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    Just on the corner of spensley road and bunyan road, black ka. come on over
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    You sound like you have anger management problems lol - it's not just your girlfriend that needs therapy mate :rofl:
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    (Original post by Matthew Cooper)
    Are you being serious? I think you have a serious mental problem, you know absolutely nothing about her so **** off you ****ing ****. I suggest you go to therapy, you are judging someone you don't even know. I bet your that sort of person who thinks its fun to go out and drunk don't you? I hope you go die. Why the hell would you judge people who you don't even know? I posted here for help not to be ****ing judged by people who don't know us. People like you are the reason humanity is so terrible now. Seriously you have a mental problem, I rarely swear at people but you deserve to be sweared at. I bet you won't even read this if you bother to reply. If you're going to say things like that then say it to my face in real life and then lets see how brave you are, I bet you're too scared to do that though, I live in Bedfordshire right now, if you want to know what village then feel free to come to me so you can speak to me face to face.
    You are rather overreacting and defensive. You might wnat to read the rules on using the forum lest you get banned by mods.
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    No show- all mouth and no martial arts.
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    (Original post by Sicudeh)
    No this website seems to be full of self entitled know it alls. You do martial arts and that takes up too much time does it? You aren't seeing the bigger picture. I work at a job and study also it isn't really an excuse. If you picked up even a few hours you could get working tax credits. Maybe you should drop the martial arts temporarily so that you can free up some working hours to fund your venture, instead of expecting everyone to understand that the system should prioritize giving you money because you're badly done to but still deserve the right to any hobbies you want as that's seemingly more important.
    WTC even as a student?
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    (Original post by Matthew Cooper)
    Well firstly I go to university which means I have to WORK. I am studying other things other studying my degree which takes more time. I am doing martial arts which takes time so please tell me how I am suppose to work full time to afford moving out. I am not lazy at all or I wouldn't be doing university would I? Think about what you say. Is this website filled with idiots or something?
    In your OP you say you dont have a job, but here you sat you work? Are you counting uni as work?

    Perhaps the need to earn money to get you the flat you want is more important than martial arts or you just find a job with flexible hours?

    At the moment based on your needs, then you are low priority for housing and are unlikely to get anything from the Council although you can go on the waiting list.

    If you got onto the benefits system they would only help pay for shared accommodation i.e a single room, because you arent old enough. You have to be 35+.

    In any event as you are a student, then you cant claim housing benefit.

    That means you are stuck until you get a source of income because the charity or benefits are not a solution for you.

    What would your gf have done without you being able to drive her to school?

    1. Walk. You havent said how many miles.
    2. Catch a bus. Even if infrequent.
    3. Cycle.
    4. Get a lift from parents.
    5. Move to a closer school.
    6. Move out, especially if her parents are as bad as you say they are. That's your gfs issue. They will be interested in helping her, but not giving you a flat.
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    (Original post by Matthew Cooper)
    I do not owe anyone an apology, especially someone who insults other people just like you have when neither of you know the person you are insulting. She insults someone who she doesn't know and if you're reading this infairverona then at least my girlfriend can actually complete her work without needing friends to help her and at least she doesn't leave it until the last second.
    I don't ask friends to help with my work? And if I leave work until the last minute and still get good grades why does it matter? Bizarre comment. Your girlfriend does not need to be personally escorted to school by yourself. There's a thing called public transport you know
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    Do you mean to move abroad? What have you studied?
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    Matthew, I have grandchildren the same age as you and your girlfriend and I will say to you what I would say to them. You appear to have a strong sense of entitlement and along with your unwillingness to accept advice or criticism, that is a very unhealthy combination. There are many young people your age and your girlfriend's age who do not have ideal home lives and just get to it and have to find a way of reaching their goals if that is what they really want.
    Grow up. Get a job. Get a life. And stop expecting everyone to dance to your tune. You are in for a rough ride in life if you continue with your current attitude. As for your girlfriend, it seems to me that you can't fend for yourself never mind another vulnerable human being.
    And don't bother with the throwing the toys out of the pram. With 16 children, I've heard it all before. Water off a duck's back.
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    Correction: 7 children, 16 grandchildren.
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    (Original post by Seamus123)
    Matthew, I have grandchildren the same age as you and your girlfriend and I will say to you what I would say to them. You appear to have a strong sense of entitlement and along with your unwillingness to accept advice or criticism, that is a very unhealthy combination. There are many young people your age and your girlfriend's age who do not have ideal home lives and just get to it and have to find a way of reaching their goals if that is what they really want.
    Grow up. Get a job. Get a life. And stop expecting everyone to dance to your tune. You are in for a rough ride in life if you continue with your current attitude. As for your girlfriend, it seems to me that you can't fend for yourself never mind another vulnerable human being.
    And don't bother with the throwing the toys out of the pram. With 16 children, I've heard it all before. Water off a duck's back.
    I came here for help not for opinions on my life or relationship and not to be insulted multiple times. Now see that other students are just arrogant know it alls who think the world resolves around them. If anything all of these idiotic students need to grow up. At least I actually have a life and people who aren't extremely arrogant.
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    (Original post by Mimsycrafts)
    No show- all mouth and no martial arts.
    Correction I was there, it was you who did no show. How about you come today then? Do you know the black Jamaican women with the black Hyundai? If so go just outside her house on the pathway. You arrogant coward.
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    Opinions are just that - how others see your situation and you. You are calling them insults and arrogance because you don't like those opinions.
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    (Original post by Matthew Cooper)
    Correction I was there, it was you who did no show. How about you come today then? Do you know the black Jamaican women with the black Hyundai? If so go just outside her house on the pathway. You arrogant coward.
    You are so full of it. I'm done with you as you are clearly just a nasty little troll. I look for forward to my 'Darwin reward' which is what we will all receive when you collect the Darwin Award.

    Your not going to get the help you need on this forum.
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    Ahahaha hahah hahaha this is one of the funniest posts I've seen in a while. 😂
    All your posts accusing other people of being idiots and declaring that you are so clever were filled with bad spelling and grammar and took me ages to read. So so far not quite believing you on the smart front...

    You are reacting v childlike to all the responses, which have all been reasonable suggestions.

    As others have said your girlfriend can get a bus to school, even if you live in the middle of nowhere like myself there are regular services so she would be fine.

    Also if you do go to university you are entitled to a student maintenance loan which should cover the cost of a flat.

    Good luck
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    (Original post by Mimsycrafts)
    You are so full of it. I'm done with you as you are clearly just a nasty little troll. I look for forward to my 'Darwin reward' which is what we will all receive when you collect the Darwin Award.

    Your not going to get the help you need on this forum.
    See so now you are to scared to come to me face to face then, I have offered many times. Enjoy getting drunk you little ****.
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    (Original post by Matthew Cooper)
    See so now you are to scared to come to me face to face then, I have offered many times. Enjoy getting drunk you little ****.
    I wasn't scared last night- I turned up. I have better things to do with my time. I also don't drink.

    Go away you angry little boy.
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    Guys ignore this weirdo. He's sending me odd messages calling me a 'black ****' when I'm white anyway. Thick as two planks and racist to boot.
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    (Original post by infairverona)
    Guys ignore this weirdo. He's sending me odd messages calling me a 'black ****' when I'm white anyway. Thick as two planks and racist to boot.
    Oh my god I hope you've reported him. He is a couple of sandwiches short of a picnic for sure. Hope your ok
 
 
 
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