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    (Original post by RooshV)
    You said "from what I know" because you are fully aware that your ignorance on the matter is due to a lack of research.
    I just recently heard of him but I'm not going to bother look into his content and from what I see on his channel it doesn't look like he has much content of him picking up with a tested and proven method, and a lot of his videos are not even about pick up.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    No I'm a pasty little white girl

    I'm not ashamed of being a virgin, just that I've never been in any sort of relationship, not even the "boyfriends" you have in primary school. I'm mainly worried that I'll be too terrified to do anything about it when I go to uni, and I really just want to get it all over with.
    Haha white girls are buff too ^_^. And you don't have to do anything about it? Just be how you are and someone will fall for you. Have hope, honest!

    But on the other hand, if you still want to talk to a handsome guy (ahem me! ) then you can just inbox me! :P
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    ^^ Lmfao, smooth.
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    If it's meant to be,it will be. No rush*
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    (Original post by eden3)
    ^^ Lmfao, smooth.
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    ey maaaaaaaan he tryna get DEEP INSIIIIIIIIIDE dem suga walllsssss
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    (Original post by Aristotle's' Disciple)
    ey maaaaaaaan he tryna get DEEP INSIIIIIIIIIDE dem suga walllsssss
    :rofl: loooooooool W

    ey mayne i think u rite about dat one.... he jus wanna leave dem NUTS hangin out dem sweet walls yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaahhhhhh
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    (Original post by Aristotle's' Disciple)
    ey maaaaaaaan he tryna get DEEP INSIIIIIIIIIDE dem suga walllsssss
    Yyeeeeeaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh .....

    (Original post by eden3)
    :rofl: loooooooool W

    ey mayne i think u rite about dat one.... he jus wanna leave dem NUTS hangin out dem sweet walls yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaahhhhhh
    Yeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhh hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..........

    mayne you both got some clean advice on this
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    same situation but a bit younger (18)
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    Check out nofap as in the quitting masturbating part i mean you're 90% there already so might as well give it a try
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    You're not the only one to be in this situation, but your time will come. Focus on yourself and what makes you happy, and I guarantee someone will cross paths with you eventually.
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    (Original post by mike1994)
    Cheers, guessing that the routines are all online?

    Don''t actually have any fat, ideally would want to put on a couple of stones/turn to muscle.
    Well you can't turn fat to muscle hehe, but you can build muscle stronger and bigger than before
    1. sign up for a gym in your local area that you like
    2. get an induction (they show you how to use machines and stuff ( you can do this before you sign up )
    3. ask for a muscle building program from one of the staff to start you off
    4. try not to care about what the people at the gym think about you, they we're probably skinny or overweight when they started out too

    pm me if you need any help with anything also remember diet is incredibly important to get any gains from training
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    (Original post by Davalla)
    So we've gone from a 20 year old ashamed of being a virgin, to a 17 year old, to a 16 year old.

    Any 12 year olds here ashamed of not losing their virginity too?
    LOOOOL that made my day
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    I'm at uni, but I commute from home. Initially I thought it would be for the best, but now I kind of see it as a hindering me as I would want to be independent from home. Now thinking about it, I'm kinda at the stage where I was really childish up until now, to sudden maturity and I think the change was a bit too sudden.

    I was really close to one girl, but I felt smothered by her and I only saw her as a friend from the get going. The ones I see as friends tend to smother me and usually ones I don't like that.

    The girls I do like I have trouble speaking to. I liked one so much that when she introduced herself to me at uni, my body froze and I barely managed to say a sentence. Till this day, whenever she walks past, it's just really awkward eye contact.
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    Don't worry lad i'm much older than you and i'm so socially inept people think i'm gay.

    Not that there's anything wrong with that, of course, but I don't swing that way.
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    (Original post by anonymousindian)
    So I recently turned 20 and it kinda crept up on me that I'm the only one out of my friends that is still a virgin and I don't know what to do.I'm 6'1 tall, average height for an Indian is 5'4 lol and I'm 70 kg, basically a scrawny Indian guy.

    I've been complemented by girls for my height and have been called attractive and cute by numerous girls, but based on my personality I guess they mean in a child like way. I'm a really nice person,but I guess to girls that comes across as innocent and sweet not BF material since I'm a bit passive and shy on first impression.

    I would go to a club to meet a girl, but I've had a past history of epilepsy and flashing lights and alcohol are no nos as they can be triggers.

    I was addicted to porn for 2 years, I finally gave it up and replaced it with dating sites. I've tried meeting girls on sites such as Tinder,POF, OkCupid but I'm lucky enough to even get a response.

    I really don't want touse an escort. Not the way I want to do things.

    What do I do?
    I get the situation you're in my man, don't worry and if you really want this to be off your chest listen up...

    I understand you may be shy and a nice person but you HAVE to get out there and the "be yourself" cliche will always remain... NEVER be mean to a girl thinking that "If I'm mean to her maybe she'll want me" because that's BS. Go out, meet new people like if you don't know what to say like for real go up to a girl and say "Hi, I'm (insert name) and you are?" then just talk casually saying "I'm just getting to know people and making friends and just joke about it haha" and then end it off with "We should hang out sometime" and ask for her number. Nothing hard and nothing too complicated the worst that could happen is she could have a boyfriend or say no but at least you tried rather than just fantasising and this is ALREADY a MAJOR improvement and a step in the right direction.
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    You're absolutely right That's the predicament I'm always in after I see agirl Ilike pass.
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    A girl I knew who is kinda one of the lads said I'm like an innocent kid trapped inside the body of a man. How exactly do I fix that? Maybe that might give me some confidence?
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Similar situation.

    I'm 17 (female) and I've never even kissed someone, let alone been called attractive or even pretty. Anyone I've liked seems has turned out to be gay.
    I just really don't know what to do now.
    Why are you anonymous ?


    Anyway 17 is wayyy young. I had my first kiss at 15, when I had gotten to 17 I had forgetten that I have ever kissed anyone.



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    (Original post by anonymousindian)
    So I recently turned 20 and it kinda crept up on me that I'm the only one out of my friends that is still a virgin and I don't know what to do.I'm 6'1 tall, average height for an Indian is 5'4 lol and I'm 70 kg, basically a scrawny Indian guy.

    I've been complemented by girls for my height and have been called attractive and cute by numerous girls, but based on my personality I guess they mean in a child like way. I'm a really nice person,but I guess to girls that comes across as innocent and sweet not BF material since I'm a bit passive and shy on first impression.

    I would go to a club to meet a girl, but I've had a past history of epilepsy and flashing lights and alcohol are no nos as they can be triggers.

    I was addicted to porn for 2 years, I finally gave it up and replaced it with dating sites. I've tried meeting girls on sites such as Tinder,POF, OkCupid but I'm lucky enough to even get a response.

    I really don't want touse an escort. Not the way I want to do things.

    What do I do?
    You cant be that scrawny. I weigh the same as you and i am quite lean.
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    lol no, you're not the only indian who is still a virgin. most of y'all never even lose your virginity
 
 
 
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