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    (Original post by The Sexathlete)
    Men cheat more, but women cheating is worse.


    This is not to say that a man should cheat, but so many women will say things like they would be more hurt by their man having an emotional affair than physical affair.
    Why do you say a woman cheating is worse? It's equally bad. Anyone who cheats is a selfish person with no self control.
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    flawed logic. If there are 10 guys and 10 girls, but only 1 of the 10 guys is able to get a gf/ get laid then surely he is the one doing the cheating.

    1 guy to 10 girls - he is cheating on all those girls not the other way round.


    Besides it is more likely that men will cheat, a man can simutaneously have many offspring with many women, where as a woman can have only one pregnancy at a time, biologically it makes sense that men would be out sewing their seed as it were and hence more likely to cheat.
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Why do you say a woman cheating is worse? It's equally bad. Anyone who cheats is a selfish person with no self control.
    It's possible for a man to cheat on a woman and still believe she is the best thing in his life, whereas a woman cheating is an expression of her belief that her man deserves genetic death.
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    (Original post by The Sexathlete)
    It's possible for a man to cheat on a woman and still believe she is the best thing in his life, whereas a woman cheating is an expression of her belief that her man deserves genetic death.
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    (Original post by The Sexathlete)
    It's possible for a man to cheat on a woman and still believe she is the best thing in his life, whereas a woman cheating is an expression of her belief that her man deserves genetic death.
    ummmm..... you clearly have NO idea as to how the female mind works
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    (Original post by richpanda)
    You're either in that 20%, or you're living off scraps. Pareto principle in full flow.
    Some interesting observations:



    "As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh."
    https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/y...online-dating/

    More very interesting reads: http://jonmillward.com/blog/attracti...ng-experiment/
    https://sirtyrionlannister.wordpress...ng-experiment/

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    (Original post by The Sexathlete)
    It's possible for a man to cheat on a woman and still believe she is the best thing in his life, whereas a woman cheating is an expression of her belief that her man deserves genetic death.
    (Original post by Allie4)
    ummmm..... you clearly have NO idea as to how the female mind works
    Well to be honest that does make a bit of sense.... most guys who cheat do so 'cos had sex'... of course many women have the same thought process, but from what I've seen and experienced most women either do it A) Because their relationship in their mind is already dead, B) After excitement their current relationship doesn't give them or C)Getting revenge for infidelity or some other action.

    As an example I find it much more common for guys to cheat via ONS than women or with multiple girls, while women will often cheat with the same guy repeatedly.
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    (Original post by redbronze1)
    Some interesting observations:



    "As you can see from the gray line, women rate an incredible 80% of guys as worse-looking than medium. Very harsh."
    https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/y...online-dating/

    More very interesting reads: http://jonmillward.com/blog/attracti...ng-experiment/
    https://sirtyrionlannister.wordpress...ng-experiment/

    And then once the guys in the desirable percentiles get flooded with attention, and **** girls left right and centre... these same girls start whining about "****boys" LMAO
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    (Original post by richpanda)
    I actually saw once on TSR someone arguing that the 80/20 rule in terms of 20% of guys having sex with 80% of the women was physically impossible hahaha fml. Like she genuinely thought it was impossible, as sex is a one to one interaction.
    That's what the guy told her
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    (Original post by Allie4)
    c) most women have that sixth sense and can usually tell when their man has been cheating (you usually notice a change in him, a lot of the time its when its much happier than usual)
    Doesn't that just say it all. Time to put out and put him before you, girls.
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    (Original post by Ella-keturah)
    Why do you say a woman cheating is worse? It's equally bad. Anyone who cheats is a selfish person with no self control.
    1. Because women's mating strategy is all about getting the best sexual partner, while men's is about getting the most. A woman cheating is therefore more of a rejection. It was better expressed in the other reply to your post, which you haven't managed to mount an argument against.

    2. Because men are almost completely uninsulated from relationship breakdown. You are probably looking at several months at least of no sex, no social support to make you feel better, and if you don't have high-value friends, low social proof to make you look better to other women. Women if anything have a surfeit of these things which they make use of as a crutch after a break-up.

    3. Men have to work to cheat, women just have to let the tide take them. Who is worse depends on whether you think it's worse to have no moral fibre or resilience (woman cheating) or whether you think it's worse to seek it out (man cheating)
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    (Original post by Allie4)
    ummmm..... you clearly have NO idea as to how the female mind works
    In that case can you enlighten us at all?
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    I agree

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