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    (Original post by 571122)
    I don't know how you people see these things. I just thought she was the silent type.
    Body language and social skills are very important things to pick up on when talking to people otherwise people will think you're a weirdo
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Great minds think alike



    Well that makes it even worse for the second girl then. Why are you asking about whales in the beach or a lake when you can be asking about what she did or what she thought of it...
    I don't think like that.
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    Lol, weren't you the guy that admitted to being a sociopath?
    That is correct, blonde.
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Great minds think alike



    Well that makes it even worse for the second girl then. Why are you asking about whales in the beach or a lake when you can be asking about what she did or what she thought of it...
    Ikr? Who asks about whales? Such a random thing to ask about
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    (Original post by AngryRedhead)
    Body language and social skills are very important things to pick up when talking to people otherwise people will think you're a weirdo
    Speaking of body language, she was so cringed up in her own self, shoulders inward and looking away at every chance, but I just took that as her being shy and silent.
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    (Original post by 571122)
    Speaking of body language, she was so cringed up in her own self, shoulders inward and looking away at every chance, but I just took that as her being shy and silent.
    Maybe she's just dying to get away from you, did that thought never cross your mind? :facepalm:
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    (Original post by 571122)
    Speaking of body language, she was so cringed up in her own self, shoulders inward and looking away at every chance, but I just took that as her being shy and silent.
    Yeah..... That's a good sign she doesn't want to talk. You would do well to pay more attention to stuff like that in future if you want to get anywhere in life.
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    (Original post by 571122)
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    You are able to speak in binary language. Nice!*

    Joke aside, haveyou ever think about that it may have something to do, so that the girls are not interest in you anylonger and don't say that with clear words just to be polite? *
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    (Original post by UWS)
    Maybe she's just dying to get away from you, did that thought never cross your mind? :facepalm:
    No, because I'm a high-value person.
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    Not the only one bud, plenty of men out there who can't get a date. There's a few members on here are in the same boat, myself included. Same applies to women as well...there's many who can't find love/affection.

    All I can suggest is that if you find yourself getting frustrated with the experience, take a break from it all and focus on your own life; or you can just do what I've done, and that's give up entirely and accept one's fate of being alone.
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    No but they're supremely important (rightly or wrongly doesn't matter) and the OP is a troll.
    you've got no idea how pissed off i get when i see ppl taking op seriously...
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    (Original post by 571122)
    Speaking of body language, she was so cringed up in her own self, shoulders inward and looking away at every chance, but I just took that as her being shy and silent.
    Alright then, what if these girls are somewhat lacking in confidence themselves? What if they want to look and sound good too? I suppose we just have to be patient and the right one will come along. Just hang in there mate. Although...such positivity can be dangerous. When I talk to a gal I try to seem as down to Earth as possible. Also, what's wrong with the 'silent' type?
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    (Original post by 571122)
    That is correct, blonde.
    I ain't blonde, bruv.
    Plus, don't you think that's a contributing factor as to why girls supposedly don't like you?
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    (Original post by SpiritSharD)
    Not the only one bud, plenty of men out there who can't get a date. There's a few members on here are in the same boat, myself included. Same applies to women as well...there's many who can't find love/affection.

    All I can suggest is that if you find yourself getting frustrated with the experience, take a break from it all and focus on your own life; or you can just do what I've done, and that's give up entirely and accept one's fate of being alone.
    Thank you SpiritSharD, that was a nice answer. I'll focus on myself and I'll keep working at it because right now my skills aren't the best. It sure does take a lot of courage to keep this up.. bam, rejection after rejection.. just because you like being yourself, you know? F*cked up..
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    (Original post by 571122)
    Ok man, but both these conversations were in person. I used dots in the second conversation to illustrate the awkward silence (she had about 10 seconds between each answer).
    ...have you been diagnosed yet?
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    (Original post by Nirvana1989-1994)
    I ain't blonde, bruv.
    Plus, don't you think that's a contributing factor as to why girls supposedly don't like you?
    That's not you in the picture then.
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    (Original post by 571122)
    Thank you SpiritSharD, that was a nice answer. I'll focus on myself and I'll keep working at it because right now my skills aren't the best. It sure does take a lot of courage to keep this up.. bam, rejection after rejection.. just because you like being yourself, you know? F*cked up..
    I guess that's the thing though, you're doing what a good 80% of men are scared to do and that's face rejection. Eventually you'll become numb to such an outcome, and chances are you'll find better success as a result. Win-win? I think so.

    Of course, working on yourself irregardless of relationship prospects is a worthwhile endeavour. Just keep at it, and you'll be happier for it.
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    That's not you in the picture then.
    Hilarious.
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    sorry OP but it sounds a bit like you arn't as good looking as you say you are if you're getting so much rejections.

    on the rare occasions there are good looking guys who are socially inept and this stops them getting girls, but it is quite rare ...and far more likely you are just over rating your looks.

    and if you are doing "daygame" I suggest you stop it. total waste of time for the majority of guys. I used to go to PUA meets a few years ago and probably 5-10% are actually getting laid from daygame. and when they do ...it takes literally hundreds of approaches.

    try bars/pubs instead of clubs as it's easier to talk.
    tbh though you should be doing better in clubs because clubs is more reliant on looks than bars/pubs

    and start screening women better. hang back a bit and wait for one to give you good eye contact or smile at you or something and approach those girls. If you just shotgun approach every woman you end up approaching a lot of girls who arn't interested.

    also try and join some social clubs or something.
 
 
 
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