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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Please keep anon, as I don't want people to recognise me.

    I seriously don't know what to do. I have this guy friend, and for the past year and a half, he's apparently been "in love" with me. I completely don't feel the same way, in fact, I find him a bit creepy sometimes.We have quite an argumentative relationship and he's very...odd... at times.

    I have told him countless times that I don't feel the same. Just as I think hes getting over me and things are back to normal...he then goes and makes a strange comment about me and him and asks why we can't be together and stuff.

    It scares me. I don't know what to do anymore. Tonight we have argued about it again. He always wants to see me alone, come to my house etc and I don't want to do that sort of stuff because it gives him the wrong idea. He doesn't listen to me, at all. He never understands that I DON'T FANCY HIM. It's difficult because he's my FRIEND, so we talk and socialise in a group together, but urrrghh.

    He "doesn't believe" that I don't fancy him. Who talks like that?? I don't know if he's just wishful thinking or completely deluded. Both scare me to be honest.

    I just don't know what to say anymore. It's not a case of, "awww he loves you" or anything, it is scary. He's strange and I don't know what to do. I don't want to do anything alone with him, but I'm always scared he'll turn up at my house.


    (Original post by Gemma_08)
    It really doesn't look like she is leading him on. She is scared of him.
    If she was truly scared she would stop being his friend.

    No girl who is truly in fear for her safety by some creepy guy remains friends with them, its stupid.

    The solution is right in front of you OP...STOP BEING HIS FRIEND. :woo:
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