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    I know thats the thing but like i am on a diet now and exercising like crazy so that will change and the mental health i cant help
    Sounds like you are helping the mental health - exercise is great for that too.
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    (Original post by stefano865)
    If we got on well then why not.

    Hopefully 'slightly overweight' doesn't mean 90kg or something.

    Don't wanna get crushed.
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    (Original post by Reality Check)
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    If I liked them: yes.

    Mental health / family problems and shyness would not bother me.
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    (Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
    Sounds like you are helping the mental health - exercise is great for that too.
    You thinks so??

    (Original post by Not Not L)
    My favourite type
    Seriously??

    (Original post by _gcx)
    If I liked them: yes.

    Mental health / family problems and shyness would not bother me.
    Aw there should be more guys like tbh
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    You thinks so??
    Various scientific studies suggest as much, so yes!
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    (Original post by anosmianAcrimony)
    Various scientific studies suggest as much, so yes!
    Well i guess thats good to know then.
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    Hmm, Depends really. The problem isn't the weight, look, Being Shy or Quite, In fact that is not a factor for me. The main factor is if the girl who has the insecurities or mental health struggles is willing to change, If she is willing to change then I am more than happy to date this person and help her to the best of my abilities to deal with their struggles!

    I had a female friend who was exactly as you described but she was not willing to change at all no matter how hard I tried to help her, that would put me off from attempting to help her since she will not change at all or even if she does, its only for a short period of time before she goes back to the old ways.

    Hope this helped!
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    Hmm, Depends really. The problem isn't the weight, look, Being Shy or Quite, In fact that is not a factor for me. The main factor is if the girl who has the insecurities or mental health struggles is willing to change, If she is willing to change then I am more than happy to date this person and help her to the best of my abilities to deal with their struggles!

    I had a female friend who was exactly as you described but she was not willing to change at all no matter how hard I tried to help her, that would put me off from attempting to help her since she will not change at all or even if she does, its only for a short period of time before she goes back to the old ways.

    Hope this helped!
    Thank you, that has helped, i am willing to changeso i guess thats a good thing
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    Thank you, that has helped, i am willing to changeso i guess thats a good thing
    Then you will not have any problem!

    Good luck
 
 
 
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