautiful drunk and long story short they both treated me like a mug...because I suppose I am. I do go the gym but I don't seem to gain much muscle. I'm on tinder and hot or not, and a few dating sites(pretending I'm 18) but I do get matches/interests but I never get a message back :/ or if I'm talking to one I'll think it's going fine and then I'll get unfriended or removed of sc and I dunno. I used an escort the other day(I enjoyed that) but I want a relationship so if I could get any pointers off girls about my looks or style or something that would be good.
    Was the escort the first time you had sex? If not, then a girl has obviously liked you a lot in the past, so there's clearly a lot of hope for the future.

    And generally, be optimistic. I'm 18 next month, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've also never been kissed. I do have lots of female friends, but every girl I've asked out has declined. I'm trying to stay optimistic for the future, you should be too.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Was the escort the first time you had sex? If not, then a girl has obviously liked you a lot in the past, so there's clearly a lot of hope for the future.

    And generally, be optimistic. I'm 18 next month, and I've never had a girlfriend. I've also never been kissed. I do have lots of female friends, but every girl I've asked out has declined. I'm trying to stay optimistic for the future, you should be too.
    Yeah the escort was my first kiss, and I lost my virginity to her
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've tried for over a year now, to get a gf, I'm 18 in 2 months. My friend said it's because I can't talk to them(I can talk to them in person) but I can't over text and I can't flirt and am probably quite awkward doing that. Maybe it's because I'm ugly or fat I dunno. I'm 5ft 9 and weigh 10 stone 8, have a bit of muscle. Maybe it's because I am too nice to girls I like, or perhaps my body shape or looks. If you want I'll pm you what I look like(girls).

    I think I dress nice,tbh I don't have any female friends, I lost the two I had when I told one I thought she was beautiful drunk and long story short they both treated me like a mug...because I suppose I am. I do go the gym but I don't seem to gain much muscle. I'm on tinder and hot or not, and a few dating sites(pretending I'm 18) but I do get matches/interests but I never get a message back :/ or if I'm talking to one I'll think it's going fine and then I'll get unfriended or removed of sc and I dunno. I used an escort the other day(I enjoyed that) but I want a relationship so if I could get any pointers off girls about my looks or style or something that would be good.
    join zoosk
    make a profile
    and bang you'll find somebody
    i am on their just to keep my options open
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    Yeah the escort was my first kiss, and I lost my virginity to her
    Ok. Do bear in mind that your situation is likely very normal - a lot of my male friends are virgins and have either never had a girlfriend or never had anything remotely serious. Yet the vast, vast majority of people end up getting in a serious relationship; it seems like a pressing concern now, but in 10 years, when in a stable relationship, you'll wonder why you ever worried so much.
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    Just chill out mate, you're too worried, that's probably the biggest problem. And if you can talk to girls in person, most people find that more difficult, so you're not as lacking as you think. Stop worrying about what you look like because there isn't a single person who is attractive to everybody (except me, maybe) and there isn't a single person who is attractive to nobody. Chill out and calm down, mate.
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    I'm awkward too. Just be who you are . Hopefully things work out for you.✌🏽️✌🏽
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    I have thought carefully about what u said, U need to have confidence thats it
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