A mole is literally a unit of measurement, like a kilogram or a metre.
One mole of any element compound or substance always has a specific number of those particles. That specific number is a constant known as avogadros constant. 6.022 x 10 23
A mole can have a different mass dependent on the element. Since relative atomic mass is the average weighted mass of a substance relative to 1/12 of the mass of carbon-12, a mole of carbon 12 weighs exactly 12 g and so we can deduce that the mass of a mole of a substance is round about the same number of grams as its relative molecular mass.