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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Always seems to be when I've been for a late gym sesh and I come home, get in the shower when people are sleeping, trying to make as little noise as possible and everything wants to fall down Aye that's the problem now, I'm starting to slightly swoosh the air as I move :rofl: Oh yeah, girls I know have said they need different products for different days because some days their hair and/or skin is too greasy, too dry, too brittle and so on. I'm just happy to be clean when I come out :lol:
    I'm pretty sure any task you partake in when you're trying to be quite will automatically go completely wrong and disturb everyone and everything surrounding you! Worst thing ever when one small bottle knocks but you quickly go to catch it and knock everything else down in the process because same haha. Yeah they're right we have different needs on different days. Girls will be girls.
    Life must be 27846x easier being a guy.:angelblush:
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    I'm pretty sure any task you partake in when you're trying to be quite will automatically go completely wrong and disturb everyone and everything surrounding you! Worst thing ever when one small bottle knocks but you quickly go to catch it and knock everything else down in the process because same haha. Yeah they're right we have different needs on different days. Girls will be girls.
    Life must be 27846x easier being a guy.:angelblush:
    I'm 6'2'' as well so there's also things I can bump my head on Ugh yeah, then all the razors start falling down and I jump halfway across the bathroom to get out of the way and I knock more stuff over :rofl:
    Precise figure :lol: We have our bathroom problems as well, sadly. Like my hair grows really fast so I have to trim my face every few days or it gets out of control, and trim and shave my bodyhair very regularly
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    thats enough internet for the day...
    in all seriousness tho relax those feelings will eventually go away as you speak to more girls id imagine
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    Please don't do anything radical that can damage the existing relationship with your only sister.
    I think the reason why you're sexually attractive to her because she is the only female you had contact with and the only person you socialized as a companion with I'm assuming. We all have impulsive to do things but it does not mean we should act on them. In fact acting on your impulsive such as kissing your sister or screwing her will harm the people you love the most. I'm positive she loves but not in that way. You should probably try getting out your comfort zone by socializing with other girls. Or maybe try hitting a conversation with boys to make friendships.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay before anyone will judge me quickly stop and hear me out. I know it's incredible wrong and it makes my stomach crawl but I haven't been brought up with my sister (half), we share the same mum but I went to live with my dad near his job. Since we were younger we would see each other monthly but then it got to once every 3 months. Please understand I've not had a stable family life, I have no other siblings and no friends and I'm incredibly antisocial. My sister is exactly 16 months younger than me (I'm 17 as year) and I hadn't seen her for quite a few months like I really didn't care too much about her until we had a family wedding and I got this empty stomach feeling that I can't describe but I was so attracted to her, she was all idk like womanly? Does that sound stupid and I couldn't believe I was related to her and I'm so ugly - fast forward abit I asked my dad if I could stay at my mums over Easter 2016 and I literally loved it when it was just me and her, we would watch films together, I would help her with her homework and I even met her boyfriend who i am really idk envious of. I feel bad because I know this is wrong like I have really bad urges to just make love to her but I do no I really do this is repulsive. I did asked her to kiss me and she did on the cheek but I felt I wanted more. It hurts me all the time thinking about how much I love her and I know my mum would have a heart attack if she knew, I don't know what to do I can't eat nor sleep I just want to kiss her, have sex and I have come so close to losing control of myself that I don't see my mum anymore. I literally don't know
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    Feelings like this are understandable when you spend so little time around each other. I've briefly had similar feelings in the past. Happy to talk if you want to PM me.
    You remind me of Simon from Misfits, OP, which is why I disagree with you, Toots. You need to try and socialise so you don't latch feelings onto the 1st person who's nice to you, seriously shift your desires elsewhere, not your family. Try and get out more.
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    (Original post by MamzZass)
    thats enough internet for the day...
    in all seriousness tho relax those feelings will eventually go away as you speak to more girls id imagine
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    Please don't do anything radical that can damage the existing relationship with your only sister.
    I think the reason why you're sexually attractive to her because she is the only female you had contact with and the only person you socialized as a companion with I'm assuming. We all have impulsive to do things but it does not mean we should act on them. In fact acting on your impulsive such as kissing your sister or screwing her will harm the people you love the most. I'm positive she loves but not in that way. You should probably try getting out your comfort zone by socializing with other girls. Or maybe try hitting a conversation with boys to make friendships.
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    I remember reading somewhere that something like over half of all people who don't grow up around relatives and then come together later in life do feel some sort of sexual attraction towards one another (not that I ever have). Most of us are programmed to be desensitised sexually from our Brothers/Sisters etc but when you don't grow up together that sometimes doesn't happen.

    Even though I think it's wrong it's understandable how you could get your feelings all confused. You probably feel like you've clicked with her in some way and you feel very close to her and you have all this love towards her but it's misplaced.

    You know deep down that it is wrong or else you wouldn't have wrote this post. I wouldn't be opening up to your family or your sister about how you feel EVER, if it is really affecting your life that much you should go and talk to a counsellor about it, it might be taboo but it is a ''normal'' thing you are feeling.
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    You go anywhere near she will get freaked out and would never want to be near you again.

    She has a boyfriend she would never be with you anyway and there's no point telling your mum as it will just cause anger and nothing will happen between you.

