where are you lot meeting all of these people? are you messaging them randomly via places like myspace?
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- 15-07-2007 01:49
- 15-07-2007 02:05
Think you should watch chapter one of this..
(Original post by chrissylouise)
- 15-07-2007 05:13
i began toalking to a guy over a week ago nad we have spent hours talking on msn, even a whole night. He has asked to meet up and i dunno if i should. WHat would u do? would anyone else meet up with some one they met online and has anyone ever met anyone they met on line?
I've met people from online before but they're all from TSR - 11 in all, I believe but four of whom were male. All of whom I met in public places except one, but that one was a crush and now an ex and I was naively stupid at the time. Thank God nothing happened to me and that guy was not a weirdo (still in contact now) - but basically I got lucky and you can't guaruntee that you'll get lucky too.
And watch what he says as well. I almost met this guy, also from TSR, who was a complete and utter weirdo perv. I never met him in the end and have deleted his number long long ago. It was during the time when I was on the uni forums on TSR and that guy happens to be going to the same uni (we all were lol) so I got loads of people's numbers and met up with various people. That particular guy texted me saying "Wanna meet for a coffee?" - I took it as friendly fresher week stuff, so I said yeh sure, when etc. And basically that guy went onto saying stuff like "You could stay overnight" on msn to me So I thought "Hmm, weird..." so I played along and joked "But where would I sleep?" and he may have said "In my bed" - so at that point I was like... and still I played along and said, "Oh so you're sleeping on the floor then?" And he replied saying "I like cuddles at night."
^understandably, I never met the guy!
So just watch who you're meeting. On the other hand, one of my best uni friends who's also my housemate, I'd met on TSR first.
- 15-07-2007 11:14
I've met many people online, and met IRL about five times, once was disasterous, the guy was weird, but was not threatening, I just felt he was only after one thing. The other's were all really nice, and I met my fiance on a dating website, I waited a few weeks to meet, and felt right about it.
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- 28-07-2007 21:27
hi thanks fr the advice, im gonna wait a while bfore i decide to meet, bt i have a problem my dad found out i was talkignt o him online and he doesnt want me to meet ppl from online whihc is a bit annoying but i think i will still meet, wait a couple of months and see if i still want ot, my mates said they will come with me
- 28-07-2007 21:45
talk to him for a little bit longer say a month or two
meeting people for the internt is fun
BUT meet somewhere busy like a shopping center or liverpool street train station (some where like that)
- 28-07-2007 21:47
i would like to meet lads online. what is the best way of doing this please?
- 28-07-2007 23:27
wouldnt meet them after only one week they could be a weirdo or something worse, if it was over a long period of time then maybe. But still take a friend with you or some friends just to take you there to makesure you are safe.
Myspace the best way to start talkin to new people!