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    (Original post by Underscore__)
    I really don't understand how your life can be so boring that you have to amuse yourself by creating ridiculous posts. I also don't understand why people take nonsense like this seriously and get themselves so wound up by it


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    You clearly don't understand the real world.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Im glad you've enjoyed my thread so much!

    The fact is that its nothing to do with money. I was merely stating that this was a very attractive feature about her - that she is in a fantastic job that could support both of us. I work as well, I just don't earn as much. I use a lot of my income to pay for escorts. I don't take money for her or ask her to pay!
    There's nothing wrong in taking money from her or if she offers to pay for things like restaurants, etc because you are in a relationship and if a man pays for their partners so should women but it's good to know you use your own money for the escorts but at least when you're broke she can pay for other stuff like nights out, take aways, etc if she offers
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Please explain to me how it is actually CHEATING.

    Yes I am having sex but the emotion isn't there. The commitment isn't there to these other girls - they are nothing to me.

    I love my girlfriend, I would do anything for her.
    okay well if it's alright if she goes and has sex with other men then, right?
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    Obviously.

    If you need to ask that you either lack intelligence or basic morality and empathy. Either that or you're a troll.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You clearly don't understand the real world.
    What's lead you to that conclusion?


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    Why don't you ask your girlfriend if she considers this as cheating
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Basically I love my girlfriend. I want to marry her and start a family together. But she's not that good looking. She's alright, don't get me wrong, she can still turn me on if she dresses really dirty but most of the time I'm actually thinking go other women when making love to her.

    So I have started using escorts. Like 1-2 a week. Its OK they are high class and its all safe fun. I have no emotional attachment to them, I just **** them.

    So my question is - would you consider this as technically cheating?
    (Original post by Kholmes1)
    What? Are you being serious. Im guessing this is a troll. No of course its not cheating why would it be your only having sex with other people and like you said no attachment.
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    You dont really love your gf or you wouldnt be sleeping with others.

    Is it cheating? 100% yes.

    She should dump you. You arent good for her.
    (Original post by Dr.Snake)
    Its not cheating. Excorts are professionals in having sex and your gf doesnt sound a professional so why not let a professional handle your business
    Sleeping with escorts is perfectly fine and technically is morally OK in relationships. As one user mentioned, escorts are professional. Secondly, you pay, which means it's not cheating. I have slept with like 50 escorts behind my girlfriends back, most of my friends do it too or have done. It's normal for guys to do it so don't make it an issue
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    (Original post by Manchester_123)
    Sleeping with escorts is perfectly fine and technically is morally OK in relationships. As one user mentioned, escorts are professional. Secondly, you pay, which means it's not cheating. I have slept with like 50 escorts behind my girlfriends back, most of my friends do it too or have done. It's normal for guys to do it so don't make it an issue
    Utter rubbish amd you are just trolling.

    You are sleeping with someone else without your partners consent, hence its cheating.

    The fact you allegeldy do it behind your gfs back indicates you know its wrong. If the gf even exists.. Easy way is tell her and see whether she is fine with it.

    The fact you pay will make it worse in some circumstances, because it puts your partner on a par with prostitutes.
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    (Original post by Dr.Snake)
    Its not cheating. Excorts are professionals in having sex and your gf doesnt sound a professional so why not let a professional handle your business
    Best reply ever....
 
 
 
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