    Just meet other people and go see a therapist about your anxiety leave your poor SISTER alone.
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    You remind me of Simon from Misfits, OP, which is why I disagree with you, Toots. You need to try and socialise so you don't latch feelings onto the 1st person who's nice to you, seriously shift your desires elsewhere, not your family. Try and get out more.
    Attraction between siblings is acknowledged as a thing when those siblings didn't grow up together. Maybe OP did with his, that didn't seem all that clear to me.
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    I have got the impression tbh that because your personality is quite a lonely one and you almost feel abandoned due to living with your dad and not have a mother figure in your life, that you have clinged onto one person who you actually get on really well with and enjoy their company. I think some feelings may have got mixed up in the process.. Please go to the doctors and talk to them. They will be able to help. And also do not act on your feelings.. It's hard when you like someone but she is your sister.


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    (Original post by Jammie_x)
    I have got the impression tbh that because your personality is quite a lonely one and you almost feel abandoned due to living with your dad and not have a mother figure in your life, that you have clinged onto one person who you actually get on really well with and enjoy their company. I think some feelings may have got mixed up in the process.. Please go to the doctors and talk to them. They will be able to help. And also do not act on your feelings.. It's hard when you like someone but she is your sister.


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    You sound like you're speaking from experience :lol:
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    (Original post by cxxk)
    I'm pretty sure any task you partake in when you're trying to be quite will automatically go completely wrong and disturb everyone and everything surrounding you! Worst thing ever when one small bottle knocks but you quickly go to catch it and knock everything else down in the process because same haha. Yeah they're right we have different needs on different days. Girls will be girls.
    Life must be 27846x easier being a guy.:angelblush:
    Just wash like a guy and stop buying into the idea that another expensive product will make you different. I have 2in1 shampoo, face wash, shower gel, razor and flannel. Job done. Low maintenance is the way forward.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay before anyone will judge me quickly stop and hear me out. I know it's incredible wrong and it makes my stomach crawl but I haven't been brought up with my sister (half), we share the same mum but I went to live with my dad near his job. Since we were younger we would see each other monthly but then it got to once every 3 months. Please understand I've not had a stable family life, I have no other siblings and no friends and I'm incredibly antisocial. My sister is exactly 16 months younger than me (I'm 17 as year) and I hadn't seen her for quite a few months like I really didn't care too much about her until we had a family wedding and I got this empty stomach feeling that I can't describe but I was so attracted to her, she was all idk like womanly? Does that sound stupid and I couldn't believe I was related to her and I'm so ugly - fast forward abit I asked my dad if I could stay at my mums over Easter 2016 and I literally loved it when it was just me and her, we would watch films together, I would help her with her homework and I even met her boyfriend who i am really idk envious of. I feel bad because I know this is wrong like I have really bad urges to just make love to her but I do no I really do this is repulsive. I did asked her to kiss me and she did on the cheek but I felt I wanted more. It hurts me all the time thinking about how much I love her and I know my mum would have a heart attack if she knew, I don't know what to do I can't eat nor sleep I just want to kiss her, have sex and I have come so close to losing control of myself that I don't see my mum anymore. I literally don't know
    I'd go to the doctor and get some therapy tbh, i think you have a few issues that need addressing. I hope everything works out for you hun, you're not a bad person! (Sorry if i sound patronising)
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    There are billions of women in this world. Cut contact from your sister completely and go find another one. Also pronhub
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    (Original post by Lauraamyyx)
    I'd go to the doctor and get some therapy tbh, i think you have a few issues that need addressing. I hope everything works out for you hun, you're not a bad person! (Sorry if i sound patronising)
    You've got some issues annonymous i think you need some counselin, especially to stop your arse bouncing off walls when you get down some
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Okay before anyone will judge me quickly stop and hear me out. I know it's incredible wrong and it makes my stomach crawl but I haven't been brought up with my sister (half), we share the same mum but I went to live with my dad near his job. Since we were younger we would see each other monthly but then it got to once every 3 months. Please understand I've not had a stable family life, I have no other siblings and no friends and I'm incredibly antisocial. My sister is exactly 16 months younger than me (I'm 17 as year) and I hadn't seen her for quite a few months like I really didn't care too much about her until we had a family wedding and I got this empty stomach feeling that I can't describe but I was so attracted to her, she was all idk like womanly? Does that sound stupid and I couldn't believe I was related to her and I'm so ugly - fast forward abit I asked my dad if I could stay at my mums over Easter 2016 and I literally loved it when it was just me and her, we would watch films together, I would help her with her homework and I even met her boyfriend who i am really idk envious of. I feel bad because I know this is wrong like I have really bad urges to just make love to her but I do no I really do this is repulsive. I did asked her to kiss me and she did on the cheek but I felt I wanted more. It hurts me all the time thinking about how much I love her and I know my mum would have a heart attack if she knew, I don't know what to do I can't eat nor sleep I just want to kiss her, have sex and I have come so close to losing control of myself that I don't see my mum anymore. I literally don't know
    Your lucky I don't reach through this screen and throw some holy water on you. You need Jesus


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    Son, whatever you do, do NOT act on these urges. Go out, meet other girls, whatever. This **** is a deadly sin for a reason.
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    From what I see, it's because you haven't had many interactions with other girls and your sister is the one you spend the most time with. With crazy teenage hormones happening at this age, it is understandable to feel attracted to her. But just go meet other girls and you'll get over her.
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    I'm 6'2'' as well so there's also things I can bump my head on Ugh yeah, then all the razors start falling down and I jump halfway across the bathroom to get out of the way and I knock more stuff over :rofl:
    Precise figure :lol: We have our bathroom problems as well, sadly. Like my hair grows really fast so I have to trim my face every few days or it gets out of control, and trim and shave my bodyhair very regularly
    Hahah razors are quite jumpy actually!! damn that is pretty fast, You could just leave it and decide to be part bear. Maybe its not that much easier being a guy, unless they're small and their body hair grows exceedingly slow. My bad, i fell asleep
 
 
 
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