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    (Original post by mrsingh105)
    I've just found it so hard to meet Sikh girls that dress modestly, don't drink or go out to nightclubs, and don't sleep around. There are a few, but not many at all, and the ones that I have met that don't do that stuff, I wasn't interested in.

    I've met a girl who I want to marry that's a Muslim girl. Wears the hijab, abaya, prays five times a day, highly educated.

    I REALLY want to marry this girl. I'd do anything to marry her.

    How many Muslims would require the person they want to marry to convert before getting married? I would prefer to not do that, but if it means that I have to in order to marry her, then I will consider it.
    An insincere conversion is invalid, so to any Muslim girl who cares about her faith (which this girl you describe sounds like), you becoming a Muslim by name will hardly increase your chances as you will still be a non-Muslim technically.
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    (Original post by RobML)
    What are their numbers?

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    ur so silly roberto
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    ur so silly roberto
    I like the quiet shy girls too. In fact, my date on Friday doesn't drink. So what's your number?

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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I don't understand- you want to ask for her hand in marriage, but you haven't even got to know her properly?

    Sorry if I'm just assuming but that's what I've got from reading this thread.
    I do know her. I see her in the library with one of my friends. She's there everyday.
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    (Original post by RobML)
    I like the quiet shy girls too. In fact, my date on Friday doesn't drink. So what's your number?

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    1234 i can't marry u 5678
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    How is life?

    I made rice the other day, or in other words, I can now be married
    It's okay. How about you?
    No. You need to learn to make a lot more before that can happen.

    (Original post by mrsingh105)
    Well if you look at the reality, it is.
    Couldn't possibly be more different to be honest.
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    (Original post by mrsingh105)
    I've just found it so hard to meet Sikh girls that dress modestly, don't drink or go out to nightclubs, and don't sleep around. There are a few, but not many at all, and the ones that I have met that don't do that stuff, I wasn't interested in.

    I've met a girl who I want to marry that's a Muslim girl. Wears the hijab, abaya, prays five times a day, highly educated.

    I REALLY want to marry this girl. I'd do anything to marry her.

    How many Muslims would require the person they want to marry to convert before getting married? I would prefer to not do that, but if it means that I have to in order to marry her, then I will consider it.
    U cannot convert to the religion because of a woman. U must first be willing to accept the religion in its entirety and only convert because of God otherwise im afraid you wouldnt be a true convert. Also even if u do convert, within the asian community there is a very small amount of people who would accept a convert as they would still see u as Sikh, unfortunately and u will get a lot of slack for it. Tbh its a really tough thing so i would advise really looking into firstly the religion and checking to see if u did happen to convert,would the girl and her parents (more focus on them) accept u and allow u to marry their daughter. If so, then congrats. The rest should be easy
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    1234 i can't marry u 5678
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    I'm not asking you to marry me, calm down

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    (Original post by RobML)
    I'm not asking you to marry me, calm down

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    Why ?

    Wouldn't you like to marry me?

    I can cook rice!
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    (Original post by Asiangirl_18)
    U cannot convert to the religion because of a woman. U must first be willing to accept the religion in its entirety and only convert because of God otherwise im afraid you wouldnt be a true convert. Also even if u do convert, within the asian community there is a very small amount of people who would accept a convert as they would still see u as Sikh, unfortunately and u will get a lot of slack for it. Tbh its a really tough thing so i would advise really looking into firstly the religion and checking to see if u did happen to convert,would the girl and her parents (more focus on them) accept u and allow u to marry their daughter. If so, then congrats. The rest should be easy
    I would sincerely convert if she wanted me to. And therefore I would be accepting the religion in its entirety.
    Why are you bringing the asian community in this? She's not asian. And I don't really care what the community think. She is a very intelligent girl and I doubt she will think negatively.

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    (Original post by A Mockingbird)
    if ur not muslim there is 0% chance, also dont even try to convert to marry her. It wont work


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    And what makes you think that?

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    You either have to tell her how you feel for her and see what she says or let go if she's extremely religious. Most likely if she's religious, she would prefer marrying a Muslim guy but at least try and ask her Life's too short to not to say how you feel for someone.
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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    Why ?

    Wouldn't you like to marry me?

    I can cook rice!
    As lovely as you seem from the offset, I'd have to get to know you first

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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    You either have to tell her how you feel for her and see what she says or let go if she's extremely religious. Most likely if she's religious, she would prefer marrying a Muslim guy but at least try and ask her Life's too short to not to say how you feel for someone.
    Oh ello

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    (Original post by RobML)
    As lovely as you seem from the offset, I'd have to get to know you first

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    What if I just make you rice?
    Isn't that enough for you to whisk me away to the nearest registry office?
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    (Original post by TheBBQ)
    It's okay. How about you?
    No. You need to learn to make a lot more before that can happen.



    Couldn't possibly be more different to be honest.
    Both are monotheistic. Teach that prayer brings one closer to God. Teach to do good. Etc. Be a good person. Encourage charity. Says don't drink, don't gamble, don't have sex outside marriage.

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    (Original post by TheonlyMrsHolmes)
    What if I just make you rice?
    Isn't that enough for you to whisk me away to the nearest registry office?
    I could just buy a rice machine or something, women aren't objects smh

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    Hey Rob! How have you been?
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    (Original post by BrokenLife)
    Hey Rob! How have you been?
    Good good. I secured a date with someone I super fancy So I'm hoping she doesn't flake!
    What about you?

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    (Original post by RobML)
    I could just buy a rice machine or something, women aren't objects smh

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    They have those in Wales?

    You've clearly never had good rice

    Not good enough to marry!
 
 
 
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