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    Kill it with fire.

    Your relationship or your boyfriend. Up to you.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I've made a big big mistake that I think will ruin my long term relationship (6 years) I've never ever looked at another man I love my boyfriend to bits. I went away with my friend and we went on a night out some guys were chatting to us and we left. We got extremely lost trying to find our hotel and bumped into one of the boys who showed us the way. By this point it was about 5am we had a triple room (3 single beds) my friend said this boy could stay. I know I should have kicked up a fuss but didn't he knew I had a boyfriend as I made a point of talking about my boyfriend lots. I text my boyfriend that night and said what had happened and I also called him in the morning and explained this boy had slept in the spare bed. When I got back to England he messaged me and asked if we got home ok etc I replied and we had a chat about what sightseeing we did etc and that was it we didn't speak again. My boyfriend asked if we messaged I said yes and I showed him my phone and said he can read whatever he wanted. He's very angry at me and said he wants to break up with me. I can't stop crying I feel like q horrible person I would never ever ever cheat or do anything to hurt my boyfriend. I realise it was stupid not kicking up a fuss about him staying and stupid to message him back I thought I had made a friend and that my boyfriend would be fine with it I've hidden nothing from him. I feel such an awful person and really don't know what to do.*
    Your BF is a waste of time- 6 yeats or not.
    I was waiting ti see what you did wrong i.e sleep with him, but as far as I cna see the only thing was he slept in a shared room and you talked to him.

    Your bf is insecure, jealous, possessive and untrusting.

    Your bf doesnt have a right to read your iphone. He sounds like a douche.

    Dont feel guilty as you did NOTHING wrong. He should trust you.

    Hrad as it is, then he isnt worth staying with, unless he grows up, learns to trust you and stop being so immature, possessive and jealous. He wont. Get rid of him as he will be even worse when older.
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