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    (Original post by Alter-ego)
    I've dated this guy for a couple months now, I'm 23 and he's 26. It came up in conversation yesterday that when he was 18 he dated a 14 year old for a few weeks. Apparently nothing sexual happened but he would've seen her breasts etc.

    To be honest I feel a little uncomfortable with this. I know it was 8 years ago but the fact that he would've been attracted to a 14 y/o doesn't sit well with me.

    Am I being unnecessarily harsh or would you feel the same? Not really sure what to think...
    In fairness, a lot of 14 year olds look older than they are, quite a few I've met look like 17 and 18 year olds, even when standing next to another girl that's 18ish. I wouldn't worry - lads change a lot over a year, so he's probably a completely different person to the 18 year old he was.
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    (Original post by hamza772000)
    Haha no! :innocent:
    Lies!
    How would you know?
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    (Original post by PrincessBO$$)
    Lies!
    How would you know?
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    (Original post by PrincessBO$$)
    How can one date a 14yr old like what does a 14yr old have?
    Lots of things! When I was 14 I already had boobs.

    I'm a guy though so...
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    (Original post by Athematica)
    Lots of things! When I was 14 I already had boobs.

    I'm a guy though so...
    I believe the scientific term is "moobs".
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    14 year olds are hot
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    (Original post by Sorani)
    I believe the scientific term is "moobs".
    they were also back-boobs so I call them mboobs with a silent m
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    I remember this girl in my year (15) dated someone in uni who was 21.To this day, it's still very weird and esp going out with a minor lol
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    What was he thinking then?lol
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    (Original post by the bear)
    18 = can vote

    14 = cannot own a goldfish

    14 year olds can't own a goldfish?
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    "In fairness" if you know she's not legal, doesn't matter what she looks like. That excuse of not being able to tell the difference between an adult woman and a child only works if you don't actually know their age 🙄

    If it were me, the relationship would be over.
 
 
 
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