Steer well clear of *****es like her.
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- 11-05-2016 06:10
- 11-05-2016 12:26
- 11-05-2016 12:32
But people like her are seriously not worth a dime. Save yourself a lot of trouble man.
(Original post by Anonymous)
- 11-05-2016 12:43
My gf and I have been together for about 6 months.
After about a month and a half of "seeing" one another, she asked that we become exclusive, and things seemed to be going really well. Then, all of a sudden, she stopped messaging me completely for about 4 days.
Eventually, we met up and things went back to normal, better even. I was confused but decided to let it slide. This being my first relationship, I didn't openly discuss it with her, and didn't know how to act in response, so I simply gave her space and let her get back in contact.
After a good few weeks, she again went cold on me. We still messaged and hung out, but she was constantly on her phone and didn't seem bothered at all by my presence. I know I shouldn't have done, but I read some entries in her diary, as I was completely confused. Turns out that, in spite of asking that we become exclusive, she had kissed another guy for about an hour at a party, and was considering getting together with him and leaving me.
At this point, I asked whether she was actually into me, and told her that if she wasn't we could call it a day, no hard feelings. She claimed that we hadn't been in a formal relationship, and didn't think I was bothered - in fairness I wasn't putting in the effort in terms of messaging etc. But we had still agreed to be exclusive prior to this...
I now find it incredibly hard to trust her - particularly since she opened up about cheating on her last boyfriend and feeling no guilt for it. As a result, I have found myself checking her enties again, albeit only on occasion. In spite of things going really well, and her telling me, in the strongest terms, how much I mean to her, she has written a few times that she is afraid of cheating on me at upcoming festivals etc. In a way, I feel justified by doing this, considering her actions, but wonder whether it makes me a terrible person?
- 11-05-2016 12:45
You could change by becoming less tolerant.
My dime of psychological wisdom...
- 11-05-2016 14:02
- 11-05-2016 14:04
I don't know you so can't really judge.
- 11-05-2016 14:05
Slit her throat
- 11-05-2016 14:05
- 11-05-2016 14:16
If she cheated and dumped you, why are you still pining for her?
She clearly couldn't care about you, just leave her alone and walk away.
It must be hard to hear, but she sounds like a *****, who has not respect for you at all.