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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    you probably feel like this because you masturbate too much
    How?
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    It doesn't feel that good for me tbh.

    Far more pleasurable just to masturbate with my hand.

    Not as exciting though.

    Orgasming inside a woman actually kind of sucks too.
    Mm that's really not the norm


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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    How?
    because youve gotten used to feeling when you masturbate, instead of having sex, and when you do have sex you dont get the same feeling you do when you masturbate
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    (Original post by A-LJLB)
    Mm that's really not the norm




    Well take it from me!
    Well I've certainly read on here before two other men saying it was!
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    because youve gotten used to feeling when you masturbate, instead of having sex, and when you do have sex you dont get the same feeling you do when you masturbate
    No, no, no. It's not like I've had sex once. And it's not like I masturbate in just one way.

    There isn't one feeling of masturbation for me. I have about 10 different ways of masturbating.

    And I've had sex numerous times. Sex just cannot be as pleasurable. It isn't meant to be that's not what makes sex great.
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    Well I've certainly read on here before two other men saying it was!
    Well none of my previous partners felt that way nor my friends :no:
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    No, no, no. It's not like I've had sex once. And it's not like I masturbate in just one way.

    There isn't one feeling of masturbation for me. I have about 10 different ways of masturbating.

    And I've had sex numerous times. Sex just cannot be as pleasurable. It isn't meant to be that's not what makes sex great.
    you have TEN different ways of masturbating....?
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    (Original post by LavenderBlueSky88)
    you have TEN different ways of masturbating....?
    About that, yeah. Certainly no less.

    (Original post by A-LJLB)
    Well none of my previous partners felt that way nor my friends :no:
    I'm not saying I'd rather masturbate than have sex. Most of the time I would prefer sex, but frankly that's probably just because sex is so much rarer. Sex is not clearly to me superior to such that I'd choose to have sex twice a day for the rest of my life and never be able to masturbate again. That would SUCK.

    That said, my masturbation methods are far more elaborate than having merely a quick ****. So unless my girlfriend can accommodate by making the sex similarly elaborate... It is going to be sub-par in comparison.

    I imagine your previous partners/friends were not very experimental and elaborate with their masturbation? You might not even know tbh.
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    (Original post by LavenderBlueSky88)
    you have TEN different ways of masturbating....?
    told you he does it alot
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    (Original post by A-LJLB)
    Hahaha. My ex was just on point in that area lol

    I don't think it's that complicated, and you have to know what the other person likes - which is why it's easier in a relationship

    Google it or study porn or something?
    I learned the "basics" watching homemade masturbation videos as a teenager :lol:

    Wanting to please the girl and having the patience to accept guidance and correction is where it's at. Again with the masturbation, watching her a few times is a good way to learn what she likes. It's also a good way to play together before going "all the way" - in my experience, anyway.
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    About that, yeah. Certainly no less.



    I'm not saying I'd rather masturbate than have sex. Most of the time I would prefer sex, but frankly that's probably just because sex is so much rarer. Sex is not clearly to me superior to such that I'd choose to have sex twice a day for the rest of my life and never be able to masturbate again. That would SUCK.

    That said, my masturbation methods are far more elaborate than having merely a quick ****. So unless my girlfriend can accommodate by making the sex similarly elaborate... It is going to be sub-par in comparison.

    I imagine your previous partners/friends were not very experimental and elaborate with their masturbation? You might not even know tbh.
    Well I guess my sex life with my ex was quite exciting so maybe it was just different to yours...

    I don't know, I'm just going on the basis that my friends and ex partners say masturbation is not as pleasurable as sex by any means.

    It may be more common than I think, but I haven't slept with a lot of people so I can't really say anything other than what I've been told :P
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    You should look on reddit. They always seem to give very detailed descriptions of sexual things (and not as p.g. as here of course..)
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    (Original post by Tootles)
    I learned the "basics" watching homemade masturbation videos as a teenager :lol:

    Wanting to please the girl and having the patience to accept guidance and correction is where it's at. Again with the masturbation, watching her a few times is a good way to learn what she likes. It's also a good way to play together before going "all the way" - in my experience, anyway.
    I totally agree This is why sex with a long term partner is better than a one off, as you get to learn what they like and don't like etc. Watching is also a good way to learn!
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    (Original post by Tootles)
    I learned the "basics" watching homemade masturbation videos as a teenager :lol:

    Wanting to please the girl and having the patience to accept guidance and correction is where it's at. Again with the masturbation, watching her a few times is a good way to learn what she likes. It's also a good way to play together before going "all the way" - in my experience, anyway.
    100%

    This is something you should always do. Never just rush into PIV sex. I'd say have non-PIV sex at least three times before hand.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    It felt rather like a large knife going into my body over and over again. It was a good pain, though.:sexface:
    ForestShadow knifing :rofl:
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    (Original post by Gora The Xplorer)
    Doggystyle :smug:
    Yeah but the only way is through her ejaculating which is rare. If she was to have an orgasm she cant exactly come all over the bed unless she ejaculates.
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    (Original post by TorpidPhil)
    How?
    How can you feel good from masturbation? I'm a girl and find it repulsive and it never works for me. Is there something wrong with me?
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    (Original post by PrincessBO$$)
    How can you feel good from masturbation? I'm a girl and find it repulsive and it never works for me. Is there something wrong with me?
    Everyone is different...
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    (Original post by PrincessBO$$)
    How can you feel good from masturbation? I'm a girl and find it repulsive and it never works for me. Is there something wrong with me?
    You're just doing it wrong.
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    (Original post by PrincessBO$$)
    How can you feel good from masturbation? I'm a girl and find it repulsive and it never works for me. Is there something wrong with me?
    It never used to work for me, until I worked it out. You're just doing it wrong, there's nothing wrong with you
 
 
 
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