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    I personally like love handles.

    I also like really fit girls.

    Its a preference thing. I'd be more put off by your overly poor body image if I'm honest.
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    (Original post by JNDSAN)
    goes without saying that personality is more important, plus ngl also your face and those kind of things, i think i speak for most guys when i say as long as you arent carrying around serious fat then youre good, noone expects a perfectly flat stomach let alone abs though obviously more guys will find you attractive if you do have a flat stomach
    True. Well I don't think it's dangerous as I'm "healthy" by medical standards, this is very helpful, thank you ☺️


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    (Original post by Neverdie)
    I thought she was keeping the name Ferndzdez-Vzvzvzini because it was more marketable (that little name whore).

    Opinions will be mixed. I think ultimately though it's fair to say that unless you're obese or have this really ****ed up face, 90% of men would make the sex with you. That's how we are, we find most girls hot in some way.
    Maybe she is I'm not sure I just assumed it was Tweedy as she broke up with the French guy. Haha, thank yoh


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    Yeah it matters a bit, perfect stomach is when there's the outline of the six pack but not fully defined

    http://abload.de/img/tumblr_mh1nupmvno1rjk67k26.jpg
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    (Original post by difeo)
    Yeah it matters a bit, perfect stomach is when there's the outline of the six pack but not fully defined

    http://abload.de/img/tumblr_mh1nupmvno1rjk67k26.jpg
    That picture there is what I want so badly - there's girls at my martial arts who do EXACTLY the same training programme as I do and look like that at my height, yet I'm so much different...


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    Personally, I don't care if you're a girl and don't have a flat stomach or abs. I honestly see more in a girl from her personality especially as if I'm in a relationship, it's because I want it to be a committed one. I love girls with a sense of humour and are funny themselves, as well as being able to take jokes without taking it to heart and ending up fighting, i hate them relationships. Bodies don't mean anything, it's the inside that counts, and don't let anybody make you think differently!
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    (Original post by lahmejacks)
    That picture there is what I want so badly - there's girls at my martial arts who do EXACTLY the same training programme as I do and look like that at my height, yet I'm so much different...


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    Your BMI is 21, I would think that a stomach like that would come at around 18-20 so you shouldn't be far off at all. Keep up the healthy eating and exercise but other than that it's likely either not as bad as you think, every teenage girl hates part of their body, or there's other issues like allergies or water weight - drinking more helps with that
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    (Original post by lahmejacks)
    I'm 5'2", weighed myself this morning (not my usual weigh day) and I'm 8st 4.5lbs, or 116lbs.

    I like to think of myself as physically fit, I run 5k twice a week as well as 2 hours of intense martial arts on another 2 days.

    I personally hate my body and I've lost weight over the past year as I used to be 9st; however my stomach isn't flat - Attachment 546599. I hate this and view this as fat but my friends are telling me otherwise - trouble is, the stomach is bloated and hard, it's not "fat" like wobbly. Anyway my question is, is this unattractive to boys? I'm working very very hard to try and reduce it and make it go IN at where my sports bra ends, I've reduced my calories and I exercise now almost everyday, but nothing's working :/ excuse the socks, too


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    of course we care,why are you even asking. Flat and fit stomach is better than a fat stomach,isn't it obvious?
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    (Original post by lahmejacks)
    I'm 5'2", weighed myself this morning (not my usual weigh day) and I'm 8st 4.5lbs, or 116lbs.

    I like to think of myself as physically fit, I run 5k twice a week as well as 2 hours of intense martial arts on another 2 days.

    I personally hate my body and I've lost weight over the past year as I used to be 9st; however my stomach isn't flat - Attachment 546599. I hate this and view this as fat but my friends are telling me otherwise - trouble is, the stomach is bloated and hard, it's not "fat" like wobbly. Anyway my question is, is this unattractive to boys? I'm working very very hard to try and reduce it and make it go IN at where my sports bra ends, I've reduced my calories and I exercise now almost everyday, but nothing's working :/ excuse the socks, too


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    I think you know the answer. I doubt anyone here has ever ****** off to female abs


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    (Original post by difeo)
    Yeah it matters a bit, perfect stomach is when there's the outline of the six pack but not fully defined

    http://abload.de/img/tumblr_mh1nupmvno1rjk67k26.jpg
    It's a shame that a girl with that body wouldn't go for a hungry skeleton like you isn't it


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    (Original post by lahmejacks)
    It's not fat as you'd imagine fat to be, wobbly and soft. It's much like, you know where you've just eaten a pasta meal or a big meal like a roast dinner and your stomach sticks out and is full and bloated? Mine is constantly like that.


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    Ohhh

    Did you see the doctor about it?
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    Im not too fussed about it tbh!
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    (Original post by 0to100)
    Lmao at you advising her, you really wanna see those pics bruv lool
    innit, he's bare keeping it discrete
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    (Original post by Zayn is Bae)
    It's a shame that a girl with that body wouldn't go for a hungry skeleton like you isn't it


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    Previous girlfriend had that body tbh, u mad?
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    (Original post by difeo)
    Previous girlfriend had that body tbh, u mad?
    She was 15


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    (Original post by Zayn is Bae)
    She was 15


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    Predictable response is predictable!!
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    (Original post by difeo)
    Predictable response is predictable!!
    True response is true!!!


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    (Original post by Zayn is Bae)
    It's a shame that a girl with that body wouldn't go for a hungry skeleton like you isn't it


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    I don't understand
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    (Original post by Cremated_Spatula)
    Ohhh

    Did you see the doctor about it?
    I did a long time ago and they found out it was lactose intolerance, which obviously I have since stopped consuming. It's reduced significantly since that point but overall... not that much.
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    (Original post by difeo)
    Yeah it matters a bit, perfect stomach is when there's the outline of the six pack but not fully defined

    http://abload.de/img/tumblr_mh1nupmvno1rjk67k26.jpg
    Yes this attractive not this
    http://proteinfart.proteinfart.netdn...dybuilders.jpg
 
 
 
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