fat guy

ikr
op mentioned the fact that this fella told her he'd go the gym... to me, that sounds like 'i m overweight rn but i intend to get fit ...God knows when'
and yeah, sexual attraction is important too... i mean if you don't look forward to a date (and op clearly doesn't) then what's the point of going? a free meal? no thanks



listen up mah gurl)
the fact that you wanna get married soon doesn't mean that you're compatible
everyone has a full body photo or a selfie or sth like that
this guy you're speaking too sounds really shady.. i mean he could be a 60 yr old for all you know
if u don't know what he looks like, how are u even going to recognise him when u get there?

dump him

that means he s fat yeah
did you give him a pic of you?

But in worried I'm vain if I do so
Is it?

Oh no I've seen his face! And I if I go to the date were getting coffee on a public place, so it's all safe!
Yeah that's the thing sexual attraction is important to me. One guy I really like though is used to smoke weed a lot but I don't know if he has cut down, but I like him that's my only worry. He says he will stop